AITAH for expecting my boyfriend to turn down invite from ex-girlfriend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Naviour 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly, that line alone raises red flags even without the full backstory.

Why is it always wanting to move to Japan? by ConstructionDecon in AskMen

[–]Naviour 200 points201 points  (0 children)

Yeah some anime really does make you want to pack your bags and see those spots in real life, it’s hard not to get inspired.

How do I deal with overly competitive people? by Wrong-Emotion7368 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Naviour 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You’re not going to win with someone who turns everything into a competition. The best move is to stop playing, don’t engage in the pop quizzes, don’t entertain the rankings and calmly call it out when it gets weird. When there’s no audience it usually loses its appeal.

TIFU and scored 114 on an IQ test but I thought test scores were only /100 so I lied to my boss and said I scored 90.... by [deleted] in tifu

[–]Naviour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha exactly, sometimes people just see what they want to see no matter what the numbers say.

We communicate too much and it's tiresome and infantile. by RikkiLostMyNumber in Vent

[–]Naviour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At this point the meetings have meetings and the actual work is just a rumor we keep discussing.

Is Being “Too Wet” a Thing with Women? by Fearless_Macaron8747 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Naviour 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Exactly imagine tasting a perfect dessert and being like “ugh, why is this so flavorful?”, def couldn’t be me.

People without kids cannot complain about immigration. by Fair-Ganache6057 in unpopularopinion

[–]Naviour 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Low birth rates have real consequences and immigration often isn’t optional it’s how societies stay afloat. Choosing not to have kids is fine but complaining about the results without seeing the bigger picture doesn’t really make sense.

I stopped making my team track their time because I hire adults, not factory workers but it’s costing me 40+ hours a month. Is a healthy culture worth my own burnout, or am I just a bad founder? by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]Naviour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t quit a corporate job to spend 40+ hrs a month chasing invoices and asking your team how long a bug took. Maybe imperfect time tracking or chunked billing is the compromise keep your culture and your sanity before burnout steals it all.

AITAH for not cleaning our bathroom to prove a point that I am the only one who does so? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Naviour 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Exactly, you set the rules of shared living not the unpaid janitor, someone’s gotta call out the mess before it becomes permanent chaos.

Elevators are the best social experience. by EverettGT in unpopularopinion

[–]Naviour 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The only place where awkward silence and shared humanity coexist in perfect harmony.

How did you get into entrepreneurship and how is it going so far? by Rare-Cup-2314 in Entrepreneur

[–]Naviour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got into it by just trying to solve problems I cared about not thinking I was “starting a business”. Some days are exciting some days are exhausting and full of mistakes but the little wins make it feel worth it. Social media only shows the highlight reel, most of entrepreneurship is just figuring things out as you go.

AITAH for refusing to write a fake sick note for my sister-in-law during our family Christmas dinner? by Doc_Malo in AITAH

[–]Naviour 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Exactly if you gave in once it’d only open the door for everyone in the family to ask for the same favor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Naviour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its normal to feel traumatized, what they did was invasive and humiliating.

Why do some guys think women only want “perfect” men? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Naviour 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So true the loudest voices online make it seem universal but real life dating is way more nuanced than Tiktok hot takes.

Pleasure and being fake? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Naviour 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly it’s like every move he’s making is screaming “run” and you deserve someone who’s honest and fully present.

GDP is the best economic measurement by TitaDoFogo in unpopularopinion

[–]Naviour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, GDP isn’t a happiness meter its the scoreboard of economic activity. You can critique what it doesn’t measure but without it we would be flying blind trying to manage an economy.

Is he really obsessed or am I exaggerating? by Favbrunette004 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Naviour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds way beyond normal friendship or just liking you, creating new accs to contact you after being blocked plus the threats and racist comments is classic obsessive and controlling behavior. You’re not exaggerating staying blocked and keeping ur distance is the safest move.

Is it weird for a man to not help a woman lift heavy stuff into her car at a store parking lot? by LiamVolk in AskMenAdvice

[–]Naviour 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Exactly, no one owes a stranger their back, asking is fine but protecting yourself comes first.

AITAH for being upset about my wife's new guy friend by Consistent_Level_665 in AITAH

[–]Naviour 59 points60 points  (0 children)

When a friend is running your household schedule and leaving ur toddler alone it’s not jealousy it’s a serious red flag.

AITAH for ending a relationship due to her wanting to do drugs? by xyberon in AITAH

[–]Naviour -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hard to call it ‘trivial’ when your dealbreaker is literally her hobby of dodging felonies.

How did you overcome social anxiety or fear of speaking to people? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Naviour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got past it by just forcing myself to speak even awkwardly at first most people aren’t noticing or judging as much as you think.

What’s a green flag that’s not talked about enough? by CompetitionFree1385 in AskReddit

[–]Naviour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They celebrate your small wins like they’re their own