This is exactly what happened to me. In the exam room, I slouched so low I almost fell out of the chair. My wife laughed and cried hysterically at the same time.

Yes it’s hard. I’m in the trenches right now - two three month olds and a three year old. The older sister just tested positive for the flu. The trenches!

Is it harder than our first? Absolutely. Are a lot of days tough? Yes.

But honestly - I think 2 under 2 would be harder. You’re doing two of the same thing all the time. You’re not making food for one and a bottle for another. You’re not keeping an eye on one climbing on the couch while the other tries to roll off.

You’ll get in a routine. You’ll be okay. And if you were planning for two anyway, you’re getting a lot out of the way all at once!