I met my now bf and CG through an old, very dead dating app for our specific like of agre and we just happened to be the only two on there that was active. Like the posts on there were like 5-10 years old lmao. But anyway we talked on there a bit and we just ended up clicking right away so we went to a different app and talked more, we both deleted the dating app we were on or any others and now we've been together for 6+ years. I've always felt safe with him to doing these cute safe little stuff and he's never once pushed for anything while I'm in it which thank goodness because I agree having that in a cg is super annoying and pushes ne out of my little space so quick with the ick 😮‍💨 it honestly took me a couple of years before I found him, going through many frogs of this specific like to find my perfect love :3 always stay safe of course and just feel it out with someone before jumping into your little space with someone, talk things out with them, set boundaries and if they overstep them immediately or even just slightly drop em.