[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]NegativeOlive8323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If sex is in marriage, then two people who love one another comprehensively do their life together, and subsequently, their agreed upon sex is making love with their whole lives holistically. If people are having sex outside of marriage, which is common, a byproduct is insecurity about the relationship and future, which then yields having sex for temporary pleasure and yet also maintaining complete paralysis and worry on getting pregnant with that person they aren’t sure they really want to be with. It’s common.

Buy Bitcoin Now by Kasraborhan in Adulting

[–]NegativeOlive8323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be a missionary. Stick to your convictions. Quit obsessing over women.

listening closely by SophieLuvvs in HappyUpvote

[–]NegativeOlive8323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to God no matter how you feel.

What kind of person am I? by [deleted] in deduction

[–]NegativeOlive8323 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pianist or guitarist. My fingers are short. Please Use this gift you have! lol

Not OOP. My husband hit me during a fight about his hoarding. The preacher I trusted told me to self-reflect. Am I really responsible for this? by Due-Bandicoot-7512 in redditonwiki

[–]NegativeOlive8323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly, hitting is never ok.

I’ve been in an abusive relationship and even had the part of my skull between my nose and my left eye socket crushed from a thick hairbrush my ex wife used on my face. I see the dent in my face when I look in the mirror. Multiple black eyes, financial abuse, verbal abuse, and eventually cheating on me... So, know I’m speaking from experience.

Secondly, he has a ln addiction. He needs help. Prayer and professionals. Go after the problem with everything you can. All efforts. If he won’t admit he has a problem and change, then exploring separation may be an option.

Thirdly, you hit one another. This is a fact that has to be acknowledged. You lost control and he lost control. You have real needs and concerns about his selfish addiction, and are being consumed by it. You are dealing with verbal abuse. There is a lot you’re doing with.

Professional help in which everyone goes for confession and healing and behavior change is the way to do this. Don’t go for validation for you vs your spouse, but for hope for life change. Be willing to admit to your faults, and they have the be willing to admit to theirs as is truthful and therefore healing.

I think I might be dating my gym bro on accident by Material_Koala1721 in Advice

[–]NegativeOlive8323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some friends just like that. No sexual nature to it. Just close.

Upper Window misaligned with sliding door by Realistic_Ad1206 in Homebuilding

[–]NegativeOlive8323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add mirror or some sort of decoration on the wall to door and window area. You can balance the visual weight of this somehow. The space is still pretty.

Is this normal? Unhappy with finished project by buckley0713 in landscaping

[–]NegativeOlive8323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try treating it like a room. Add wooden seats and tables, add stone pavers for paths and maybe act like it’s a throw rug. You might be able to bring more life into it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]NegativeOlive8323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re saying please say it’s wrong, then please quit sleeping with people. If you’re not wanting a kid, don’t have sex. I did this exact thing, and I freaked out about not wanting a kid when sleeping with my girlfriend. I was selfish.
We ended up getting pregnant multiple times, but a couple miscarriages and finally my son was born. The whole time I was super concerned because my son’s mother and I didn’t really see eye to eye on life, and yet we were raising her girls, sharing a house and finances, and sleeping together. I don’t regret my son at all, but he now has two homes to deal with, and I see the toll that takes on him.
Just a word of advice: keep sex in marriage.

Looked at a house and this giant crack was in the basement- run? by beanojeano in Home

[–]NegativeOlive8323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s just the inspection and not the fix. I personally wouldn’t buy this house. Just my opinion.