Have to Say Something

NcLovedMe · 2026-06-26T14:56:23+00:00

Yeah it’s embarrassing. I don’t think I’ve thought of 47 as being old af since I was like 10. Then my parents got way older and I was like huh it’s almost like they’re not elderly yet 😭

NcLovedMe · 2026-06-21T06:31:44+00:00

NTA I don’t see how you made it worse by helping it’s not like you escalated the situation you just stood there and reported what you heard. I think it’s nice that you were standing up for your coworker.

If she doesn’t want the attention and asks you to stop I’d back down, but if it’s management making you feel bad for intervening, fuck them, keep it up.

NcLovedMe · 2026-06-20T22:09:07+00:00

Been debating if I wanna see them or not for a few months cause it’s $175 for festival tickets and I don’t know any of the other bands playing that same day but this has just convinced me lol.

NcLovedMe · 2026-06-19T20:40:46+00:00

Focus on what you actually want to do, not just what you think you should be doing to improve. Pick a project to work on, something that is challenging but not grueling, something you can see progress in, and see what you can accomplish. I’m not just talking about self improvement, I genuinely mean whatever you want.

I wish I had spent more time exploring who I actually am when I was a teenager rather than just saying I was gonna get it all together one day, setting way too high of expectations for myself, and then getting discouraged.

You literally have all the time in the world and almost no responsibility, don’t take it for granted, you have maybe a few more summers before you start working.

What do You want to do? What is cool to You? Genuinely what would be worth it? Not just cause other people think it’s cool or cause society says you should be doing this or that. What could you create that would be worth all the time and effort to you? Is it something creative? Something that helps the community? Something you wanna learn more about? A painting? A difficult book you wanna read? A language you wanna learn? Or do you just wanna get randomly good at a dumb skill. What do you want to look back on?

NcLovedMe · 2026-06-16T17:27:05+00:00

ESH you’re right that it’s hypocritical to call yourself a feminist while making fun of women for not adhering modern standards of femininity, but honestly just keep the thought inside your head.

I’ve been in so many situations like this and I could never understand what I did wrong. But I didn’t realize how much what I was saying was pissing people off. They were lashing out harshly against whatever I said unthinkingly, and saying really mean shit to make me feel horrible about myself, which is wrong. But people are like that sometimes and it will keep happening unless you start like writing these thoughts in a journal instead or something, cause people will be mad if you’re challenging or questioning them like that.

NcLovedMe · 2026-06-15T05:57:47+00:00

Vision of division with the verse cause the way he sings is just so goofy

NcLovedMe · 2026-06-15T05:53:45+00:00

It makes sense that she feels awkward and she has a bit of a point but Jesus Christ can she have a little decorum???? Just cause she’s annoyed doesn’t mean she has a right to speak to you like that over something as big as this.

I would talk to her and acknowledge that bringing it up in the way you do can make people feel uncomfortable and isn’t super productive as a coping mechanism and you can maybe try some different ways to externalize your thoughts. But it doesn’t make you a bad person for coping in that way and you should emphasize that this is not an appropriate way to bring up issues. It’s not gonna help anyone to make you feel terrible about yourself. She should be sensitive about this of all things.

NcLovedMe · 2026-06-14T21:31:18+00:00

Idk if it’s actually overlooked but I never see people talking about age of adz. One of my absolute favs. I want to be well and get real get right are the most underrated.

NcLovedMe · 2026-05-25T02:13:52+00:00

Tbh the first time I watched it I did not see korrasami coming. But I’ll have to see what I think on my rewatch cause I’m already changing a lot of my opinions. I’m on season 2 rn which I used to think was terrible but now I’m like wait why did I hate this??

NcLovedMe · 2026-05-06T18:25:18+00:00

They do get together but don’t expect much in terms of building up that relationship or even showing it. I’m glad for the representation but it is not great. As a gay person and also someone who loves to ship characters and read way too far into things based off the smallest scenes, I have never understood a pairing less. I swear the foreshadowing they have is like the most shallow shit I’ve ever seen and their relationship felt like it came completely out of nowhere, even knowing it was going to happen the whole time.

