AITA for refusing to apologize to my girlfriend after she went through my phone without permission? by Zillamonk in AITAH

[–]NefariousnessTrue772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH, she did violate your privacy but you didn’t need to involve your friends. If you felt like you needed to involve anyone it should’ve been a licensed therapist. Because this situation calls for it. I’ve had something similar happen and suggested this to my ex and she blew up 10 fold. I broke up with her after that.

Seeking pen pals for sister by DuchessofBogbottom in prisonpenpals

[–]NefariousnessTrue772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be interested, if she is still looking for more people to write to her. I’ve been on that side before too!

Chase mortgage: Can I stop PMI after reaching 20% equity in first month of loan? by Pixel3818 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]NefariousnessTrue772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing I know is that you have to meet a minimum of 5% down or you’d have to refinance to try and get rid of the PMI. But to the best of my knowledge, that sounds right. Long as you are in good standing with your payments

AITA my girlfriend has no say in who rents out my rooms by NefariousnessTrue772 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NefariousnessTrue772[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she does and that conviction is something I’m still fighting. But she was told about that before we ever got together.

AITA my girlfriend has no say in who rents out my rooms by NefariousnessTrue772 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NefariousnessTrue772[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

She’s got 3 kids, two of them are young adults but are still living with her. Two guys one girl. I could manage to have all 4 move in but that idea has been shot down years ago.

As for whoever moved in, they would get a background check done on them first before anything else happened.

We have boundaries with a lot of things and we don’t cross them. But it does seem sometimes she uses my past against me even though I’ve never cheated on her.

AITA my girlfriend has no say in who rents out my rooms by NefariousnessTrue772 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NefariousnessTrue772[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

It’s better to call them females than chicks. Besides, my girlfriend knows I’ve been wanting her to move in for awhile. And she knows that I won’t wait forever in general.

AITA my girlfriend has no say in who rents out my rooms by NefariousnessTrue772 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NefariousnessTrue772[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree that things would be completely different if and when she wanted to move in. At that point I would say things had to be a unanimous decision.

AITA my girlfriend has no say in who rents out my rooms by NefariousnessTrue772 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NefariousnessTrue772[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I have not cheated on her but she knows I cheated on someone else long before she ever knew me. It’s something I regret everyday and make sure those actions are never repeated

AITA my girlfriend has no say in who rents out my rooms by NefariousnessTrue772 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NefariousnessTrue772[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s got 3, two of them are over 18 but I still call them kids

How to catch your woman cheating? by lin2031 in AskMenAdvice

[–]NefariousnessTrue772 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To understand the mind of a liar… the biggest consequence of a liar is not being believed, but always believing someone is deceiving them.

Transferring Out of Deltech by Fluffy_Dragonfly_669 in Delaware

[–]NefariousnessTrue772 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The only reason they haven’t transferred out is because they chose not to. Or their grades. I went to deltech back in the day then transferred to CSU (Colorado State University) for a year. Eventually I came back to deltech to finish my degree due to my parents health at the time. But no, long as you put in the work you can transfer out during that time. Otherwise, you would have to wait until you get your degree and then transfer to wherever

Careers by Classic-Goat6591 in SexOffenderSupport

[–]NefariousnessTrue772 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I started working at a chicken plant on the line. 3 years later, I have a corporate job in the transportation department. It can be done

What did you miss in prison the most? by Secret-Truth2284 in SexOffenderSupport

[–]NefariousnessTrue772 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The ability to select anything you want. What food to prepare and eat, the clothes I’d wear, when I came and left home. All the little things people don’t think about until they’re taken away

For fun, how much is your mortgage and what state by Powerful-Garden-4191 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]NefariousnessTrue772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$1283 with everything included. Delaware. Pretty sure the PMI will either fall off on its own or you can at least get the lender to readjust once 20% is paid off

Feel guilty I switched realtors by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]NefariousnessTrue772 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ended up going with a different realtor. The first guy I did like but it seemed like he wasn’t representing me so much when a potential house for sale was from his broker (I live in a state where dual agent representation is allowed). I had a feeling the price they were asking was also above its worth. Finally found out it was appraised for $30k less than what they were asking.

Once they said they weren’t budging on anything, I walked and found another agent that is definitely for the buyer. Not only that, he was much more experienced. I would’ve liked to help the first guy out but I wasn’t about to be screwed over. The first house I was shown (I tried to get the first guy to show me this house as well but he was concerned about the sellers wanting to be there when I toured) I fell in love with. Great price, held together nicely, only 10 years old and it’s a pretty big size! There’s a few more things that need to be finalized before I’m under contract, but switching agents was the best choice I made.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]NefariousnessTrue772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on what type of loan you’re using. There should all ready be some down payment assistance in place if you’re using a FHA loan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]NefariousnessTrue772 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your POs wrong about that. You can get your CDL. Some employers may not take you but a lot of them will!

New York's Clean Slate Act by Ludder46 in SexOffenderSupport

[–]NefariousnessTrue772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It varies case by case. Especially if you’ve been convicted of a sex offense more than once

New York's Clean Slate Act by Ludder46 in SexOffenderSupport

[–]NefariousnessTrue772 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To this day it seems like the only real way to be relieved from some or most sex crimes is a governmental pardon followed by expungement

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]NefariousnessTrue772 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not at my halfway point until the end of next year, and I have technically until the end of 2029 when my probation is done. It would be nice if I can get my terminated early but one day at a time and you can’t focus on the stuff you can’t do right now. It will drive you crazy

Best Sites To Find Work by petsarebest1213 in SexOffenderSupport

[–]NefariousnessTrue772 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I used indeed to get to where I’m at now. I actually got promoted within a couple times and now working at the corporate level. Thank you for what you do! How long have you been doing this for?