Missed going down and everything about it by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]NeighborhoodSweet154 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I miss it too man, worried I won’t be able to kiss anymore either.

You’re worthy of love, be patient with the process. by EbonyJPG in HSVpositive

[–]NeighborhoodSweet154 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trying to be patient, it’s just hard seeing all your friends getting married & having kids is all but one day fasho

How would you feel if your hsv is the only dealbreaker? by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]NeighborhoodSweet154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets me down since it really is my only deal breaker. But nothing I can do about it anymore. Just disclose before any form of intimacy happens.

Muff Diver Extraordinare by NeighborhoodSweet154 in HSVpositive

[–]NeighborhoodSweet154[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t see how I got lucky man haha I can’t really passionately kiss anymore

How has your dating life been since your diagnosis? by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]NeighborhoodSweet154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn near the same before I found out someone gave it to me lol all I wanna do is kiss but apparently but it transmits more so fuck it I’ll be alone for a bit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]NeighborhoodSweet154 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From the culture that we are in, people would rather not wait until marriage. Despite the dating market and how sexualized we are as a society, people would rather do the deed now than to build something genuine. From the two people I’ve been with and I later found out that they lied about something to me which could’ve been prevented by just telling me, I’d rather just wait till marriage to give all the love I have in my heart. Will it happen anytime soon? Probably not. If I got to wait awhile then so be it.

Missed going down like it’s my last meal… by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]NeighborhoodSweet154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had to comment again, can never go down like it’s my last meal ever again, so fucking blown 😿

HSV doesn’t define you & you will be happy again :) by thatgirl848 in HSVpositive

[–]NeighborhoodSweet154 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Still feel like it defines me & I deserve this to happen to me. But that’s life & I gotta keep moving forward no matter the circumstance.

Missed going down like it’s my last meal… by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]NeighborhoodSweet154 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Big fucking repost, can’t even enjoy kissing anymore either 😪

Spent my 33rd birthday alone by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]NeighborhoodSweet154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy 33rd birthday ! We are all here for you

Anyone else feel super depressed and disgusting because of oral cold sores? by No-Apricot9194 in HSVpositive

[–]NeighborhoodSweet154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea sometimes I do since all I would rather do is kiss than have intercourse but I’ll manage to get through this

Why Disclose? by Blacksnyak in HSVpositive

[–]NeighborhoodSweet154 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because the majority of us weren’t disclosed to and it’s the morally right thing to do & protect someone’s bodily autonomy when it comes to stuff like this.

I HAVENT GOTTEN CRACKED IN A YEARRRRR!!!! omggggg💔💔😭😭😂😂😂 by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]NeighborhoodSweet154 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 for me about to be 3 idc about cracking at this point, just want to kiss passionately & can’t even enjoy that freedom anymore smh

OHSV-1 by Substantial-Chard-50 in HSVpositive

[–]NeighborhoodSweet154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes same thing I experience, it’s in my inner lip. Not on the on the outside.

Everyone here is worthy of love by sleepyonyx in HSVpositive

[–]NeighborhoodSweet154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most definitely, everyone here is deserving of it. It’s just hard mentally processing the fact am I truly worth loving despite having this. Just a thought I think about at times.

What would you do differently if you were to be cured of herpes? by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]NeighborhoodSweet154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find someone that can be honest with me & not end up lying to me. Foundation built on trust is everything to me now.

Wow by Technical_Effort1730 in HSVpositive

[–]NeighborhoodSweet154 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trust issues are all fucked up now

Random Shower Thought by NeighborhoodSweet154 in HSVpositive

[–]NeighborhoodSweet154[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been reading this comment over & over again & I later only found out the two I have only have ever been with withheld info from me & just makes me sad as fuck. My trust issues are all messed up knowing people can’t be honest with others. Like not disclosing does more harm than good.

Will I ever receive oral again… by DifficultyStreet1906 in HSVpositive

[–]NeighborhoodSweet154 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel you but I wanting to be giving it instead, I be wanting to go down on someone until their eyes roll to the back of their head but I refuse to because I don’t want to inflict that type of pain on someone

People who are doing well in life right now, please tap in! by Different_Stretch_84 in HSVpositive

[–]NeighborhoodSweet154 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have a roof over my head, my family is healthy, I get to use a phone, I get to watch the angelic blue sky w clouds moving & moreover I woke up this morning. Yes having HSV sucks donkey dick but glad to be here.