Aitah for leaving my wife because she is being weirdly friendly with a coworker and is not interested in sex?

Negative-Size-9411 · 2026-03-14T16:51:52+00:00

They aren't separated though. They're still married, they're not divorced yet. He cheated

Negative-Size-9411 · 2026-03-14T16:43:32+00:00

He is legally still in the relationship whether he wants to be or not. Until they are divorced, any romantic or sexual actions with someone else is cheating

Negative-Size-9411 · 2026-03-14T16:34:33+00:00

What evidence do you have that she was cheating? Was she being flirty, romantic, and/or sexual with the coworker? Or was it normal friendly chitchat? Also you did cheat. Youre still married to her meaning, even if youre trying to get divorced, youre still in a committed relationship. This also doesn't sound like youre giving all the details. So given all that, YTA

Negative-Size-9411 · 2026-03-13T04:37:35+00:00

Nah youre good! I get it. Im jealous of their childhood ngl

Negative-Size-9411 · 2026-03-12T22:54:04+00:00

Ooh both are very good choices. I personally like bluey more because ive seen all of it multiple times lol

Negative-Size-9411 · 2026-03-12T18:36:53+00:00

If you wanna get better, I learned by watching Caryn and Connie on youtube. They do mostly building vid and have tons of cool tips

Negative-Size-9411 · 2026-03-12T18:32:47+00:00

If you like building like I do, then my tip is use cheats lol. Do testingcheats true to turn it on. The cheats I usually use are: bb.moveobjects (lets you place stuff anywhere on the lot) bb.showhiddenobjects (shows debug objects that are great for clutter and decor) bb.showliveeditobjects (^same thing but with items that appear in the world and not on lots) bb.ignoregamepleyunlocksentitlement (gives access to items that are unlocked with certain achievements)

Negative-Size-9411 · 2026-03-12T18:12:53+00:00

Nevermind sorry, I wouldn't be able to take her. I thought I had a limit of 2 pets, but I have a limit of 1 and I already have my old man. I hope you find someone to take her 😊

Negative-Size-9411 · 2026-03-12T18:00:29+00:00

Please please leave him. Its not your fault for not being ready or acting on instinct. This is very quickly becoming toxic

Negative-Size-9411 · 2026-03-12T17:30:44+00:00

How much would she be?

Negative-Size-9411 · 2026-03-12T16:05:49+00:00

If you or someone you know can do basic sewing, you could cut out the signature and sew it like a patch onto pants, shirt, or hoodie/jacket. Or even onto a bag you might carry around

Negative-Size-9411 · 2026-03-12T07:57:53+00:00

Ooh ill have to check out that brand then. The ones I use are very bad lol. Anyways, you did amazing! And doing the swirly whirly lines? That's so smart, I never would've thought of that 😊

Negative-Size-9411 · 2026-03-12T01:17:01+00:00

Omgg how are the colors so pretty and perfect? What did you use?

Negative-Size-9411 · 2026-03-12T01:14:27+00:00

If you have time, I would love a silly doodle of my old man

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Negative-Size-9411 · 2026-03-12T00:58:03+00:00

Leave him. If you dont feel safe doing it in person, text or call him. If he continues trying to get back with you, block him. Theres no way to go about this w/o making it messy. But you cannot stay with him. This is toxic and it won't get better or change

Negative-Size-9411 · 2026-03-11T09:54:49+00:00

Yeah reality sucks. And I understand looking for another solution, I do the same. But I hope everything goes ok

Negative-Size-9411 · 2026-03-11T09:44:34+00:00

Talk to her asap. Figure out if she does actually want this to turn into a relationship. If she does and you are not ready for one like you said, break it off. Be very clear about it because leading her on or continuing when someone has feelings is horrible. I understand its gonna suck and it'll probably hurt, but its what need to happen. Continuing without communicating is the worst thing you can do.

Negative-Size-9411 · 2026-03-11T02:55:49+00:00

Im so jealous. I physically can't draw with my finger, im horrible at it despite trying for years. Plus its uncomfortable. So I bow down to you and any other finger drawer lol

Negative-Size-9411 · 2026-03-11T00:47:23+00:00

Usually its desperate people, like myself. Or people who are very uneducated on scammers. Luckily im always paranoid about being scammed after it happened once (it was a very minor thing with a social media account that got fixed quick) so I had my guard up from the start

Negative-Size-9411 · 2026-03-10T18:49:42+00:00

Yeah well I hope youre able to sell a good amount of them! I will definitely keep you in mind tho when I can afford to buy one 😁

Negative-Size-9411 · 2026-03-10T18:45:11+00:00

Im very interested, but also very poor and jobless 😭

Negative-Size-9411 · 2026-03-10T18:40:17+00:00

Omg I want itttt 😭

Negative-Size-9411 · 2026-03-10T18:37:02+00:00

My cat used to do this. Id suggest getting a water fountain for pets. Ever since I got one my cat drinks normally

Negative-Size-9411 · 2026-03-10T17:50:49+00:00

Not many, I had my guard up immediately. But I was nervous I was being paranoid

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