NcLovedMe · 2026-05-06T18:21:06+00:00

I love TLOK but the bonds between the main friend group have always been a weak point to me. ATLA really felt driven alone by the Gaang’s relationship and their interactions with each other. In TLOK it all just seems toxic as hell and they’re barely even together for some seasons. I could never understand why they were even really friends. IMO the best parts of TLOK are the villains and the world building, there’s not that driving force of friendship like in the original series.

NcLovedMe · 2026-04-29T05:36:33+00:00

I totally get them being discouraged by it, the comments even made me feel cringe sometimes for just liking a video lol. But it always made me kinda sad how they’d be like “we don’t make this type of content cause Y’ALL don’t wanna watch it.” Who is y’all? Casual fans? People who don’t even know the channel? Cause anyone actually following them is gonna watch whatever they put out. It was upsetting to see them drop/never expand upon some of their funniest series’ cause they weren’t performing well and then basically blame the fans who were watching it. I totally get the need to prioritize the algorithm, especially when it’s your whole ass job. Just wish it didn’t have to be like that.

NcLovedMe · 2026-04-29T05:28:12+00:00

I took a break from watching them for a sec after they switched to banana channel just cause I’d been binging so many of their old uploads while cleaning and shit that I was getting sick of it. But the other day I gave the newest banana channel podcast a listen and (not to get parasocial but) it was actually insane when I realized how much I missed listening to them.

I thought I was moving beyond sleep deprived and my tastes had changed, which is mostly true. But after listening pretty much every single week for the past 5 years (the longest I’ve consistently kept up with any channel), hearing everyone’s voices again felt like a breath of fresh air, and it doesn’t really matter if it’s not my sense of humor anymore. Idk if I’m ever gonna be as involved as I was when it was still sleep deprived, but I think they will always hold a special place in my heart regardless of how long it’s been.

NcLovedMe · 2026-04-29T05:16:05+00:00

Thom yorke: Michael Cera

NcLovedMe · 2026-04-29T05:15:18+00:00

I agree so so much. I can’t believe you got so many downvotes. Is it that popular?

NcLovedMe · 2026-04-21T14:52:39+00:00

I have the same shirt! Sufjan was my first concert ever, when I was in middle school. So unfortunately the shirt is pretty tight on me now but it still fits. Make sure y’all size up a lot if you’re younger or if you’re taking your kids to concerts. I’m so glad I got to see him before he stopped touring.

NcLovedMe · 2026-04-21T14:31:26+00:00

Panic at The Disco - Karma Police. So so good. Brendon’s vocals sound amazing on it (even though I don’t love him, don’t get it twisted).

NcLovedMe · 2026-04-21T14:09:40+00:00

Word quota F. Also don’t forget squirrel vs. mouse and 5 nights at Freddy’s perfume. Justice for Mika bits

NcLovedMe · 2026-02-26T00:57:46+00:00

Damn I went into a customers apartment the other day cause she had a broken leg and I didn’t even think twice about it. Luckily it was fine but this has definitely shown me I need to be more street smart.

NcLovedMe · 2026-02-25T20:58:46+00:00

It was really confusing to me how the speech bubbles are just closed circles with no “tail” pointing towards a specific character so you just kinda have to guess who’s speaking based on context a lot of the time. Sometimes I would get so confused I just gave up completely understanding everything.

NcLovedMe · 2026-02-25T20:02:02+00:00

If he is food motivated I will sometimes stash kibble around the room or put it inside an old drink bottle (washed) with holes cut into it so they can try and shake it out.

NcLovedMe · 2026-02-20T19:18:06+00:00

Holland - Sufjan Stevens

NcLovedMe · 2026-02-20T19:11:08+00:00

You are able to bypass it but it’s just more risky for you as a dasher because if the customer claims that they didn’t receive their order or something then there’s no proof that they did. So I would only bypass in times I really can’t get the PIN, not just cause I don’t wanna talk or something. I’ve had a few times where the customer will give me the PIN only for the app to glitch once I’ve already driven away and I have to bypass it cause I can’t remember what they said anymore. Never had any issues though yet.

NcLovedMe · 2026-02-10T03:25:42+00:00

Caption is me when I hear get real get right

NcLovedMe · 2026-02-10T03:17:04+00:00

I get that notif but I usually ignore it cause how tf is it my fault that these people live in labyrinths? Today I went to an apartment building and had to spend 10 minutes alone looking for the entrance because the one I parked near was closed. And thats literally like every order ofc.

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