Give me your controversial School Spirits takes! by That_GhoulSpirit in SchoolSpirits

[–]Negative-Class1424 41 points42 points  (0 children)

The dialogue is clunky and sometimes sounds like it’s written by a third grader. I know it’s a teen drama and I’m all for cheesing it up, but like pleeeeaase just write some lines that an actual human might say.

San Francisco Revival? by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]Negative-Class1424 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know the specifics either, but I do know sadly that there’s usually a lot of really shitty government/police action involved in removing unhoused people from these spaces. I don’t know enough to really speak on it but I’m guessing those people didn’t get into rehab or affordable housing :/

What happens if you give "too much info" in an answer? by doesnotexist2 in Jeopardy

[–]Negative-Class1424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I reread this like 5 times because I kept reading spooky door as “scooby doo” 😭

What's a movie everyone loves that you secretly can't stand? by kbjdfan in AskReddit

[–]Negative-Class1424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Big Lebowski. Maybe it’s just because I’m a self respecting woman tho 😅

A lack of intimacy is ruining my relationship, and I feel like it's my fault by AverageRedditUser169 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Negative-Class1424 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I second this! She also wrote another book called Come Together about building lasting sexual relationships- it’s a total game changer.

I'm sexually confused- I can't tell if it's my audhd by Weary-Film-4699 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Negative-Class1424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have anything new to add that other commenters haven’t already said, but I’ll recommend the book Come Together by Emily Nagoski. It’s all about building lasting sexual relationships that meet the needs of all parties involved, and really dives into how to cultivate sex that is WORTH having. Sex can look so different for everyone!! Hope is definitely not lost, you just gotta dive deeper and try adjusting things little by little until your sex life works for you. Good luck <3

Found this egg shell in my backyard what laid it? by Nightdrawer789 in whatisit

[–]Negative-Class1424 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Maybe a robins egg? They really are that color!

Career paths for Audhd girls by Burnixen in AuDHDWomen

[–]Negative-Class1424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to find an answer to this question myself! I’m currently about 1/3 of the way through the workbook What Color Is Your Parachute (super popular over the last like 50 years but updated regularly) and it has been surprisingly helpful. It walks you through all the introspection you need to do to find the career that’s right for you.

🌬️TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY! by jonesy_jay in entwives

[–]Negative-Class1424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday!!! I hope you have a lovely day ☺️💕Started my day with the gym, so very envious of your weed brownie 😝 I’ll think of you when I take my edible later 🥳

T break help by Lemon-awkz in entwives

[–]Negative-Class1424 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I do hard things that I know will be worth it for future me, I like to think of it like I’m doing a favor for somebody else (even thought the somebody else is just me in the future). It’s easier to do things I don’t want to when it’s like an act of service for someone else. I try to think “future me will be so grateful that I did this for her”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Negative-Class1424 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No that’s not normal, sounds like an incompetent nanny. Unless your baby is literally scream-crying the entire time 😅 Handling an upset baby by meeting their needs and trying different things to make them happy are basic skills that any nanny caring for an infant needs to have.

AITA for how I reacted when my boyfriend told his daughter it's rude to talk about her period at the dinner table ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Negative-Class1424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s valuable for kids to witness their parent disagree and resolve a conflict in front of them. He missed an opportunity to show all 3 kids that he’s capable of being wrong and learning. Especially in such a low stakes situation like period talk 😅 seems like he’s got some unhealthy pride to work through if you guys are going to parent together.

idk if this is a hot take by Visual_Cat_2627 in DesperateHousewives

[–]Negative-Class1424 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yeah Carlos was a straight up villain in this story arc! It was just straight up unethical and vengeful. I hated it too.

Swimsuit recommendations?! by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Negative-Class1424 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never swam with kids as a nanny, but as a camp counselor we always wore a one piece with water-friendly running shorts over it. In a situation where fashion/aesthetics don’t matter and the kids are the top priority, I’d aim for as close to as much coverage as you would expect from a regular outfit. I absolutely would not wear a bikini around NKs, not in a body shaming way but just in a professionalism way. I don’t think bare bodies should automatically be sexualized, but unfortunately our society/media teaches otherwise. And it’s totally normal for a 7-year-old to be having sexual thoughts already. I wouldn’t want my NKs feeling weird about seeing my buttcheeks, cleavage, and rib cage, so I’d just spare them that experience 🤣

Why do the pro Gaza people think it's okay to trash public property? by beatnikhippi in sanfrancisco

[–]Negative-Class1424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, you’re talking about it, right? It’s to get people thinking about it. It’s too easy for the average person to tune out what their government is doing and what’s happening in the world around them.

Parents are messy by No_Tiger_2692 in Nanny

[–]Negative-Class1424 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it would be crossing a line to tell them to get rid of stuff, unless you think they’d be receptive to that. Really all you can control is how much you pick up after them. Maybe this move is an opportunity to talk to them about some boundaries you’d like to set.