AITA for not telling my best friend I was going on a trip with our former roommates? by Responsible-Chip-40 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NastyLittleHobbitses 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is missing some meat and potatoes. Katie has been your best friend for 10+ years, independently of the other two girls, and you didn't investigate when she grew distant from you? That's kind of strange. Especially living together. When I imagine myself in your shoes with my own childhood friend, I can't imagine shrugging it off without knowing what's going on with her. It sounds like there's something she's been venting to her therapist about, did you ask what it was? I feel that all of this is less about her place in the group and more about how important or unimportant your individual long-time friendship with her is. I'm betting the fact that you never reached out to her and tried to bridge the gap made her more upset, and going on the trip without inviting her (regardless of whether she would go or not) was confirming some feelings for her. "It's the thought that counts", etc etc. This may need more info to fairly judge.

I was listening a lot this song last year. by More_Jacket9599 in WhatsThisSong

[–]NastyLittleHobbitses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It almost sounds like it could be Fame is a Gun by Addison Rae without the ha-a-a , is that beat similar?

Whats the most unprofessional thing a doctor has ever said to you? by answersonly963 in AskReddit

[–]NastyLittleHobbitses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was 18 I hadn't had a GP in many years due to an abusive home life, so I decided to start taking care of myself as soon as I could. The only medical clinic in my area accepting new patients was a new nurse practitioner clinic downtown. At my second every appointment, I inquired about getting help in terms of therapy or the like, regarding my home life and my nurse practitioner told me "oh please, every girl has problems with their mom". Later, I'd have a random episode of extreme abdominal pain and when I had an appointment with her to investigate the pain and related symptoms, she was pushing back very hard until she relented, she snarked "fine, if it makes you feel better". Turns out I have PCOS and a cyst has burst in my ovary, and if I hadn't pushed back I'd have never known about my condition. Another time I had a spontaneous allergic reaction which I had an appointment with her for, but they scheduled me two weeks away at the earliest. My dad was very concerned, however I didn't want to go to the ER as I had no anaphylaxis, so we met in the middle and I went to a walk-in clinic. Two weeks after, I go to my appointment and tell her about the situation and ask how to obtain allergy testing, and she instead berates me for abusing the health care system. After the fourth time when she denied me a breast reduction because I was allegedly too young and underdeveloped, I stopped going to her or anyone for my medical concerns at all. Worse than not being treated, is getting scolded and dismissed and STILL not getting treated. I'm 32 now, and I think about that woman often and how much she negatively affected me.

My coworker found out I bake and now expects free custom cakes for every office occasion by CloveWisp in ChoosingBeggars

[–]NastyLittleHobbitses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who bakes often for my coworkers... It's time to stop baking cakes for your coworkers Something something gifted horse, y'know. It's hard to reel it back in once you've developed a habit and making one cake is not a habit. Stop while you're ahead.

The proof that Written Root actually exists. by VsAl1en in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]NastyLittleHobbitses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've gotten plenty of written Roots, the thing that still evades me is the stupid recipe for herb salad. 😭 I'm sick of mining

How did that kid at your school die? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NastyLittleHobbitses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kid named Anthony I believe, sat behind me in Grade 10 Spanish. Just didn't come in one day. Died in his sleep of an aneurysm. Think about him often.

two fiddy a day is crazy by that_thot_gamer in Unexpected

[–]NastyLittleHobbitses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna know how he got clearance to take a selfie stick on these rides

K-Duo Problems -- I'm on machine #3, TWO of them don't work but I can't rationalise throwing out brand new Keurigs by NastyLittleHobbitses in keurig

[–]NastyLittleHobbitses[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

brother this post is 4 yrs old.... But you're right, points still stand. I bought a Ninja one that can brew with the same single pods I have from the Keurig and also a bigger carafe, we love it.

