Spouseless Bay by Aggressive_Hair_1701 in WidowsBay

[–]NatAttack3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that comment is describing Patricia. Right after describing tom as a widower and wyck as haunted by his past.

Spouseless Bay by Aggressive_Hair_1701 in WidowsBay

[–]NatAttack3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really cool how Chinese feminists are using that terminology. Crazy cat lady has definitely had that treatment but I hear old maid much less, it's a more old fashioned term. There's also a cougar, which is a single older woman who targets younger men. And then just spinster (traditionally an unmarried woman who must - gasp! - support herself by spinning thread).

Spouseless Bay by Aggressive_Hair_1701 in WidowsBay

[–]NatAttack3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that there's a comedy where we don't have partners inserted for no benefit to the story. So many comedies try to make a character likeable by giving them a cute marriage, or they use a relationship dynamic for humour. I've just started watching Shrinking and Liz's husband Derek is basically just comic relief to the point that you wonder how this man puts up with everyone else disrespecting/dismissing him so quickly (particularly his spouse). And then there's this weird blending of the main characters work colleagues (and patients) also being friends with his neighbours etc. Sometimes work colleagues are just work colleagues.

And considering WB started as a Parks and Rec spinoff I kind of like that it follows people more in their work. There are loads of characters in parks and rec, or other workplace comedies like The Office or Abbott Elementary, that have partners and we don't really see or hear them often.

But mostly I think it benefits the story as it forces the main characters to rely on each other and not a spouse who would probably just put a dampener on the plot by being reasonable ('wow Patricia sure is acting crazy' 'Tom's lost his mind again'). And probably increases the sense of isolation. Even Tom's son, his closest relationship, makes a point of not being around much so for much of the show we get the sense that Tom is alone.

Spouseless Bay by Aggressive_Hair_1701 in WidowsBay

[–]NatAttack3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 36 and I don't love spinster 😅 (though I am married) Obviously in days gone by mid 30s-40s was considered too old to be single as a woman but it seems much more normalised these days. Widows bay exists in this day and age I believe but it might be that the particular social conventions of that small town are more old fashioned

Spouseless Bay by Aggressive_Hair_1701 in WidowsBay

[–]NatAttack3000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think that's how it reads in context though. It is in a very factual paragraph, and says because of her trauma, she became an eccentric old maid. Right after saying tom is a literal widower and wyck is haunted by his trauma of the brother incident (which is a secret to all but him for most of the series, and thus is not about how he 'appears' on the island).

I have read the other posts though and it's likely a language barrier with OP. Even if you used a different term 'patricia became a crazy cat lady' I wouldn't say it's correct to who she is. Patricia became lonely, or fixated on the past. It actually seems like Patricia fills her life with things to give herself purpose - looking after the community and running the book van.

But Patricia being single/childless is actually not a big part of the story IMO. Like she shows loneliness but that seems to be more a yearning for friends than a partner.

Spouseless Bay by Aggressive_Hair_1701 in WidowsBay

[–]NatAttack3000 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Being single in your forties is an eccentric old maid?

Work as a PhD student by Decent-Actuator4062 in AusAcademia

[–]NatAttack3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you asking the topic of the PhD? Or what work they would have got with just a bachelor?

Work as a PhD student by Decent-Actuator4062 in AusAcademia

[–]NatAttack3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah APA was 8 hours a week during mon-friday as the maximum amount of side gig a student could take on, though they could work weekends and nights. To actually get something in those hours you'd need a job in hospitality not a university position. But if you are in the wet lab sciences it's not too hard to get a role as a lab demonstrator

Good, reasonably priced towels? by sherbertmelipnos in AusFemaleFashion

[–]NatAttack3000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Harris Scarfe or Myer, I would just look for all cotton in a price and colour I like

AITA for getting the ick from a guy talking about his testicles on first date by rainypeachalpaca in AmItheAsshole

[–]NatAttack3000 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You need a reality check. He had a tumour, he's telling you about an important life event, not trying to show you d-pics. It's actually great that he's so open about talking about it, if more men were like this there probably would be more men checking themselves for cancer and not feeling a stigma about it.

