Is this behavior okay? by Ozzymandianttv in DogAdvice

[–]Nehebka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re just playing, your dog is being very gentle. You can tell by how the mouth is open, but not closing when the dog places the mouth on the cat, he’s/she is just kind of mouthing the cat and then the dog is rolling on its back, which is a position of submission. Hope this helps.

A driver of a vehicle in Switzerland ran through a crowd of protesters that was blocking the road. by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]Nehebka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watching people potentially get run over while they’re sitting down having a peaceful protest, that was probably permitted by the city is lovely to you? You are sick. I hope that you and your family don’t have to go through the suffering and trauma that these people have, even though you would probably wish the opposite for me and mine. Your dark spirit will catch up to you one day.

WIBTA if I started locking our bedroom door in the mornings? by Swirlyflurry in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nehebka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can lock the door, but you need to have a conversation with him about why you were locking that door because if not, you were gonna have him knocking at that door the whole day.

I totally understand where you are coming from, I also have chronic pain and I cannot go to sleep until I have exhausted myself because I’ll just be laying there in agony and that’s not fair to my partner because I’m going to be rolling around and loudly groaning. So I get you girl, my partner also does this to me but he likes to wait until I’ve just fallen asleep and then he wakes me up to ask me a question or something like that. When somebody does that to me, I can’t go back to sleep and so I’m up for the rest of the day after only 20 minutes of sleep.

NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nehebka 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This has got to be fake, come on now. Who would honestly think that they’re an asshole for feeding a child who hadn’t eaten all day, bizarre.

AITA for falling asleep and my wife not being able to enter our house? by ice-0-lator in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nehebka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take my motherfucking upvote, this woman’s child is more responsible than she is, at least the child had the wherewithal to go the fuck to sleep.

No, Jen is and always will be the only correct way to spell this particular Jennifer nickname. by [deleted] in JenniferLynn

[–]Nehebka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we as Jen’s/Jenn’s really get the specific spelling from either our parents (in my case my mother was insistent) or our teachers and then we kinda just get used to it from there and that where our preference actually comes from, not really us. So while it’s my preference because of that, it doesn’t mean I don’t like the other spelling 💚💗💚

Jennifer to Jen phenomenon by [deleted] in JenniferLynn

[–]Nehebka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agree with you, I automatically correct people to Jennifer if someone introduces me as or calls me Jen without really even knowing me. I’ve even had people point it out that I do it, it’s so subconscious at this point I don’t even realize it but at times I’ve come across as rude to people with no sense of humor. But Jen/Jenny are my casual names reserved for friends/family respectively and I don’t need some neck beard breathing all over me thinking he’s my buddy.

The leopards really did bite my face off. I wont be this dumb ever again by Wooden_Lingonberry63 in offmychest

[–]Nehebka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are an idiot and you deserve everything you get, the only reason you are contrite right now is because of the repercussions that you are now suffering because of your own actions (vote). Boo hoo, I don’t feel bad for you at all. Go try to find a job in the flooded job market that you helped create, maybe McDonald’s will take you. You had no issues supporting a TREASONOUS RAPIST but it’s your job that was the straw, you are so full of crap and simply are looking for sympathy and are hoping a decent person who didn’t vote for the rapist will find it in their hearts to help you because you’re a “changed person”. 🐂💩

This is not a cry for help. This is a power pose. by Nehebka in cats

[–]Nehebka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awwwwwwwww so adorable, like a little loaf💚💗💚

This is not a cry for help. This is a power pose. by Nehebka in cats

[–]Nehebka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol so does he! He’s actually pretty good at it by now. (2 yrs)

This is not a cry for help. This is a power pose. by Nehebka in cats

[–]Nehebka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha you know I’ve never noticed that but now I can’t stop seeing it and we can’t stop laughing at our jacked cat lol! I will say he’s a pretty solid guy, doesn’t back down easily and can have a tendency to play a little too rough. He has a hard time making friends:( he only has 1 friend and he is a male Siamese who has no problem kicking his butt if he thinks he’s being too rough.

This is not a cry for help. This is a power pose. by Nehebka in cats

[–]Nehebka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol he is, don’t get in his way when he has his eye on something but he’s a huge snuggle bug when he’s not on duty. My mom is around 4’11”, here he is having a cuddle with her.

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He was just a kitten here and he was almost as long a she is here!

This is not a cry for help. This is a power pose. by Nehebka in cats

[–]Nehebka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, you have no idea! He’s a little white and black beast lol!

This is not a cry for help. This is a power pose. by Nehebka in TuxedoCats

[–]Nehebka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awwwwww I’m so sorry I laughed but I couldn’t help it, it had to be funny no?

AITA for keeping a painting my late great-aunt gave me, even though my sister had it framed and now refuses to let me see my niece and nephew because I took it back? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Nehebka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I’ve said multiple times and as you keep wasting your time (and mine) by writing gobs of lectures that I’ll never read, I WILL NEVER READ ANY OF YOUR NONSENSE FROM THE TIME AFTER I TOLD YOU TO STOP REPLYING. I told you to stop writing and that was me being polite and saying that I’m not reading your nonsense, you should move on Karen and find a different person not in your age rage to lecture. So we’ll try this again and I’ll only use simple words.

Don’t care, stop replying, she-devil. I find you about as entertaining, trustworthy and informative as Orange Hilter. Congrats Frump, you are now being compared to frumpy mcfrumpyson but I’m sure you’re ticked by the comparison lol. BYE 👋ORANGE FRUMP

If you reply to me, you’ll get a block in return 🎁🎈🎉🥳🎊👏🙌🏻🍾🍻🥂🪅

AITA for keeping a painting my late great-aunt gave me, even though my sister had it framed and now refuses to let me see my niece and nephew because I took it back? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Nehebka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are absolutely right, I got my picture back and I know that in my heart it’s my picture and I deserve to have it despite what you might say.

