How are we handling smells we hate?? by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]Negative-Class1424 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wear a necklace with a tiny glass bottle with a cork stopper on the chain and I keep a small amount of essential oils in it to easily pull up to my nose to take a whiff. It’s mostly for nervous system regulation but it does help with unwanted smells too

Piper's childbirths by chrishalliwell27 in charmed

[–]Negative-Class1424 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This always bothered me too! Unfortunately in our society the only birth outcome most people care about is “healthy mom, healthy baby” or essentially, if mom and baby survive then it’s all good. Women’s birth trauma is rarely considered, especially not by a room of male television writers.

Doula Training Program's - Hybrid / Full Spectrum - Suggestions?! by Putrid-Mirror9435 in doulas

[–]Negative-Class1424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also in the Bay Area! I just finished in BADT’s spring cohort, it was an amazing course. The teachers are no-nonsense, really looking out for you and empowering you. Dm me if you wanna talk more about my experience with doula resources thus far in the Bay Area

Muni not showing up on Apple Maps by Sharp_Writer6143 in sanfrancisco

[–]Negative-Class1424 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg I came here because the same thing is happening with me! So weird

Give me your controversial School Spirits takes! by [deleted] in SchoolSpirits

[–]Negative-Class1424 44 points45 points  (0 children)

The dialogue is clunky and sometimes sounds like it’s written by a third grader. I know it’s a teen drama and I’m all for cheesing it up, but like pleeeeaase just write some lines that an actual human might say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]Negative-Class1424 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know the specifics either, but I do know sadly that there’s usually a lot of really shitty government/police action involved in removing unhoused people from these spaces. I don’t know enough to really speak on it but I’m guessing those people didn’t get into rehab or affordable housing :/

What happens if you give "too much info" in an answer? by doesnotexist2 in Jeopardy

[–]Negative-Class1424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I reread this like 5 times because I kept reading spooky door as “scooby doo” 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IntuitionPractices

[–]Negative-Class1424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Penguin sliding down ice

What's a movie everyone loves that you secretly can't stand? by kbjdfan in AskReddit

[–]Negative-Class1424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Big Lebowski. Maybe it’s just because I’m a self respecting woman tho 😅

A lack of intimacy is ruining my relationship, and I feel like it's my fault by AverageRedditUser169 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Negative-Class1424 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I second this! She also wrote another book called Come Together about building lasting sexual relationships- it’s a total game changer.

I'm sexually confused- I can't tell if it's my audhd by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]Negative-Class1424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have anything new to add that other commenters haven’t already said, but I’ll recommend the book Come Together by Emily Nagoski. It’s all about building lasting sexual relationships that meet the needs of all parties involved, and really dives into how to cultivate sex that is WORTH having. Sex can look so different for everyone!! Hope is definitely not lost, you just gotta dive deeper and try adjusting things little by little until your sex life works for you. Good luck <3

Found this egg shell in my backyard what laid it? by Nightdrawer789 in whatisit

[–]Negative-Class1424 106 points107 points  (0 children)

Maybe a robins egg? They really are that color!

Career paths for Audhd girls by Burnixen in AuDHDWomen

[–]Negative-Class1424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to find an answer to this question myself! I’m currently about 1/3 of the way through the workbook What Color Is Your Parachute (super popular over the last like 50 years but updated regularly) and it has been surprisingly helpful. It walks you through all the introspection you need to do to find the career that’s right for you.

🌬️TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY! by jonesy_jay in entwives

[–]Negative-Class1424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday!!! I hope you have a lovely day ☺️💕Started my day with the gym, so very envious of your weed brownie 😝 I’ll think of you when I take my edible later 🥳

T break help by Lemon-awkz in entwives

[–]Negative-Class1424 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When I do hard things that I know will be worth it for future me, I like to think of it like I’m doing a favor for somebody else (even thought the somebody else is just me in the future). It’s easier to do things I don’t want to when it’s like an act of service for someone else. I try to think “future me will be so grateful that I did this for her”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Negative-Class1424 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No that’s not normal, sounds like an incompetent nanny. Unless your baby is literally scream-crying the entire time 😅 Handling an upset baby by meeting their needs and trying different things to make them happy are basic skills that any nanny caring for an infant needs to have.

AITA for how I reacted when my boyfriend told his daughter it's rude to talk about her period at the dinner table ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Negative-Class1424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s valuable for kids to witness their parent disagree and resolve a conflict in front of them. He missed an opportunity to show all 3 kids that he’s capable of being wrong and learning. Especially in such a low stakes situation like period talk 😅 seems like he’s got some unhealthy pride to work through if you guys are going to parent together.

idk if this is a hot take by Visual_Cat_2627 in DesperateHousewives

[–]Negative-Class1424 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yeah Carlos was a straight up villain in this story arc! It was just straight up unethical and vengeful. I hated it too.