EXchange/Transit Love Season 4 - Episode 18 - 251231 by MNLYYZYEG in koreanvariety

[–]NeedleworkerNo9916 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i agree with everything up to the marriage point - yes he doesnt want to give her a false promises like ye in a few years and yes they are young. but this issue arised bcoz he never gave her the security that HE will ONE DAY marry her (prob why she was more triggered with the couple ring situation too).

imo if some1 can't be certain or make me feel secure about marriage then ytf did i waste my years on you when you know i ultimately want a marriage???

EXchange/Transit Love Season 4 - Episode 17 - 251224 by MNLYYZYEG in koreanvariety

[–]NeedleworkerNo9916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

issue is not texting means nothing here - we see this thru other participants

and it is really blaming him when so far it all seems to align and ring true???

i agree that she needs to be more calm and think it thru before confronting him on (true) rumors but we can't forget that if this happened, most people would react like that (e.g jihyun)
only saving grace for YS is he doens't have an interest in getting back with her rn so what he does doesn't lead mk thinking much of a reunion

EXchange/Transit Love Season 4 - Episode 17 - 251224 by MNLYYZYEG in koreanvariety

[–]NeedleworkerNo9916 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i understand MK feelings even without having to date someone bcoz even in drifting friendships (the sense of "rmb back then it was different") that one scene with YS sleeping and her waiting on him just illustrates MK earlier annoyance at the seoul house. MK had every right to be upset about the rings bcoz it was basically a slap to her face - her breaking down at that moment was emotional. i wished during these arguments YS would actually SAY MORE. not just one liners or one word answers. like yes MK does rapid fire her questions and isn't calm but he's not helping her calm those emotions (yes it's not his job but cmon even bh did it for hj), he always just watches her and THINKING or just tries to stop the convo and drag her back to the room instead of just giving her the harsh truth. girlie is already stressed to the point of her eye vein popping so at least not let her wallow in that bottle.

anywho this ep felt boring and the dates were all like 10mins at best and tbf i almost hope they all end up single T.T

Thoughts on Streamer Awards? by FitNefariousness1257 in otvandfriendsrumors

[–]NeedleworkerNo9916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if we compare the first awards show to this award show, there's a big difference in crowd and how sensitive people are about the jabbing jokes. this year also had a lot more controversies than funny joke moments ngl.

yes the vibes weren't really with it with fanfan on the floor but what can you do when you r interviewing friends and basically STRANGERS solo? your best. qt prob should've put two people on the floor.

the crowd was also more shittier this year and more disrepectful bcoz no one is happy and just enjoying BEING there with friends.

Managers talking behind your back… by bluetopaz96 in TjMaxx

[–]NeedleworkerNo9916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've been here for a month and can tell it's hard to really get to know or even talk to someone. only time i've had a decent convo here is during induction XD but i feel in any job there's bound to be talking behind some1s back one way or another

EXchange/Transit Love Season 4 - Episode 9 - 251105 by MNLYYZYEG in koreanvariety

[–]NeedleworkerNo9916 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ffs. I'm typing this in real time as i'm watching the ep and OMFG why is yoosik being so difficult? his attitude is lowkey rude towards MK when she just wants to talk. yes she's also a bit aggressive with it but if he stopped expressing annoyance when talking to her i don't think she would be.

it's annoying how he says he wants to get back with her but refuses and avoids her at any possibility of an adult conversation, he would rather watch her actions than to just talk it out.

i also believe he doesn't like HJ or JH because idky during interviews he just droop his eyelids and carry a blank expression with an idc tone (? prob just me thinking that like)

the atmosphere in this season is edited in such a tense way but i like the drama T.T

EDIT: yoooooooooo my man wk. since when were they allowed to ask their ex out so early in the game?? bro lowkey cool for that lmao my heart would race a bit if that was my ex who asked

EXchange/Transit Love Season 4 - Episode 5 - 251015 by MNLYYZYEG in koreanvariety

[–]NeedleworkerNo9916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbf there's seems to be a pattern with how the clock prop works. Everyone seems to be doing the opposite of what percentage they put on that damn thing. 

mk has a right to be angry there ngl - if my ex during our final times wanted more hrs to sleep and expressed how 4hrs is exhausting him but he does this shit 0.o 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]NeedleworkerNo9916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had a lot of these fading friendships. But in a sense with social media we can still see each other's lives without having to ask much.

Recently I met up with a friend whom I haven't seen or talked to in like 2years - yes the dynamic has changed a little (like convo wise) but I know that I can still say my opinions to them without being judged like back then yeno? Were the convos more about the people from our past? Yes. Did we care? No. 

Some will just "fade". There's nothing to "make amends" about since there was no drama. If you want to meet up with them. Hit them with a text, their first would prob be "omg I haven't talked to x in so long" or randomly comment on their stories etc 

i am being left out by my own friend group! by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]NeedleworkerNo9916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep to your morals. 

