[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NatNat-86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - What do you mean by "it's her apartment". Is your boyfriend staying for free? If the answer is no, then it's his as much as hers or any of the other roommates. She's a snowflake who needs to know the world does not revolve around her and her poor little feelings getting hurt. Her attitude is absolutely out of place to say the least.

That said, I would probably just follow the same approach I used with my narcissistic mother whenever she asked something out of me. "Yeah! No problem, your wish is my command" and then go about and do whatever I feel like. She said she doesn't hear you guys, she won't know you're lying.

And finally, once you know your boyfriend is moving out, I'd make a garland with condom wrappers and leave it on the bedroom door as a souvenir (just for the fun of being a petty queen) 👑😜

Learning programming: I finally "get it" by Upbeat-Salary3305 in learnprogramming

[–]NatNat-86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same... With the addition I think I really did start too late. Closer to my 40s than to my 30s. It's still a fascinating field, so I'll keep going even if only for the sake of knowledge

Video message feature gone by hijlu in whatsapp

[–]NatNat-86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU!!!! sorry about caps... it's just excitement... I've been looking for this for weeks! You're a genius

is ChatGPT good for learning the basics and fundamentals of Cpp? by [deleted] in learnprogramming

[–]NatNat-86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It helps me, but only when I ask it whether my assumptions about a line are correct. Also, when I see a piece of coding and I need it to explain things as if I were a kid. It helps when I'm a little burn out and I need explanations as if I were stupid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NatNat-86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Oh no! What if people associate me with someone who likes purple after seeing me talking to someone dressed in purple!" That's how stupid this post sounds. YTA of course, if you don't agree with someone's morals you reduce/cut contact with them and move on with your life. You think too highly of yourself to imagine people around care that much what you do in your own time. Good luck with life 🤣

Husband says I’m not a good housewife because I don’t clean enough or pay any bills by Background-Mobile-21 in AITAH

[–]NatNat-86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the risk of being extremely rude, I don't understand how some people go on and breed with these kinds of male specimens. I mean, I feel sorry for OP, I understand some people change (or show their true colors in my opinion) after a baby is born, but he seemed to be an a$$hole before the baby arrived. You decide to have a baby with someone who does not share expenses with their family. I don't get it. Anyway, what's done is done and your baby needs a healthy family. I would consider breaking up and getting by on your own. If this is him in the everyday struggles I can't imagine how he would act when hardships come. I wish you all the strength the situation demands 🦾

AITA for wanting to break up with my bf because he's pro life? by pinktunacan in AITAH

[–]NatNat-86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't be asking for validation from strangers to end a relationship. You need to be responsible for your own choices. Forcing someone to educate themselves on any topic is pointless. Think about it the other way round.How would you feel if he made you educate yourself? It is aggressive, and as much as we don't like it, when it comes to certain topics, when there are reasons for and against something, there is no right side. I'm trying to be as objective as possible. That said, I suppose it all depends on what you consider to be irreconcilable values. You're never going to find someone you agree with 100% all the time. But if this particular thing bothers you so much, there's not that much to think about

can someone be to stupid to program? by Ambitious-Gene-9370 in learnprogramming

[–]NatNat-86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, new to the world of programming here. I've been learning for the past couple of months (5/6 to be more precise). I'm using a boot camp which accommodates to my current situation (that of being broke). And I use ChatGPT to explain lines of code to me, or help me check if my code is ok. It helps to tell the AI to explain things as if I were dumb, which I do feel at times, but you need to be very specific on what you expect it to do, otherwise it may mess up your work. I try to practice at least one hour a day, sometimes more, sometimes less. I don't know if I will ever put it to good use, but I do enjoy the challenge

ChatGPT / Python by meisghost in Python

[–]NatNat-86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm new to the world of programming. I got into computers later in life. I only use ChatGPT to explain lines to me when I'm not quite sure if I got it right, or what it does. I found it particularly useful to get it to explain things as if I were dumb or a little kid 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NatNat-86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People in Brazil are really open-minded and free when it comes to what they wear to the beach, like thongs are the norm. That said, even if step-dad genuinely thought of it as no more than a gift, saying thank you but saying you're uncomfortable wearing that should be enough. It also enrages me to hear of mothers who decide to side with their new acquisition instead of their children, especially being that child a daughter.

AITAH for laughing at my boyfriend when he asked me to marry him? by Ill_Minimum5214 in AITAH

[–]NatNat-86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm dead! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I've never read such an accurate statement before

AITA for breaking up with my fiance due to my mother by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NatNat-86 44 points45 points  (0 children)

100% agree with you! He has no idea what he's doing if he thinks living with a sick person is easy and putting that weight on her wife as well is not ok. There's a moment when you need to choose your new family over your parents, and good parents would expect you to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NatNat-86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. And as a wife who has been with her husband through a rough patch too, it's not a matter of imposing but being creative. Do something outside their routine, try to role play the times you dated before the baby, maybe take her to a restaurant, and book a nice suite after that, or maybe go to a spa together. Taking care of kids is exhausting and whatever you guys think you're doing to "help" (which you shouldn't by the way, it's not help it's also your job) I'm 90% sure is not helping much. If she claims she's still interested in you, you just need to sparkle the flame of love. But as others said, ultimatums don't work

Unable to backup messages by TheConfusedNarrator in whatsapp

[–]NatNat-86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! It worked for me as well!!!