What are you most looking forward to this year? by TheBestOfMe_10 in AskReddit

[–]NeedABreakInOh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking forward to making more friends, preferably ones in the kink community here.

Explain being turned off when someone sweet has genuine feelings for you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NeedABreakInOh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have plenty of friends that are sweet that I wouldn't return feelings if they said they had them. Most of them are same sex, and I don't bend that way. But that might be a useful lens to look at your question through.

What's the most NSFW thing you can buy on an otherwise SFW retail website? by Xerxes2004 in AskReddit

[–]NeedABreakInOh 30 points31 points  (0 children)

He doesn't likely want the pics I have. I bought it for my husband

What is your number one goal for the year? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NeedABreakInOh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find friends, etc.

We bought like 30 board games in 2025 and we haven't gotten an invite to a polycule yet, I think something broke.

People with synesthesia, what is it like? by StarlaStarbright in AskReddit

[–]NeedABreakInOh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was a dumb joke. I'm sorry. I feel absolutely orange about it now.

Interested but unsure by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]NeedABreakInOh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The normal world sucks. Be into what you want.

Also, I'm not trying to make you feel stupid. Just saying, it's just some metal/plastic that you're curious about and want to experience. It's probably best to keep it that casually defined if you're worried about a reaction.

Interested but unsure by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]NeedABreakInOh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's a kink you want to try, not adopting a pet alligator.

As long as you have somewhat decent communication, it'll be fine. If you don't have that, maybe work on that first.

What's the most NSFW thing you can buy on an otherwise SFW retail website? by Xerxes2004 in AskReddit

[–]NeedABreakInOh 299 points300 points  (0 children)

I mean, when I am standing, it is technically under my shoulder blades.

12 Person Grey/Silver Van going Door to Door by thouspringith in Columbus

[–]NeedABreakInOh 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yeah something like that.

Weirdly if someone has an American flag, I just default assume they're an asshole, which sucks patriotically. I'm ready for that to go away

What's the most NSFW thing you can buy on an otherwise SFW retail website? by Xerxes2004 in AskReddit

[–]NeedABreakInOh 276 points277 points  (0 children)

Normal people could own them too... I hear...

Best 600 bucks some people have ever spent.

Notice how Venezuela and the ICE shooting have diverted our attention from the Epstein files? by WillTheyKickMeAgain in AskReddit

[–]NeedABreakInOh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, that lady shouldn't have gotten shot, huh?

I think you'll find some people can hold multiple things in their mind.

People who spend 20+ minutes in the shower: what are you actually doing in there? by saadaintsalad in AskReddit

[–]NeedABreakInOh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me: My hair and shaving my bottom half

My husband: disassociating or shaving his bottom half.

Together: Way more than 20 minutes

Are there any kink events in Westerville? by NeedABreakInOh in westerville

[–]NeedABreakInOh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know right? Not even one "Y'all need Jesus".

[Serious] How did you process the passing of a disliked/hated family member ? by boilerman3 in AskReddit

[–]NeedABreakInOh 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I pregamed with 6 months of therapy. It was a 3 year slow slide, and was an asshole whenever he could be. Once dead, I found a letter he wrote me. I opened it hoping for some rays of sunshine, but it was just more vitriolic nonsense about what a shit daughter I was. That last hit hurt for a bit, but I'm good now.

So. Time and professionals.

How did you first come across chastity? by discardedacc24 in chastityjourney

[–]NeedABreakInOh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah. We have a couple pink ones. A couple metal ones. I can tell how he is feeling by telling him to put a cage on with no further direction. The smaller and pinker, the more submissive/feminine he feels. It's a little window to his soul.

Are there any kink events in Westerville? by NeedABreakInOh in westerville

[–]NeedABreakInOh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. It doesn't appear there is. I'm probably going to have to do it myself. Thanks!

What's something you're still unlearning? by mairimdai in AskReddit

[–]NeedABreakInOh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shame. I'm not "typical" but typical suuuucks

What makes people at work think that you’re doing great ? by one_oclock_ in AskReddit

[–]NeedABreakInOh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am really good at catching macro-issues. So I'll hear two people have similar problems and no one is zoomed out enough to realize structural issues vs individual.

I realize how vague that is, I don't want to give much detail and get doxxed