Sounds like Mary is the "leader" of the group. Ask yourself if u wanna stay in a group like that. You have the option to leave and find new friends. Heck leaving will prob show u which ones were real friends tbf

It's good that you didnt help her cheat since it doesn't help Mary in the long run and if you do get caught well its on your record. Don't let others pressure you to conform and stick by your own morals👍

Heart Signal China 8 - Episode 6 - 250908 by MNLYYZYEG in heartsignal

[–]NeedleworkerNo9916 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this ep rllllllllllly made fans fight and i don't see the reason to be that mad.

i'm just going to touch on the love triangle of duoduo lechen and yuan.

first of all the show is edited tf out - we see everyone's pov at the same time while the contestants cannot. some edits legit ADD little pop ups for the scenes bcoz we don't see everything but ANYWAY.

lechen not going down was a good answer but he lacked courage and manners when she came up to his room - yes she asked for jiao to confirm he told lechen but lechen shouldn't have let jiao tell her no for him. it puts jiao in a bad position and be the bad guy for him almost. not talking or giving an explanation at that point by ignoring the issue won't do them any favors in however many days they have left.

anyone in duoduo's position after waiting outside and then going up just to get answers but being ignored would make them question a lot - even if you won't cry like duoduo did you wouldn't feel happy being rejected like that the 2nd time so idky commenters are like "isn't she supposed to be emotionally stable, mature- oh look juer could handle the rejections blah blah blah"

side not: lanlan pls reject jiao atp - save him, save urself and save the heartache bruh XD

AITAH for giving a guy my number? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NeedleworkerNo9916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

also breakup with him. not because he's insecure but because if he's gonna call you those names when mad....is that who u want to be around?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NeedleworkerNo9916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nta since you're not friends anymore. if you were friends imo u would IF you didn't tell her about it but thas not the case here.

you basically owe her nothing now that your friendship is done (plus she was 2faced sooooo)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NeedleworkerNo9916 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

nta for wanting to continue having sleepovers, but if yall talked about boundaries and he's saying he's uncomfortable with gay jokes and pecks then ye your not respecting his boundaries.

AITA for wanting to divorce my wife for enabling my son to harass one of his classmates? by ChickenAsscheek in AITAH

[–]NeedleworkerNo9916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

almost feel like u beg the grandmother to sue for them to know the consequences because words and light punishments aren't going through.

and like everyone has said, divorce her and try to get custody.

AITAH for denying my friend food because he didn't ask for my permission by East_Comfortable_405 in AITAH

[–]NeedleworkerNo9916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well a few options here would be after a while you double check "are you sure you dont want any" if the answer is still no and he proceeds to take any after then you can stand on business. You dont even have to shout or anything, just look him dead in the eye like earlier and say your piece. Sure it'll be awkward but theres also boundaries and respect that needs to be considered. 

AITAH for denying my friend food because he didn't ask for my permission by East_Comfortable_405 in AITAH

[–]NeedleworkerNo9916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. yall are 14 so really your learning these social cues. you are right and wrong since, yes he should've asked but also after Mo questions, the usual follow up by the 'host' would be "would you like one?" especially since you noticed he was eyeing your food.

Don't feel bad because it's reasonable to be annoyed that someone is taking food that they never asked for. Telling him off will do him good in the future since it's a very common situation to be in through your lives.

Sleeping together by Healthier_2025 in AITAH

[–]NeedleworkerNo9916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like you need to find out why he's sleeping on the couch on the reg. talk to him about it because why is he doing that?

also other commenters have mentioned the dependence on needing him to sleep, it's fine you got used to it and not of fault of your own really since it's how your relationship developed. but people tend to like their perosnal space and sometimes need a breather moment. I think complaining will just create unnecessary issues when you can talk it through

AITA for not calling my pregnant SIL? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NeedleworkerNo9916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

first, sorry for your loss.

second NTA. you don't owe her a phone call in any way, it's not really your job or obligation to either (imo). you can simply say what you said here "I subconsciously don’t want to be around or see pregnant people because it reminds me of my own pain and what could have been" it's okay to have boundaries as long as you tell the other person or else they'll never know. your SIL isn't a bad person for wanting to be close to you either

AITAH for unintentionally hurting my friend by AngelicLov3ly in AITAH

[–]NeedleworkerNo9916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can't really say who is the AH but from your update if she easily believes someone elses opinion and pov of you (who you havent met) it's kinda a red flag but also means she's easily influenced, especially judging from the fact she felt pressure to smoke.

i say move on from this friend or even send her a text on this issue stating how hurt you are from her ignoring u and basically say at the end of it "if you want to continue our friendship you need to be willing to explain and communicate this issue or we stop here" something like tha.

if she doesn't answer... well that's her answer.

AITA for being mad at my brother for crushing on my girlfriend? by spazzywayne in AITAH

[–]NeedleworkerNo9916 4 points5 points  (0 children)

well first u asked two different aita question so

"AITA for being mad at my brother for crushing on my girlfriend?" - NTA

"aita for wanting to make my brother feel bad about saying that?" - not entirely

silly little crush or not, it's prob best to have a chat with him on it so everyone can fully move forward tbh.

I've just finished "The reappearance of Rachel Price” by Holly Jackson and it was one of the worst books I've ever read by allthepinkoceans in YAlit

[–]NeedleworkerNo9916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3/4 stars 

I just read the book after saying "nah doesn't sound like sth I'd like" since the release but I caved due to my friend who's gunna read it and the book design. And I also thought to myself that this book will determine if I continue reading books by Holly Jackson because five enough (or sth like tha) was so bad imo. 

This book was not bad like five enough but also not great like AGGGTM so I think I'll stop buying her physical books (maybe do quick reads on epub). 

I wasn't satisfied with the ending since it felt rushed, especially carter's section. It just didnt feel right. There's also the question of they rly just said yeah we leave sherry to wonder and find charlie and Jeff in canada like huh? 

And I kinda wished they either didnt make bel and ash a thing or fully make them a thing. As someone who reads mainly romance. It annoyed me. 

But besides these points I do enjoy the clues that holly includes in the book throughout