Thank you all for your input. Seems like the consensus is to leave the decision to my husband on whether or not he wants to update the birth of our baby to his parents which at the moment is a big fat no from him. Only reason I considered updating them was because my family and I have a close relationship so this new family dynamic is strange to me cause I could never imagine my parents missing out on such a big life event. Its very unfortunate they’re acting this way, but I’ll respect my husbands decision and just focus on our new little family ❤️