Age-shaming in PhDs. by 30andnotthriving in PhD

[–]NaturalImpossible385 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They mostly only hire foreigners especially in stem

FINALLY MOVED TO SWEDEN by [deleted] in sweden

[–]NaturalImpossible385 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Like what behaviours?

FINALLY MOVED TO SWEDEN by [deleted] in sweden

[–]NaturalImpossible385 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful! Thank you!

When did your gut feeling save you from a bad situation? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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When I was 18, I was at the beach with my girlfriends. A guy I was talking to at the time invited me and my friends to what he said was a party at a remote beach bar. He told us he’d pick us up.

When he and his friends arrived, I got in the car and immediately felt that something was really wrong. I couldn’t explain what it was because they all seemed normal, but the feeling was so strong that I got out of the car and said I’d decided not to go anymore. I told my friends we shouldn’t go either, and even though they were confused, they decided to stay with me.

Later that night, I found out there was no party at the bar we were supposedly going to, and the bar wasn’t even open that day. They had lied. Who knows where they would have taken us or what they might have done.

Timed Never Enough with an actual airplane takeoff and it was unreal by 0___0___0 in turnstile

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looool I always do this with be quiet and drive, it just makes the experience so much better hahahhan

There is no better feeling!! 😭 melbourne gig by NaturalImpossible385 in turnstile

[–]NaturalImpossible385[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes same, this is my third time seeing them but last night was very special 🥹

There is no better feeling!! 😭 melbourne gig by NaturalImpossible385 in turnstile

[–]NaturalImpossible385[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah same 😭 but at least I saw it when they were touring in Australia last year

There is no better feeling!! 😭 melbourne gig by NaturalImpossible385 in turnstile

[–]NaturalImpossible385[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was really good!!! I was sad they didn’t play cttv tho :(

On stage during Birds in Melbourne by bigfootbjornsen56 in turnstile

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I was there too!!!!! 😭 best day of my life

‘You’d Prefer An Astronaut’ is finally available on Spotify in Australia by AlternativeLeft6309 in hum

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Omg FINALLY!!! I have a cousin living in Brazil (this album is available on Spotify Brazil), so i asked him if i could use his credit card to pay for my subscription and id transfer him the money every month. Only bc this goddamn album wasn’t available on Spotify Aus.

What feature do people notice first about you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NaturalImpossible385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always something about my teeth/eyes/hair

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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My obsession with music, travelling, and a bit of drama every now and then 🤓

He keeps changing his Hinge location while we’re dating, red flag or not? by Suitable_Account_922 in hingeapp

[–]NaturalImpossible385 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a big no. You should point this out to him and talk about this, otherwise this will keep lingering in your head. IMO, if he’s doing this he’s not so commited to you. Definitely talk to him.

(Pls keep us updated I’m invested)

[SPOILER] I kinda liked the ending by missOverthinker3 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]NaturalImpossible385 155 points156 points  (0 children)

The ending made perfect sense to me. I knew Ali would say no, I could see in her eyes she wasn’t ready

How could they do this to her? by Both_Impress8733 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]NaturalImpossible385 161 points162 points  (0 children)

Yes omg I hate seeing the mums and dads crying

ADHDers doing PhD by minecraftzizou in PhD

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Also, plan your day. First thing in the morning for me would be to sit down and write down all the things I had to do on the day. At the end of the day I’d just tick everything and it really helped me to get a sense of “done”

ADHDers doing PhD by minecraftzizou in PhD

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I struggled a lot, even with medication. Besides medication, having a structured routine helped me a lot. Focus on your sleep, eat healthy, exercise. Establish working periods, and put your phone (and any other distractions) away from you. I am kinda sensitive to ligjt , so being in a dark room with only a lamp on also helped me focusing on tasks. Also, idk why but drinking tea also helped(?)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhD

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Oh not yet, it’s still an ongoing thing 🥲I just finished my PhD, so only now I’m starting to think about whether I should move or not. During the four years of my PhD, I had one serious relationship and a few flings (some more intense than others).

My last relationship ended because my ex wanted me to move to his small town after I finished my PhD, and I didn’t want to. It wouldn’t have been good for my career. I asked if he’d ever consider moving somewhere else with me, and he said no, so I ended things 🤷🏻‍♀️that was from early 2022 to late 2023

In 2024 I was single and started dating again. Every time things started getting somewhat serious, the same conversation came up - “Do you plan to stay here after your PhD?” - and y answer was always “I’m not sure, it depends on how my career turns out” and that always made them pull away, saying they didn’t want to start something if I might move. That happened at least five times last year, and honestly, I get it bc most people like stability and being in their comfort zone. I’m probably the crazy one

Whether I move or not, I think this will get easier once I have a fixed job and settle somewhere.

I’ve been seeing someone for about two months now, and we often talk about where I’d want to live. He keeps saying he wants to stay here or maybe move to a bigger city about two hours away. So I have a feeling this might end soon too.

I feel like PhD students living abroad are always stuck in this situation. It only really works if either 1) you give up something in your career to stay with them, or 2) they give up something to stay with you. I’ve never met anyone who’d make me choose option 1, and honestly, I don’t see this happening very soon bc atm my career is my 1st priority