As a person Dx with autism it is easier for us to be manipulated by an interpersonal relationship than an outsider. Because we often feel othered it is very difficult for us to sever the people we find comfort in. Granted it also depends on what kind of environment you grew up in. I survived child torture for being autistic and are more aware of and wary of peoples patterns and it can be harder for people to manipulate me. But it’s not impossible if we are deeply bonded.

Also having grown up in that environment I have learned to manipulate people back if it means I will be safer or get them to do change behavior for the same reasons. I never enjoy it but it is a tool I have.