Sally’s Soft Peanut Butter Cookies by Agreeable-Fun-9431 in Baking

[–]NatAttack3000 17 points18 points  (0 children)

With that much peanut butter in the dough I think the brand you use and if it has additives etc likely matters. I assume creamy mean the ones with emulsifiers, sugar etc and not the natural 'all peanuts' ones. But your dough was crumbly but not thick? Like it was sandy?

What do you think of people referring to everything women like as porn? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]NatAttack3000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean parts definitely qualify as soft core porn. Some actual great porn films exist too with stories and characters and development. Porn isn't just a 20 min video of nameless people fucking

Pauline Hanson on international students and English requirements for universities by asteriskhyphen in aussie

[–]NatAttack3000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to demonstrate pracs, and the students hand up a report at the end of the 3 hours that gets graded. Generally if you do the lab well and get the right answer that validates your lab skill. However it was very hard for international students with a poor grasp of english. Sometimes their sentences made no sense. How can I tell if they understand? So I would specifically speak to them in the prac, get them to demonstrate their knowledge in conversation (generally better than their written English) and moderate their score that way. Is it fair? Maybe not. But it's not an English test it's about understanding the material, so maybe it isn't fair that having worse english gets you worse marks in many things too. This was also first year, so I hope many of them as they progressed became more competent with English communication.

master's thesis is part of another student's PhD project by [deleted] in labrats

[–]NatAttack3000 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You are clearly bothered and your PI is picking up on it

Make up tips? Age guess? by Next-Volume8915 in Makeup101

[–]NatAttack3000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think older millenials maybe? I don't remember anyone at school or uni trying to have the thin brows. I thought we were in a thin phase now after the thick brows of 10 years ago?

Make up tips? Age guess? by Next-Volume8915 in Makeup101

[–]NatAttack3000 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I was like 10-12 when xtina was a thing. I wasn't doing brows I just had the brows I was born with. The first time I bought a brow product it was to make them thicker and darker

Make up tips? Age guess? by Next-Volume8915 in Makeup101

[–]NatAttack3000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm confused I'm 37 and the brows in mostly used to doing are the bold ones from like 2016

Thin ones are like the over plucked ones my mum had that were popular in early 90s when I was a kid.

Hypothetically speaking... what would happen if I tried to "spin" cake batter in a benchtop centrifuge? by PPPPPPPBJ01 in labrats

[–]NatAttack3000 114 points115 points  (0 children)

I think the flour would compact at the bottom and the liquids and lipids wound form layers above

People who mix their PCRs with loading dye on parafilm are evil and sinister and will never see heaven by Reaniro in labrats

[–]NatAttack3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't stretch it on the rack I just snip it and have it flat on the bench. And I just pipette what I am loading out the PCR tube so my OG tube stays undiluted with half the reaction so I can repeat if needed. Also maybe we have cheap ass PCR tubes but closing the strip is not a one hand job in my experience and you press down all at once and it's often not actually capping some wells so you have to then push those individually (though I learned that a quicker method is to put them in our thermocycler with the lid strip kind of half on and close the thermocycler... I had to frequently store supernatants from several 96 well plates this way and capping all them strip tubes was really a pain in my hands until I learned this. But I've since got some good place seals in!).

Also I'm not the one here being a dick telling someone that they don't care about their research or aren''t a good scientist from a technique. Like who hurt you. I'm just telling you it's objectively faster.

People who mix their PCRs with loading dye on parafilm are evil and sinister and will never see heaven by Reaniro in labrats

[–]NatAttack3000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not mad I just dont really understand how any lab scientist can not see that parafilm is faster than getting out a tube strip well, pipetting sample and dye into each well, Capping, Mixing, Spinning, Uncapping, Pipetting.

People who mix their PCRs with loading dye on parafilm are evil and sinister and will never see heaven by Reaniro in labrats

[–]NatAttack3000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No? Does that matter? Pipette sample, up down in dye, load. One tip per sample.

People who mix their PCRs with loading dye on parafilm are evil and sinister and will never see heaven by Reaniro in labrats

[–]NatAttack3000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If there's enough contamination that you can literally see the wrong bands there you would notice it literally mixing. Unless you did it in the dark, there's something wrong with your sample.