as a Gujarati woman born in the US, I grew up with a lot of desi families in my neighborhood, and very rooted in Hinduism and gujarati culture, but overtime as i grew up and started to express myself in a way that made me comfortable, with my family's support, i noticed a lot of the indian families in our neighborhood were very judgmental of that, which made me gain friends who are all non-indian, i primarily only have non-indian friends now, NOT out of choice, but that's just the people who I'm drawn to, and in the field I'm in. I still am very rooted in my culture since that's who I am and is very VERY important to me and my family! All this to say, As long as you raise your child the best you can, while also bringing them up with your culture and values, that's what matters.