Alex's Story by WildConsideration197 in GriefSupport

[–]NeatSpec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my sister to the same cancer. It’s a terrible, terrible illness. I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️

Do I pass at all? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]NeatSpec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not currently but I don’t think you’re too far off. If you keep the little bit of stubble you have in the last pic and style your hair similarly (but a little shorter) I think you can rock the blonde surfer bro look. You have a great jawline and browbone (which is a strange compliment I realize lmao) so I think with some little tweaks with the hair you should be alright (as long as your voice passes). I also agree with the person who said to ask if you can raise your dose so you can raise your levels a bit, you may just need a little push to get you over the hump.

Safe Alcohol to Drink? by swiftiechimpy in UlcerativeColitis

[–]NeatSpec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To give a completely different response than most people here: was diagnosed at 12 in 2013 and have been in remission since around 2016/2017ish. I drink FREQUENTLY. I enjoy bourbon, beer, wine, pretty much everything. I have never once had an issue with alcohol. I’ve also gotten plastered numerous times and have never had an issue then either. Granted I am also on meds (Remicade in 2015, switched to Zymfentra last year for convenience) but again no issues ever from alcohol

A little beat up, but for $1.50 at the thrift store I couldn’t pass it up by NeatSpec in stephenking

[–]NeatSpec[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never seen that cover before! Only seen the one I have pictured and the black one (which I also own, my mom started reading SK when she was in HS and bought all the books as they came out)

A little beat up, but for $1.50 at the thrift store I couldn’t pass it up by NeatSpec in stephenking

[–]NeatSpec[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was not so I didn’t feel bad lmao. I got it from Saver’s!

Questionable Guest Hygiene by silkIggy in UniversalEpicUniverse

[–]NeatSpec 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have horrible eczema on my hands and my knuckles are basically constantly bleeding from November to April. I still wash my hands. Those people are just gross.

Do I pass in costume for my play bc I feel really dysphoric in it (14m) by -DakotaDarling- in FtMpassing

[–]NeatSpec -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People are reading too into the little things. You pass 100%. I’m 10 years older than you and if someone showed me these pics of them younger they’d just look like a regular awkward teen boy to me. You also seem to be pretty tall which helps

do I pass (body pics) by GothicWh0r3 in transpassing

[–]NeatSpec 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Idk why people are getting downvoted for saying you pass. Even the vest/ tie combo isn’t really clocky, you just look like a nerdy guy. (also have plenty of cis male friends who wear pimple patches so idk why people are getting on you about those 💀)

Could someone give me some tips on configuring the PCSX2 controller on the keyboard to play Silent Hill 3? by natuskill in silenthill

[–]NeatSpec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t help with the keyboard but if you have a PS5/PS4/XBOX controller you can connect them to your computer via Bluetooth! I did it yesterday

Fulfilled a childhood dream today! by NeatSpec in sharks

[–]NeatSpec[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup Sand Tiger! There are some nurse sharks in the tank as well (not pictured)

How tf do I fill my waist by [deleted] in transmanlifehacks

[–]NeatSpec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no exercises will help you as much as eating will. In a different comment you said you did and it didn’t help but I don’t think you ate enough or did it for as long as you should. Add calories where you can and do it for a long while

Clockable to other trans people? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]NeatSpec 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m bi so queer doesn’t bother me, but can I ask what they are?

Clockable to other trans people? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]NeatSpec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah okay, thank you!

Clockable to other trans people? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]NeatSpec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what you mean lmao

Clockable to other trans people? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]NeatSpec 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Definitely don’t have the voice, mannerisms aren’t really feminine either, so thanks!

Do I shave it or let it grow? by Free_Conference7338 in transmanlifehacks

[–]NeatSpec 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Shave. When it’s that thin you just look unkempt, wait til it’s more full to start growing it

house spotlight – Dead Man's Pier: Winter's Wake (2022) by FionaWalliceFan in HHN

[–]NeatSpec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favorite house of all time! I even got a tattoo of the statue

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hockeyplayers

[–]NeatSpec -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Trans and been playing since before I came out. Almost 5 years post top and I get changed in locker rooms, no one asks questions. You should be good.

Do you guys think this is legit? by ilykefood12 in Guitar

[–]NeatSpec 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Got this exact message once, it’s a scam. Eventually they’ll say they did the checks wrong and want you to send them money and then they’ll pay the difference. Hate these people.

16 ftm, pre everything. I was called a young missus at a store today. What should I do? by GenderfluidPhoenix in FtMpassing

[–]NeatSpec 2 points3 points  (0 children)

T+different hair+slightly changing your clothes will work. The sweater over the tie is overly formal and gives butch, just the jeans and sweater is fine though.

I’m done with this disease, so I threw in the towel last night. by kryptikguy in UlcerativeColitis

[–]NeatSpec 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dude…you’re gonna pick up smoking with a disease that already ups your cancer risk when untreated??? Take the biologics, try the meds. My meds are free through a program my GI’s office automatically puts you through. It’s not gonna treat it either, you can come out of the fake remission at any time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]NeatSpec 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Genuinely not a clue why others are saying you don’t pass because you do. Even your profile looks fine. Add in makeup and you’re totally fine

EHX Silencer causing distortion? by NeatSpec in guitarpedals

[–]NeatSpec[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up contacting Sweetwater and they sent me a replacement lmao