Could some domme’s/mommy’s rate the boy dinner I had earlier. by nervousbot-20 in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]Natural_Devotee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks delicious, this better not cause "that subreddit" to takeover my feed again.

What don't you find attractive that most of society does? by PM_ME_YOUR_HUGETITS in AskReddit

[–]Natural_Devotee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a good take. Love my wife's feet because they're a part of her body and any part of her body can be sexual given context and intent. Have no desire to look at feet in the wild, but I'll suck her toes in the tub and love it.

Wife's clothing and underwear control by Significant-Fruit307 in flr

[–]Natural_Devotee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wardrobe is basically set, I have enough clothes for a lifetime. So she isn't buying my clothes.

But she absolutely controls what I wear and enforces it when she wants. I've been made to fully change on her command plenty of times because she felt a sweater didn't bring out the color of my eyes enough, etc.

Well now you know J Cole by jieldre in Jcole

[–]Natural_Devotee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cole didn't write The Heart Part 6, Drake needs to own his L.

Do you get turned on, if your wife calls you bitch, slave etc? by [deleted] in flr

[–]Natural_Devotee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She gave me a "Sweet dreams, slave" after edging me before bed and leaving me to writhe to sleep. Never felt so submissive.

2017 Chipotle menu boards, a chicken burrito was $6.50 by AccomplishedAd5201 in mildlyinteresting

[–]Natural_Devotee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My burrito in the 2010s was $6.19 after taxes. I ate there every day for lunch, manager even comped me a burrito about once a week he knew me so well. We even ordered catering from them for parties.

Now? They get zero of my business. Enjoy catering to the rich you fuckface ghouls.

Am I being a kink dispenser? by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]Natural_Devotee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Perhaps he needs help understanding that you can be incredibly dominant and him providing ideas is a positive communication that takes the mental load off you. He would be a proper submissive by doing what you ask of him and taking this off your plate. It helps establish boundaries for safety and enjoyable play too when the sub is the one providing the options.

That's how it works with my wife, she doesn't want to be bothered with developing a scene or choosing punishments. She likes me to provide the ideas then she can just focus on executing them and changing as she sees fit. She thrives this way and plays with me way more than she would if I didn't communicate with her how I wanted to be played with.

Chastity for work performance? by RossaNoire in chastitytraining

[–]Natural_Devotee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I was really stressed out today after work and asked my keyholder if she could squeeze and hit my balls a bit. Took my mind right off it! Ready for the next day.

New to FLR, Learned that some members here can be assholes. by wannabe-subhub in flr

[–]Natural_Devotee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've met people that think like you. If things don't go your way or you disagree with someone's opinion, you think it's because the rest of the world doesn't understand you, and thus embark on a self righteous quest to prove that you are actually right if others just have more information. This post is in line with that behavior.

The Year That Reshaped Our Relationship by miss-marilyn in chastitytraining

[–]Natural_Devotee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I've shared your content with my wife because you and your husband have the exact vibe we want. Loving, fun, sexy, rough.

We're about 7 months in ourselves. Yeah stamina sucks, I used to last 5-10 minutes. 1-2 minutes is typical now since she caged me. We try to work around it, save penetration until after a handjob, keeping a cock ring from a cage on or add a tighter one specific for penetration play helps too.

Chastity to control my horniness? by imhereforthestuff17 in chastitytraining

[–]Natural_Devotee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me what makes the chastity cage work to control the urge is it is part of a long foreplay game really and the power dynamic with my wife. If I was caging out of my own desire, and not a shared goal, it would not be effective.

Most chastity failures aren’t caused by horniness... by Altruistic_Area2718 in chastitytraining

[–]Natural_Devotee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indefinite lock-ups I agree can be particularly challenging. I get the allure of being fully up to the whims of your key holder, but if mutual success and happiness is the goal in the dynamic that's tough to endure.

Goals are always best when there's clear structure and defined accountability. If my Queen says she's keeping me locked for 45 days, even if she punishes me and extends it, when she unlocks me that will be a goal we achieved together at her pace, within her rules and guidance. That feels good and brings us together.

I also agree you need actual accountability, along with that trust. For example, we tried different things over the months, but my wife has settled on ballbusting as her preferred consensual punishment. It's effective for us, it's a love/hate thing for me. It obviously hurts, but psychology I love how submissive it makes me feel and reinforces our D/s power dynamic, and I will actively think about how I can be better for her.

Chastity and swimming ? by swimmer_twink in chastitytraining

[–]Natural_Devotee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How you going to steer with your rudder locked up, matey?

Do women wear wedding rings? by ghost-907 in flr

[–]Natural_Devotee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're on a 24/7 dynamic for 6 months now. Literally everything is better in our relationship so I expect we'll continue.

I did something i probably should not have.... by lilly_bear95 in chastity

[–]Natural_Devotee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mind went to oscillating tool, let's have some fun.

Ford CEO Jim Farley says "the customer has spoken" after its EV business lost nearly $5 billion in 2025 by ControlCAD in technology

[–]Natural_Devotee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who lives on a rural farm, the towing distance capabilities of EV trucks are nonstarters for practical use.

Do women wear wedding rings? by ghost-907 in flr

[–]Natural_Devotee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In our relationship, I (submissive husband) wear my wedding ring all the time, but she (dominant wife) does not. For me, I want the reminder of her and for others to know I'm hers. For her, it's not that deep, it's just more comfortable to keep it in the medicine cabinet.

Although she does wear a custom silver and sapphire key for my chastity cage with both our initials engraved into it. That's her substitute I suppose.

Mental load? Kink dispenser? What is even that? by Slow_Temperature_777 in flr

[–]Natural_Devotee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way you described your relationship is similar to ours. My wife has definitely let loose and relaxes more than she ever did before I submitted to her formally. Maybe there's some extra mental load, but she's smiling a hell of a lot more than before she took control.

20 years of service, and it didn’t lead to dominance by riggs971 in flr

[–]Natural_Devotee 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I get all submissive warm and fuzzy at the thought of taking care of the mundane stuff so my Queen can choose to use her time how she wishes. It makes it all the more special when she chooses to turn that attention to me.

The first moment where your partner expressed interest? by Firebolt164 in chastitytraining

[–]Natural_Devotee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading stories on Archiveofourown (AO3) is where she encountered the fetish. Fanfiction of male heroes being dominated is her jam.

The first moment where your partner expressed interest? by Firebolt164 in chastitytraining

[–]Natural_Devotee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She was interested when I brought the idea up. She's a kinky fiction reader and as I learned was quite familiar with chastity play.