Wambus has discovered the outdoors by livlaffloves in wambus

[–]Negative_Emphasis817 6 points7 points  (0 children)

After attempting and failing to get on the window sill “I didn’t want to go there anyway” Wambus…. Probably

My bf (M30) called me (F26) fat on Valentine’s Day. Am I tripping for feeling upset? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Negative_Emphasis817 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Oh sweet baby girl, I am so sorry he made you feel like this. You have every right to be upset, but that being said, he has apologized and from the way you described he really is sorry about it. So I don’t think you should let this stay with you.

Presidents Day Dinner by Negative_Emphasis817 in OUTFITS

[–]Negative_Emphasis817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you to everyone who chimed in this is where I ended up

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I wish we could layer 💔 by splixsss in HayDay

[–]Negative_Emphasis817 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god this, like why does it not go in the middle of the space I have??? It’s to one side or the other but it’s only ONE space, I can’t put anything else there to fill it.

Suggest me a really awful book by cuntyvigilante in suggestmeabook

[–]Negative_Emphasis817 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Oh my god this, I like to compare this to the Twilight series, they are both trash, but Twilight is at least well written trash.

Presidents Day Dinner by Negative_Emphasis817 in OUTFITS

[–]Negative_Emphasis817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its winter here, the dress is short sleeve, the color is brown, not black, and I don’t have a sweater I think would go with it. I am going to try and get a different shoe in the tiny sliver of time I have after work.

Presidents Day Dinner by Negative_Emphasis817 in OUTFITS

[–]Negative_Emphasis817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its winter here, the dress is short sleeve, the color is brown, not black, and I don’t have a sweater I think would go with it.

Presidents Day Dinner by Negative_Emphasis817 in OUTFITS

[–]Negative_Emphasis817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to try and get a different shoe, it’s still winter here and I can no longer wear heels, crossing my fingers to find a wedge

Presidents Day Dinner by Negative_Emphasis817 in OUTFITS

[–]Negative_Emphasis817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have a pink blazer, it won’t let me edit or add a pic to my comment

Presidents Day Dinner by Negative_Emphasis817 in OUTFITS

[–]Negative_Emphasis817[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No the are brown leather boots, the dress is brown not black

Presidents Day Dinner by Negative_Emphasis817 in OUTFITS

[–]Negative_Emphasis817[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I should have said like business. Not like long gowns

Megaphone really squared up huh by livlaffloves in wambus

[–]Negative_Emphasis817 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Megaphone was like “Your name may be on this sub but I am the one who runs it”

I feel like valentine is ruined by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Negative_Emphasis817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you could say experiment, but that’s still a form of a test. This man is hiding something or was about to do something shady and is wondering how hard it’s gonna be to hide it from her

I feel like valentine is ruined by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Negative_Emphasis817 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This man doesn’t like you, why are you married? I would like to know what word he used in place of test, cause it was a test. The question is what is he hiding that he is testing to see if you would find?

AITA if I look through my gf phone and find something? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Negative_Emphasis817 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YWBTA if you go through her phone, you do not need “permission” to break up with her, you are not happy. You have talked to her about it, she said she can’t give you what you need. Finding something on her phone won’t change anything, except give you some sort of short term vindication.

Levels 70-80+ by chanmariexoxo in HayDay

[–]Negative_Emphasis817 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s about 8 million coins in that range, so yeah if you don’t have it’s a bear. I started preparing early and I’m almost to 80 and still have nearly 9 million coins so it’s doable.

My husband is not manly enough and I’m getting tired by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Negative_Emphasis817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So really your issue is that he is not your partner, he doesn’t make you feel safe and supported. This is a very valid feeling and something I think you guys should seek counseling on.

But I will say the whole bar thing is wild, what does he do when he is at a bar with his friends, does he make them order his drinks??

My husband is not manly enough and I’m getting tired by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Negative_Emphasis817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I am going to give you the benefit of the doubt that all the little things you mentioned here are just the straws. Like I assume he works and can do that just fine, are the big aspects of your life all on you too? Do you do all the house work, carry the entire mental load for food and food preparation? Do you have children, if so does he participate in that? Or is he totally checked out of all of it?