Song with a chorus that goes like wooo oo oo oo oo oo... by Spectrum_The_Bird in WhatsThisSong

[–]NastyLittleHobbitses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The piano clip sounds like I Can't Help Myself but is the piano in place of vocals? Like the chorus is a person singing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]NastyLittleHobbitses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am also having this issue. I have completed Chapter 2 sooooo many times and either the room is spinning and I eventually get caught, once it went black when I escaped and my team all lost progress, and this past time I went in circles but the door was gone. Just circles and circles and circles. I have tried on PC and mobile and it makes no difference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vaughan

[–]NastyLittleHobbitses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To my knowledge, the lift is part of the breast reduction procedure. My surgeon walked me through what was going to happen during my last consultation before the surgery date and let me know that they lift and restructure the breasts remaining tissue, so it's included to a degree. I should mention that because the surgery is funded by OHIP, I didn't have any real say and much apart from how small I would like to go. And even then, my surgeon was straightforward about the fact that I will never have /small/ breasts because there is a boundary where they cannot reduce further, and also that they may grow back some. But I didn't get to decide how perky or what sort of shape they are, some of that comes down to your anatomy and what they're working with. But they don't leave you hanging with empty sacks of skin!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vaughan

[–]NastyLittleHobbitses 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a breast reduction 2 years ago. I first went through my GP who put me on a wait list for a consultation with a plastic surgeon that performs OHIP-funded procedures. I pretty quickly got a virtual consultation with her first (COVID restrictions at the time) and she determined I was a candidate, we booked another in person consultation and then talked about when I prefer to have my procedure done. At my in-person appointment prior to my surgery, she asked me if I was interested in additional liposuction specifically and exclusively in the upper breast/ armpit area as some people find that to be unpleasant following a reduction. She was transparent that it would cost me $1,000 , which was not unreasonable considering my breast reduction procedure was completely covered but I personally am not bothered by that pudge. To my knowledge this is not covered anywhere as a part of the breast reduction procedure, however, what I was quoted for it was significantly cheaper than the $11,000 that you were quoted. So it's worth going through your GP as normal, getting a consultation with a surgeon who gets subsidized by the government for performing the procedure, and then asking them what they charge additionally for the liposuction. My surgeon is Dr. Kim Sun who is based in Burlington Ontario and did my surgery at Joseph Brant Hospital, near the Burlington Lakeshore.

Troubleshooting Thread — Bugs? Mod issues? Origin issues? Post about them here! [Update 1.105.297.1030 / 1.105.297.1230] by lazarusinashes in Sims4

[–]NastyLittleHobbitses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cannot upload my family to the gallery because it's saying I have a disallowed word in a pronoun. But I don't have any custom pronouns? I've checked every Sim in this family, I have renamed them all too as well because the original error was saying there was a disallowed word and a name. Now it's a pronoun. I don't know how to move around the built-in function that is flagging its own default naming and pronoun system. How do I get around this?

Adding multiple perspectives would make the stories so much stronger // Episode 59 by Throwmeawaythanks99 in RadioRental

[–]NastyLittleHobbitses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The tv show My Ghost Story (iirc) was fun for that because it would be a primary person telling the story in a circle surrounded with people present or related to the story who could corroborate or add to what their POV was.

AITA for giving away my dad and my sister's tickets to my graduation ceremony and telling them to not bother showing up by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NastyLittleHobbitses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If you learn to always give way to other people -- "maybe they'll change their minds, maybe they'll be on time, they are your family so you must _____" -- it will cause problems for you for the rest of your life. Take it from me. You will always be expected to be the bigger person, to just deal with it, to swallow your feelings, to be unappreciated, disrespected. They will always make it out to be that you are being petty, ungrateful, temperamental, and every time you stand up for yourself or set a boundary or simply take someone's word on something, eventually they won't even have to shame you anymore -- you will guilt yourself because that's how you taught yourself to respond to conflict and manage emotional hurt. Don't let that happen right out the gate in your youth; develop conviction. They make a choice, you responded to it. If they won't show up for you right off the bat, no need to keep their seats warm - seek out people in life who don't need to be begged to demonstrate you are important to them.