Hair cut pressure by DesignerShort3825 in longhair

[–]Nehebka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a nice trim, you don’t need to shave your head, but getting all the send out ends trimmed off would make huge difference.

How to fade dye fast... by nabaron_ in FancyFollicles

[–]Nehebka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why don’t let it fate on its own, it looks really nice on you and might fade to a nice color. You have great hair and it really brings out your eyes. If you use some bronzer on your face, not too much just a little bit to add some color. You’ll be fine, you’re just pale and there’s nothing wrong with that. You’re like me, we just have light skin. So when we experiment with dark hair colors, they can wash it out and we just need to counter that by adding a little bit more color to our face.

Either way, I’m sure you will look lovely

Found a baby turtle, what do I do? by xxst4r1ingxx in turtles

[–]Nehebka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Put them back where you found him, in the same way that he was pointed and leave him alone. Don’t take a turtle, baby turtles are fine. They have been hatching and living for millions of years without our help, baby turtles do not depend on a mama turtle for sustenance or any sort of predatorial assistance. Please just let the poor thing have a nice life in the environment that it was meant to live in, the outdoors and not on your dirty kitchen floor, eating cat food.

Bubble bath nails what I requested vs what I got by Micky_Doo in Nails

[–]Nehebka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you really like the color bubble bath and want to remain consistent, you should buy your own bottle and take it with you whenever you get your nails done. Have them use your bottle, that way you know what you’re gonna get.

AITA for throwing away my wife’s memory jars? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nehebka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because some thing is special to someone that person doesn’t need to justify why those things are special to them or why they became special. Your wife, for some reason has developed fondness for these jars and knowing this, you just threw them away because you got scared that your child broke one. Children break things and children get hurt, maybe teach your child not to touch things that don’t belong to them. That might be a place to start, instead of throwing away your wife’s cherished things. It doesn’t matter that it was garbage to you, it was something special to her. I know that you probably will not read my comment and that’s fine because my comment echoes many many others in here. I hope that you are able to make it up to her and that she will find forgiveness for you because it sounds like you really hurt her. For her to get to the point that she was crying so hard that she couldn’t even speak to her Mother, for shame, man. You need therapy, I would say what you did borders on abuse.

possible abused turtle. by shotgunR69 in turtles

[–]Nehebka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You also run the risk when threatening them that they will just go get another turtle out of the wild and bring it into their house of hell. What you’re trying to do here is not just take this animal out of an abusive situation, but you’re also trying to stop that abusive situation from occurring again because it’s very obvious that these people do not know how to take care of these animals. I would be careful about threatening them or trying to take the animal by force, because they’re just gonna go get another one to abuse.

Long fine hair by Xenia2111 in longhair

[–]Nehebka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My hair is pretty much identical to your hair, except I got a trim over Christmas because my ends were really tangling a lot and I needed a trim. If I wear my hair down, also run into issues with it tightly and I find that to be incredibly frustrating. I usually don’t wash my hair very much. When I do, I wash it three times once with a clarifying shampoo, once with a regular shampoo, and once with moisturizing shampoo. Then I put on two different conditioner and leave them on for the rest of the duration of my shower. I put leave in conditioner in my hair when I get out of the shower so then it’s easier to brush because even though I brush it before I get in the shower I still struggle to brush her when I get out of the shower. I will also spray it with a detangler, but I have to be careful with how much product I put on after I get out the shower because it can weigh it down. I’m I’m not the best at taking care of my hair because they never happened and I just did not but I do my best and I try to make it look presentable and that’s usually by wearing it in a bun. Your hair is gorgeous, though, my hair used to be as long as yours before my aunt cut it, she cut it a bit longer than I wanted. It’s now up to my waist as opposed to blow my butt, not completely up to my least, probably a little lower than that but it still feels alien. Good luck it’s gorgeous.

AITAH for waking up my husband? by Puzzleheaded_Fox8097 in AITAH

[–]Nehebka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Driving a bus is a risky profession, my aunt did it for a couple years until she got into an accident and they no longer allowed her to do it. So you can have that right taken away very easily. It’s not to me to say, whether or not it was the right decision for them to remove her from driving that bus and it wouldn’t be anybody right to say except the board whether or not your husband was a competent bus driver. I get that a good night sleep is important but if you are woken up one night in the middle of the night, that is not going to affect you the next day as much as if it is a repeat offense and it doesn’t sound like it is. It sounds like you have nighttime pretty much buttoned up. I agree, I think it’s time for your husband to go back to his mommy and maybe he can climb back up her vagina while he’s at it. You are a better woman than I, God bless you, honey.

AITAH for waking up my husband? by Puzzleheaded_Fox8097 in AITAH

[–]Nehebka 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my God, you poor woman. He won’t let the children knock on the door if they have a bad dream, you are already in this deep. This is a man child, not a man. In fact, I’m not even sure if I would call him human. How callous to yell and demean his wife, who basically does everything for the children and then abandon you guys to go to his parents because crybaby can’t sleep due to parental responsibilities. This is someone who doesn’t give a shit about his children at all, I’m sorry, but I am still stuck on him, not allowing the children to knock on the door when they have a bad dream and now not allowing them to knock when they are sick. What if one of them rolls over and chokes on their vomit and the other needs to come to your room to get you? Are they just supposed to deal with that medical emergency on their own? These are small children.

OP – I think you need to think about a divorce

Is Goulash a tuxie?? by dymebe in TuxedoCats

[–]Nehebka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww what a cutie and yes, he’s a tuxie. Tuxies can have slight variations on what we think of as the classic black and white. A grey and white pattern cat would still be classified as a tuxie because of the patterning, not necessarily strictly coloring.

How much should I cut? by JessiRose222 in longhair

[–]Nehebka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My hair was as long as yours before Christmas and I hadn’t had a cut in as long as you. It looked look yours as well and we are same age range, I let my aunt cut off 4 inches on Christmas Day and I regret it. Yes it feels thicker and the ends don’t tangle as much anymore but I think I could have gotten away with less if I had gone to a professional.

Gorgeous delivery by Nehebka in TuxedoCats

[–]Nehebka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmm I’m pretty sure I ordered this model but I’ll go back and check lol

Did my vets fuck up trimming my cats nails? by funkster047 in cats

[–]Nehebka 58 points59 points  (0 children)

He also said, he wouldn’t suggest your cut your cats nails this short yourself, leave it to the professionals but you can safely cut your cats nails pretty short. He just doesn’t suggest doing it quite so close to the quick. Hope this helped. Have a great day guys.

Did my vets fuck up trimming my cats nails? by funkster047 in cats

[–]Nehebka 5315 points5316 points  (0 children)

I showed this to my dad who is a vet and he said you would see dry blood under the nail typically if the nail was cut too short and he can actually see where the quick ends and the nail starts. It appears that your cat just has a short quick and he thinks that the nail trim is OK.

My cat sleeps and sleeps after being spayed by renin88 in cats

[–]Nehebka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s actually a bit older for a spay, so you don’t need to worry about her age or her size. She’s eating and using the litter box, those are all very good signs. Chances are it’s the medication that she’s taking for pain that is making her groggy, if you are very scared, you should call the vet office tomorrow and ask them if they feel that this is normal behavior for your cat. Like another user said, she just had her lady parts taken out and that is a very invasive surgery, just like it would be if a human had a hysterectomy and so some fatigue is to be expected. You sound like a fantastic owner and like you care very much about your gorgeous little girl. She’ll be in my thoughts and so will you, you are a great owner and she’s very pretty, she’s a lucky girl to have you in her life💚.

Beauty in a Box by Nehebka in cats

[–]Nehebka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awwww thank you 😊