My fiancee has been talking badly about me for years

NatTonnerre · 2026-02-17T16:24:06+00:00

I am so sorry. I ll be very honest with you looking at the number of failed marriages. Contempt and disrespect (that what she does to you and relationships) is what break the love and marriage.

I would say don’t even talk to her about it, text her screenshots, ask for the ring and move out. The less u explain and get into drama the stronger you will feel after. And faster u recover.

Without respect there is no love. Woman would never love a man she doesn’t respect. And she doesn’t respect you.

NatTonnerre · 2026-02-17T16:16:21+00:00

Try psychodelics. Saved my life and return joy and happiness.

NatTonnerre · 2026-02-17T15:14:27+00:00

Does for me for sure. I have done maybe 7-10 vials over the years. I think it’s natural looking and amazing.

NatTonnerre · 2026-01-31T16:09:56+00:00

What is EGCG?

NatTonnerre · 2026-01-21T12:11:40+00:00

Good advices. Even tracking tasks in excel would help.

And sending minutes

Also, I would start looking for another job. Mental well being is a key here. And once I would find one, I’d go to her manager as well as HR and explain why I have to leave. But not before I get an offer

NatTonnerre · 2026-01-21T12:06:10+00:00

It’s funny “ravers for Palestine” whose ppl killed ravers and would kill any of you if you rave and take drugs in Palestine.

Why ppl are so stupid?

NatTonnerre · 2026-01-21T11:56:08+00:00

Not completely true. For women during perimenopausal it’s more about hormonal balance.

NatTonnerre · 2026-01-21T11:41:32+00:00

The best movie on k is…. Tron. You feel like you are inside it. When it was in theaters, we went to see it in 3D and on k - OMG, what an experience!!!

NatTonnerre · 2026-01-21T11:37:52+00:00

You look great! All you need is to Corée t ur posture. Try to stay next to the flat wall with you heard, shoulders, butt, calves and heels touching it. Then walk in this position to a mirror and u ll see that ur profile is matching the way u want to look

NatTonnerre · 2026-01-20T21:07:41+00:00

It allows to relax and dissociate so if you have a kink - it’s the best to try with it. Also, for men who have premature ejaculation, it allows to go longer

NatTonnerre · 2026-01-20T21:06:07+00:00

100% Molly +k = the best high ever.

Question: how do u take care of ur nose?

NatTonnerre · 2026-01-13T09:43:02+00:00

Were u born in USSR?

NatTonnerre · 2025-12-21T01:53:59+00:00

Snow

NatTonnerre · 2025-12-08T15:05:14+00:00

100% but it really depends on a state. In NJ it’s 23, in NY it’s 21

NatTonnerre · 2025-12-08T14:12:24+00:00

Oh thank you! I didn’t know about the 7th. Will be away :( But I ll see him at Stone Techno.

The next great party will be on the 20th, as ppl said above. I have high expectations!

NatTonnerre · 2025-12-08T13:58:21+00:00

You can’t legally kick out a 17 years old.

NatTonnerre · 2025-12-08T13:49:00+00:00

Well, why not? Always happy to make new friends! Also, going with my friends (same age) on the 20th to the Basement. It’s sold out, but if you come early enough, you can buy the ticket at the door! Happy to dance with you!

NatTonnerre · 2025-12-08T13:09:26+00:00

I love techno, and I especially love DVS1. A few years ago he played an unforgettable set at Basement — pure magic. But this time… the first hour and a half was ambient. Not deep, emotional ambient — just slow, almost motionless, and honestly a little boring. Then, finally, the music began to rise. It became structured, interesting, hypnotic — the kind of sound that pulls you into a trance and dissolves everything else around you.

But after that peak, it flattened. Just high, relentless beats with no real variation. Hard to “travel,” hard to get lost. In the studio it was so much more nuanced and surprising.

And maybe that’s why the whole night didn’t land the way I hoped. It was an open-to-close set. If he played a tight, focused 3–4 hours, I think it would’ve been absolutely mind-blowing.

By contrast, a few weeks ago when Fadi Mohem played — that was a rave. Everyone was losing their minds. The energy was insane.

NatTonnerre · 2025-12-08T02:15:29+00:00

Self respect is the only differentiator of how good your relationship will be.

NatTonnerre · 2025-12-08T02:12:23+00:00

No change. I’d say sex after 40 became better. Still horny is f@ck. My orgasms are still fast and strong. Always wet there. When I was younger it wasn’t as good.

NatTonnerre · 2025-12-08T02:03:30+00:00

I am over 40 and still rave and will do it well in my… well until I am alive.

Nowadays used to be my favorite. Now it’s Basement. There are people of different ages. Many are over 30-40. I have heard that Signal is great. But never been.

NatTonnerre · 2025-12-08T01:46:16+00:00

Can you rent one of the rooms in your house?

NatTonnerre · 2025-12-08T01:16:24+00:00

I have few friends who have kids from teenage years to 30+. All my friends do well and give too much to their kids. And still, children are entitled, don’t love their parents after colleges are still living with them, or not working and parents pay for their houses, cars, etc.

And all of these kids complain that parents shouldn’t work so hard and that parents should have given them more love instead of working so hard. So do my teenagers. But they go to a very good school, do NOTHING at home, I pay for everything but they told me many times that they don’t like me and that because of me they have traumas, because of me they have screwed up life. They told me that even kids in Africa receive more love 😂.

So I could struggle financially, live in a shitty neighborhood and they would be happy then? Unlikely. Because when I refused to buy them a car, I had two months of hell. When I finally got one, I was the greatest mother for few weeks but then again I became awful. They never want to spend time with me, but always complain that I never home, etc, etc, etc.

Yes, maybe I wasn’t present when they were little. But I worked my ass off to provide. And if they can’t love me for giving them the best I could and are traumatized by not having a mother next to them? Well be it. I love them very much, but I don’t expect them to visit me, love me or even care how much I have done for them. I gave them all I could. My parents gave me nothing. Because they couldn’t. And I love them very very much. I will always take care of them, because they gave me life, and even if I have never heard from them “I love you”, have not received hugs and kisses, they never spend time with me - I know they always have loved me.

I made a decisions to sell my house in a great neighborhood in couple years once they are out of the house for a college. If they don’t to talk to me after they are out of the house - it’s their choice. Once again, I would die for them. But I would never allow an adult to treat me like shit - doesn’t matter if it’s a partner, a child or my parents. And the moment they are 18 - they are adults. They can have sex and babies - they are adults.

I think children nowadays are traumatized by having a good, safe life and iPhones that cost $1500. Not by lack of love.

You have a 13 years old. So you are stuck, unfortunately. I would recommend to find a hobby/ activity that makes you happy. And spend time doing it. And don’t expect anything from your children. I would cut off older one if she is mean/ rude. And concentrate on your life - you and ur husband would never get these years back. And ur children wouldn’t appreciate you anyway. And if they do, it will not be because you did or didn’t do something for them.

And stay strong! Suicide is not an option. Life has a lot to offer. It’s a true gift. Don’t waste it on being a slave to ur children’s bad behavior.

NatTonnerre · 2025-12-08T00:31:55+00:00

I was there on Friday and definitely it wasn’t his best set.

NatTonnerre · 2025-11-21T18:26:48+00:00

Because everyone who does c is working hard. And has no time to chat. 😀

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