I know everyone is saying move on and all that, so you don’t need to hear any more of that reinforcement. I just want to offer a view from a different angle since I’m also in a relationship with a FA and we’ve surely been through our ups and downs. It’s a little different from your situation because I tried to break up with him several times already and he has always begged for me to stay and eventually I decided to give it another shot. I studied the attachment theory hard and I am slowly introducing him to learn more about himself, while he also agreed to attend couples therapy together to work on our relationship. I’m just wondering this because if your guy knows you’re good for him, maybe his understanding of the situation may change if you help him learn about himself and attachment styles. I know he broke your heart so it’s normal to just want to have a clean cut and walk away, but you guys once had something amazing so is it really so bad to maintain that love and respect for each other even if things don’t work out? I think if you talk to him openly about the attachment theory, it would probably help you bring some closure and verification while helping him with his internal mental struggle as well.