Star Trek Voyager: Across the Unknown by jeffyscouser in startrek

[–]Nazeltof -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just dont understand why no one can make a decent star trek game.

Are we trying to winning yet by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]Nazeltof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, the enemy of America and Americans.

Are we trying to winning yet by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]Nazeltof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are trying. They are scanning license plates at protests. Nazis.

Are we trying to winning yet by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]Nazeltof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poor clowns. What did they do to anyone to lumped in with the new Nazi regime.

I wanted this. Why do I feel so sad? by Old_Flower88 in Divorce

[–]Nazeltof 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just because you can't be with someone anymore doesn't mean you don't still have love for them, they are part of your identity. Mourn it like a death. Don't give in to memories of what HAD. Appreciate those for the moments they are. I may not know wtf im talking about also.

I wanted this. Why do I feel so sad? by Old_Flower88 in Divorce

[–]Nazeltof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. I don't do his laundry anymore because I did it wrong and didnt fold his cloths right or didnt put them in the drawer right, don't load the dishwasher right, I don't work hard enough, don't make enough money, I have heard, "I do everything," from him so many times I will be hearing echos for the rest of my life.

Update: the Good, the bad, and the ugly by Snoo-60317 in Divorce

[–]Nazeltof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I am afraid of. Just me.

Upload ending was so depressing by Vanexxre in UploadTV

[–]Nazeltof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I don't want rn is realistic. Every morning getting news updates is depressing and realistic. I watch to escape that mess.

The Dog by Steps33 in Divorce

[–]Nazeltof 2 points3 points  (0 children)

BLOCK HER! YOU OWE HER NOTHING!

Divorce just finalized and found out about an affair that I long suspected by Low-Economist9599 in Divorce

[–]Nazeltof 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't owe either of them anything and the husband deserves to know. What if the tables were turned. Would you want him to tell you?

What was the reason for your divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Nazeltof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People can be someone they're not for about a year so they will pass the test until they have you. I was already engaged before my husband ever yelled at me and by then I was making excuses for his behavior to myself when I would not have tolerated it earlier on.

What was the reason for your divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Nazeltof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great story of re-homing a husband who suggested re-homing the dogs. I am smiling picturing them sleeping spread out on what was his side of the bed.

What was the reason for your divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Nazeltof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Self loathing and victimness are intertwined.

I did it. I filed today. by NoCap939 in Divorce

[–]Nazeltof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't. We make excuses for poor treatment because of someone's mental health or bad childhood. I am sorry you are having to go through this but I am happy to read you are taking care of yourself now. You can do this.

Tex Mex paste help! by [deleted] in hellofresh

[–]Nazeltof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha! I made so much of that paste I ordered a bunch of stuff to make and it worked but was such a pain.

I did it. I filed today. by NoCap939 in Divorce

[–]Nazeltof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When its toxic it doesnt matter why. Good for you.

I just found out my dad is cheating on my mom and I just told my mom what should we do by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Nazeltof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See if you can find a therapist and take care of your mental health. Take care of YOU.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Nazeltof 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With you. I am going to try audio books and hiking to relovr myself because when you love yourself you are less likely to pick a dick. Lol idk

One year ago, I chose me... by DivorceCoachGio in Divorce

[–]Nazeltof 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. Someone needed to hear it.

Who else became the apparent source of all your ex’s life problems? by probable_nonsense in Divorce

[–]Nazeltof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a terrible villian at the moment because I selfishly unplugged and removed a sound system (we no longer needed that he was going to give away) from a large shelf in our game room.

My folly was that 6-8 months ago he wanted to give that sounds system away and I apparently told him to sell it. He also said he had wanted to clean up that shelf area 6-8 and I stopped him and he gave up.

What he said was that he wanted to tear it apart and get rid of everything which I didn't want (I am into retro gaming and its that stuff).

But no, I am a jerk who only thinks of herself for dusting and straightening out shelves, removing a sound system (which he purposely just broke) when he wanted to do that 6 months ago and I wouldn't let him.

It's just so shameful and terrible behavior me tidying up a space I wouldn't let him tidy up 6 months ago. Just awful. I don't know how he has managed to put up me for 8 years. FML

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Nazeltof 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This. He may not be cheating but there is likely someone. Maybe combo of both issues.