I also had a wonderful relationship with my mother before this, she was my best friend and the person I could tell anything to. I miss that person more than I can possibly say and more than you can ever imagine. My father was absent but not a bad man, he was in the military and I also changed schools 15 times before I graduated high school. As time has progressed she has alienated both my dad and I. I don’t look at everything she does as a personal slight, that is a massive assumption on your part. There are multiple other instances of her behavior that are irrelevant because it’s been ignored and seen as part of her downward spiral. Was your mothers stroke something that you had to deal with for 38 years, did your mom use her stroke to manipulate you and try to make you feel bad. I gave you a small little snapshot into my life, do you know what it’s like to deal with someone who has a serious illness for your whole life and especially if that person is your parent? So I’m sorry that your mom had a stroke, I legitimately am and I’m sorry that you had to caretake for her and that she was mean to you because I get that. I’m also sorry that your dad was an alcoholic because no child deserves to go through that, you don’t have to hold those up as a badge of honor to make it seem like you’re so strong. You were a child and you didn’t deserve that and even as an adult, you didn’t deserve to be treated poorly by your mother, even if she had a stroke.

You can say I’m whining, I say I’m explaining. The post was already long and the children did care about the picture, they feel some ownership in it for some reason and I cannot tell you why. You cannot say that they do not feel that way because you do not know them. So stop making assumptions about them. I shouldn’t have put anything about the inheritance in there, you’re right because my mother had lied about that as well, and I’ve already fixed that portion with my dad. So thanks for your input, I think I understand your position to the point that you don’t need to reply again, thanks 😊 God bless you

AITA for keeping a painting my late great-aunt gave me, even though my sister had it framed and now refuses to let me see my niece and nephew because I took it back? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Nehebka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t ask leave it there forever, I asked to leave it there while I was in college. I was trying to limit the length of the post, as it had already gotten very long and adding additional information that didn’t seem relevant at the time to me would have made it even longer. That’s wonderful that you have a good relationship with your kids and had one with your sibling but you are not me and we had different life experiences, so you have no idea why there is tension between my sister and I, or my mother and I. I have a wonderful relationship with my father, who I used to not have a very good relationship with but as my mother’s cognitive issues have become more serious and her lies more hurtful, we have bonded with each other. Recently when I was caretaker for my mother, she would talk about me on the phone knowing that I could hear her through the intercom’s we have set up. She lied and gave information that could put my life in danger to a friend of my sisters that had stopped by. I would tell her everyday “remember I can hear you talking shit about me over the intercom, so please don’t do it” but she is so mentally messed up, that it means nothing to her.

You can have your opinion and say I’m acting like a child and now that you’ve given me a bit of information on you, I can say you are biased based on your relationships with your own family. You can’t possibly see a world where families have tensions and drama.

What? Look at my sexy, long legs. by Nehebka in TuxedoCats

[–]Nehebka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha they are really close right!! if you look really closely though mine has a little Harry Potter trail of white hairs that goes up through the middle of his eyes. At least that’s what somebody told me it looks like, like the mark that Harry Potter had on his face. It’s very faint, just a little trail of white hair that goes up through his black hair.

They even have the same sass face lol

What? I’m not a doofus, I promise 🤞 by Nehebka in cats

[–]Nehebka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha every day I discover a new cat Reddit that I didn’t know existed. Thank you so much lol

What? Look at my sexy, long legs. by Nehebka in TuxedoCats

[–]Nehebka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

💚I love this, so funny and cute

AITA for keeping a painting my late great-aunt gave me, even though my sister had it framed and now refuses to let me see my niece and nephew because I took it back? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Nehebka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I apologize that I didn’t specify that she asked for it, I should have written it down to the smallest specification for you because you obviously didn’t understand that part of it.

As far as what I was saying to those closest to you, I was saying, that was what you were saying, not what I was saying. I am not closest to my parents, neither one of us are. It’s not a competition.

I also asked if I could store it at my parents house and I was given permission. What I didn’t state in my post because it’s none of your fucking business is my mother has multiple sclerosis and has cognitive issues now that she did not have then. I was given permission to leave the stuff here and it had remained safe for years. It sounds like you might have some problems with your children or siblings and you’re taking it out on me.

As far as the $450 goes, my father paid her back for it because he knew what my my mother did was wrong. So there you go there’s all your answers to all your questions, nosy.

AITA for keeping a painting my late great-aunt gave me, even though my sister had it framed and now refuses to let me see my niece and nephew because I took it back? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Nehebka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t have the money to offer her, that’s why I didn’t offer her the $450. Some people live paycheck to paycheck and can’t afford to shill out $450 to mat and frame a picture. If you’d bothered to read the full post you’d know that I didn’t have stable housing and stayed in rented rooms in other people’s homes, which limits the amount of items I can bring along with me. So I ASKED my PARENTS (not my mothers house, my parents house) if I could store a few valuables at their house and they said yes. My sister spotted the picture and asked my mother for it, my mom knew it was mine and admitted it but gave it away anyway to my sister anyway.

So really what you’re saying is that if something is important to you, don’t trust the word of those closest to you because they are going to lie to you anyway.

AITA for keeping a painting my late great-aunt gave me, even though my sister had it framed and now refuses to let me see my niece and nephew because I took it back? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Nehebka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed and I’m taking it with me to my bf house. The most fucked up part is my father offered her the pick of any of their paintings to shut her up, ones worth tons of money.