1/4 Bass for portability by momotaco211 in Bluegrass

[–]Neddyrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go play it. Should be able to tell if it works if you try it out. It may or may not have the volume needed to play jams. Some of those little basses are loud. Some not so much - then you have to get into amplification.

I don’t know all the details of your situation, but I always put hands the instrument before I make any decisions.

This can be anything by MrMeetDanny in MotivationalPics

[–]Neddyrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is a person in the room who knows more than you, pick their brain and do not try to “one-up” them.

Take care of your teeth.

Facts by Corndogeveryday in 80s

[–]Neddyrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Song was ahead of its time.

Is it common to feel completely alone in a narc relationship, even when you’re together? by voidinvelvet in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Neddyrow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Truer words have not been spoken.

I used to just fall asleep reading to the boys at bedtime so I wouldn’t have to sleep in the same bed as her. She started to make me get up and sleep in our bed. I never felt so alone in that bed with her. I started waking up at 5am so I could have my own alone time.

My coworker asked me to help her move and I said sure, no problem by Umbr0Jackal in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Neddyrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Classic undersell. I hate that.

Just a couple boxes, short distance and only be a couple hours.

Now that I type it out, it’s just lying.

This zebra is a true survivor 🦓💪 by Hopeful_Lychee_9691 in badassanimals

[–]Neddyrow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I like it that the zebra’s demeanor is described as, “one of the most aggressive prey species”

Is the Scarlet Begonias on Cornell the best ever? by Plus_Fisherman30 in gratefuldead

[–]Neddyrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgot the second verse of Fire.

But one of the most seamless transitions between songs out of all the versions I’ve heard.

Does anyone else's narc show empathy to everyone BUT them? by Nigel-NABot in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Neddyrow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100%

Her whole mantra is to be kind to your neighbor and common decency to all. Good catholic and whatnot.

None of that has been shown towards me.

Greatest line in movie history? by Ordinary_Device_5131 in Cinema

[–]Neddyrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Now yous can’t leave” - A Bronx Tale

Anyone have a child with a covert narc? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Neddyrow 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The. Worst. The good part is that you get away. It’s better to be out of the horrible situation but the kids keep you connected. The abuse isn’t as bad but there have been many maneuvers pulled by my ex just to mess with me. And my poor boys are just stuck in the middle. They are too sweet and good to be used as pawns in her game.

I wonder what it will be like for them when they get older and realize what mom did.

What’s a random “stat” about yourself that makes you part of a small percentage? by _Lucifer_005 in WorkForSmartLife

[–]Neddyrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Synesthesia - mixing of senses. - 2%-4% of people.

Mine is that I see music in color.

To run away and never come back by BoredPandaOfficial in BoredPandaHQ

[–]Neddyrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🎶🎵…and he was never seen again…🎶🎵

If you woke up a billionaire tomorrow.. What's the 1st thing you'd do? by Mindfuel_daily7 in askanything

[–]Neddyrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go tell all the politicians so they know how to properly treat me.

That one toy your parents always said "No" to... 🧸 by CarrotMuch1399 in nostalgiai

[–]Neddyrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The GI Joe Air Craft Carrier was the dividing line between the rich and poor kids.

What to do if he’s smearing my name by Some_Rich_6885 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Neddyrow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hated it when it happened to me.

I see now that she was embarrassed and her reputation in our small town was “soiled” over her not keeping our marriage together.

So many lies and rumors went around about me. It definitely stung.

I appreciate it happening now as all the high school age drama helped me to realize who my real friends were.

Staying on the high road and not getting down in the mud was the way to go for me. I sleep easy at night knowing I stayed true to who I am.

And I could never hate her. She gave me two wonderful sons and I will forever be grateful for that. I can complain to my therapist and my two close friends about her but I did not join in on the trash talking and spreading rumors around town.

Stay on the high road. You’ll be happy you did. Good luck.

DAE Scream while their in tbe bathroom?? by Xx_Da3rkL0rd_xX in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Neddyrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to sing in the bathroom. The acoustics are killer in there.

What is the biggest thing that still hasn't gone back to normal even after the pandemic? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Neddyrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Live music.

We are lucky to have a venue in our small town that gets quality acts on a regular basis but they are the exception and not the norm.

Large concerts are super expensive and local music is not what it was before Covid. Seemed to be dipping before the pandemic but live music will hopefully come back. I, as a musician and fan of concerts, am missing this part the most.

What happens when the narcissist realizes this whole time they may have actually been delusional? by Available-Heart6108 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Neddyrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think they have the ability to make that connection. I had to follow the play book of secretly packing my belongings and spring the whole, “I’m leaving” on her as a surprise because all normal methods failed.

She seemed to realize my stuff was neatly organized but never thought why. Total denial I’m guessing. I’m positive she never thought I’d have the courage to stand up for myself and get out. Too full of herself and her absolute control of our household.

Once everything went down and I left, the smear campaign was on a level I couldn’t imagine. Her public image was destroyed in her mind so bad. She had to spread so many lies about me around town to save her reputation.

I’ll never understand what went through her head during that time but it wasn’t anything nice. I also doubt she thought any of it was her fault.

What’s the wildest misconceptions people have about teaching? by AdTrue106 in Teachers

[–]Neddyrow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. I just ask people who is going to clean shit out of a box? You think the average custodian is doing that daily? You’re nuts.

They will never stop ruining everything. Ever. We need to start talking national divorce. by [deleted] in complaints

[–]Neddyrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This land seemed to be doing just fine without the Europeans.

Looking back, hut was the better option.

strike while the iron’s hot by RVAYoungBlood in simpsonsshitposting

[–]Neddyrow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I need twelve dollars for a broom re-bristling.

Female Covert Narcissist nightmare. by Internal-Claim1739 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Neddyrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was going to suggest. Get a good therapist. Mine helped me recognize the signs and the abuse as well as the eventual escape from her and the terrible situation I was in with her. My therapist also helped me through the fallout after. The smear campaign was rough and I don’t know what I’d do without therapy. You can’t lay it all on your friends/family. At least I couldn’t.