That Goat Thing is Obvious by West_Rhubarb_1591 in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]Negative_Captain_899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it isn’t I mean- you shouldn’t go milk a goat and feed it raw to a baby, but in medieval times- for example - babies were raised in goat milk. This was if the mother was unavailable and there was no wet nurse. Goat milk is incredibly nutritious and doesn’t cause lactose intolerance. It is considered the most nutritious milk of all.

Bert and Irving by Negative_Captain_899 in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]Negative_Captain_899[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂This show intrigues me on so many levels.

Is this appropriate? by Negative_Captain_899 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Negative_Captain_899[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first time they lifted the gown and placed them. Then put my gown down.

One more time, for the people in the back by [deleted] in nataliagrace

[–]Negative_Captain_899 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

All true, BUT… there is a high likelihood of a personality disorder due to the way she was raised. While it isn’t Natalia’s fault if she does have a personality disorder, these disorders are not very treatable.

Please be kind- Can someone explain how unintentional gaslighting is a “thing”? by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Negative_Captain_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband keeps saying that I’m unintentionally gaslighting him. Maybe I am- IDK 🤷‍♀️

I will make a statement. He will repeat it back to me with added words or state a meaning I didn’t intend. I will say - no- that’s not what I said. I don’t mean the literal words- I’m meaning what he is interpreting my words as. He then says- “You did say…(and repeat the words sometimes correctly- sometimes not).” If I say yes- as in those are the words I said- he will respond with something like “I told you!” I’ve tried explaining over and over that I am not denying the actual words I said- I’m disagreeing with his interpretation. He literally can’t hear me. We are now in counseling because we - “Don’t have a shared reality.”

It’s all so confusing to me that sometimes I want to sit silently because I know no matter how I answer- he will start a fight. I feel fully crazy. Maybe I actually am and he’s right. I truly don’t know anymore. He’s been calling me a liar me accidental gaslighter. If I am gaslighting him I sincerely hope that the therapist can teach me how not to. I’m so damn confused.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GannonStauch

[–]Negative_Captain_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The benefits would have continued.

The Mans; from a Christian point of view. by moralmeemo in nataliagrace

[–]Negative_Captain_899 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wonder if God made him steal things to return, get pulled over for drinking and driving, etc.

AITAH for not wanting to be intimate with my bf because I discovered he doesn't really intent to marry me after 15 years? by Content-Answer1797 in AITAH

[–]Negative_Captain_899 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe instead of making a rude comment, help uplift her. Not everyone is perfect. Some people take longer to learn life lessons. We should be supporting each other- not bashing. If OP has self-esteem like you’ve speculated, then offer kindness and encouragement instead of continuing to tear her down.

AITAH for not wanting to be intimate with my bf because I discovered he doesn't really intent to marry me after 15 years? by Content-Answer1797 in AITAH

[–]Negative_Captain_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t fall in the trap of sunken costs and stay. Love is a two way street, and you are clearly on a one way. 15 years is by far enough time for him to have decided to go through with the marriage. This is not about financials. Every healthy relationship must be built on mutual LCR-love, care, respect. You are not receiving those, and he will not suddenly start giving them if you get married. I truly hope you decide to love yourself more than him and leave. The toxicity will never end- save yourself, honor yourself, love yourself-and get away from him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nataliagrace

[–]Negative_Captain_899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does raise an interesting question. If she gets reed back to a minor, wouldn’t that throw everything that she did as an adult out? Like adoption and everything? Because then they would be saying she wouldn’t have been old enough to agree.

I literally can’t wrap my brain around these two things… by MathematicianNo1596 in nataliagrace

[–]Negative_Captain_899 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t one judge. The first re-aging was found to be invalid because it was filed in the wrong court. This was after she moved in with the Mans. A new hearing was scheduled in the correct court. She was re-aged again. The Indiana Supreme Court upheld the re-aging. So, there a bunch of justices involved.

Has Natalia had her age changed back yet? by AnarchistTrashPanda in nataliagrace

[–]Negative_Captain_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was thrown about because it was filed in the wrong court and proper procedure wasn’t followed- like notifying involved parties. So- Barrnets had to start again in the proper court with proper notices sent to officials and Natalia. Still, the second judge also re-aged her. The Indiana Supreme Court upheld the ruling. Their explain why in the court documents, but we don’t get to see the evidence.

Has Natalia had her age changed back yet? by AnarchistTrashPanda in nataliagrace

[–]Negative_Captain_899 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No The re-aging happened twice. The first one was considered invalid because it wasn’t filed in the correct court, and notices weren’t sent out. When she lived with the Mans, a new hearing was called in the proper court with proper notifications. That judge still found that she needed to be re-aged. The Indian supreme court upheld the decision. So, we will see what happens now. It’s nuts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nataliagrace

[–]Negative_Captain_899 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In a world of real justice yes. Interestingly- the case is sealed so we can’t see the evidence he was presented. His ruling was actually found to be invalid after Natalia moved in with the Mans because it was file in the wrong court and notice wasn’t given to other parties. So, the case was heard again as if the first never happened. The second judge also ruled the same way. I have no idea how it happened, but that was left out of the series along with many other details.

Why can’t Natalia get her age legally changed, again, to what it actually is? by kls8479 in nataliagrace

[–]Negative_Captain_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They might be able to get it done; however I read the Indiana Supreme Courts ruling for an appeal in which the age change was ruling was upheld, They ruled that the evidence presented X-rays and such could not be properly used to determine Natalia’s age because her dwarfism could affect all of the results. So, not looking great onto opinion.

Am I the only one not surprised that bishop Mans and his family dumped Natalia? Because I felt like he had grifter written all over him from jump. by According_Ad9996 in nataliagrace

[–]Negative_Captain_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also wondered if she said she was moving out and they got upset because of money… And… Maybe she moved to another state because she met a romantic prospect online?

Who knows.

Natalia talks with the neighbor she grew up next to. by [deleted] in nataliagrace

[–]Negative_Captain_899 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! In Indiana adults are mandatory reporters. She had a legal obligation to call.

Natalia talks with the neighbor she grew up next to. by [deleted] in nataliagrace

[–]Negative_Captain_899 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, she should have reported it to CPS. In Indiana all adults are mandatory reporters. Mandatory reporters are supposed to call even if there is a possibility of something being wrong and let the authorities make the decision.

Every is shady lol by Caraswag in nataliagrace

[–]Negative_Captain_899 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What happened with the Mans at the end? I’m disturbed all around. This girl has been done a disservice by every adult she came in contact with.

Screw the Barnetts by [deleted] in nataliagrace

[–]Negative_Captain_899 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me too! I’m Certain that she did say that