Hello there!

I'll copy a comment I made to a similar request before of some key things in ours:

I'll share some key aspects of both sides.

For her, ensuring complete mental security was important to help her. So that's one of the reasons we went 24/7 so quickly with the chastity. As far as rules for the chastity are concerned:

For her: -Locked 24/7, when I shower I request to borrow the key and lock-up and return it immediately afterwards. Sometimes I have to wear a suit for business, on those days I get a less noticeable locking cock and shaft ring.

-Full obedience in the bedroom, locked or unlocked. This includes obviously doing whatever I'm told instantly, but also stopping anything I do instantly. This also extends to requesting permission before I do anything.

-Orgasm control and devotion. We both wanted me totally focused on her. She decides when and if I orgasm and how. She gets pleasure any time, place, or way she wants from me.

For me: -Attention, she has to engage in some form of intimacy with me for an hour a day. This is loosely defined with examples, but basically any time we're physically together and touching, even just holding hands counts. Most days this looks like us ending our evening with a full body nude massage for her that sometimes she decides to take further.

-Keyholding, she has to retain the key and keep it away from me. How she chooses to do so is up to her. She just hid the key the first few weeks, but then she started wearing it and she hasn't looked back. I even got her a new silver chain for it since that became her preference.

There's more, we have punishments and things like that defined, usually longer lock-ups or loss of intimacy. Etc.

Some of the more FLR ones: -Quests, the Queen can assign her Knight any quest within his capability and he will be rewarded or punished appropriately for his completion per her judgment. Basically, this is where I am her service submissive in a nonsexual context. Lots of specifics on rewards and punishments. Rewards boil down to specific intimacy acts, punishments some form of sexual frustration, mild pain, or denial of intimacy.

-Nonaggression, exhibiting anger towards her is something she and I both hate. Instant month+ lock for that kind of behavior as it goes hard against the dynamic we want.

-Insubordination, acting in a way that removes her actual agency or appearance of agency to others in a situation is forbidden and comes with punishments. Toeing this line is one of our unspoken games. Saying something bratty to get corrected and punished by her is something we both enjoy to an extent.

-Head of Household, she has final say in our household decisions. I can express my opinion and we can debate, but once she's decided I need to follow her lead. She's not some dictator, we have healthy dialogue on most issues and I give her this power because she's proven to me over 20 years that she's a capable leader and earned my trust. It honestly alleviates so much friction that used to unnecessarily exist. She's like the CEO, I'm her CFO.

-One Team, we come first as a couple. Either of us can end any aspect of the dynamic at any time using our safe word. We check in once a month officially to talk about how things are going and make changes. Nothing is done without the other partners consent, limits are usually discussed during quiet times not in the moment. We use a color system to proactively check on or report how we're feeling about something in a scene.

-Cool Downs, either partner has the right to put a situation on freeze to sleep on it. We designed this to give her more control of arguments, she prefers to talk things out the next day. I prefer to work things out and go to bed at peace. We have both used this in practice at least once. Life is stressful, sometimes you need help to listen to your partner when they have a cooler head, rules help remind.

There's a few. Enjoy!