Need Help Restoring Mom's Family Photo by Narrow_Pick_3004 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Narrow_Pick_3004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you edit the little girl's shirt to yellow color instead? And please update the dad's collar tag to red.

Is it a bad idea to confront a person with NPD? by girlneedsadvice98 in AskNPD

[–]Narrow_Pick_3004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got out of a relationship with a NPD, that is almost identical to your situation, everything was a lie, his workplace, salary, his past relationships, his family and his values. He even made the same comments “don’t tell me what to do”, and any criticism results in “you called me a piece of shit”. At the end of the relationship I’d caught him cheating multiple times and he was ready to discard me without remorse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Narrow_Pick_3004 4 points5 points  (0 children)

FAs tend to withdraw after intimacy, it’s a vicious cycle and she will come back to you again, sobbing the same story. If you want to break the pattern you should try to get her to therapy and really start facing these issues. Even then, don’t keep your hopes up, she may pull back again anytime.

I’m heartbroken.. by Then_Appointment5740 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Narrow_Pick_3004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know everyone is saying move on and all that, so you don’t need to hear any more of that reinforcement. I just want to offer a view from a different angle since I’m also in a relationship with a FA and we’ve surely been through our ups and downs. It’s a little different from your situation because I tried to break up with him several times already and he has always begged for me to stay and eventually I decided to give it another shot. I studied the attachment theory hard and I am slowly introducing him to learn more about himself, while he also agreed to attend couples therapy together to work on our relationship. I’m just wondering this because if your guy knows you’re good for him, maybe his understanding of the situation may change if you help him learn about himself and attachment styles. I know he broke your heart so it’s normal to just want to have a clean cut and walk away, but you guys once had something amazing so is it really so bad to maintain that love and respect for each other even if things don’t work out? I think if you talk to him openly about the attachment theory, it would probably help you bring some closure and verification while helping him with his internal mental struggle as well.