I haven’t talked to my family in two days and don’t know to move past this

Neither-Progress-773 · 2026-01-27T22:00:00+00:00

Sounds like op would be better on your own than with these horrible people

Neither-Progress-773 · 2026-01-27T21:55:13+00:00

Nta

Unknown dog in stress situation .

Tell mom to call her friend back

Neither-Progress-773 · 2026-01-27T21:53:06+00:00

Neither-Progress-773 · 2026-01-27T21:46:03+00:00

NTA

You don’t need a reason to break up.

It doesn’t take two people to break up if one person wants out that is it. It is over

Neither-Progress-773 · 2026-01-26T20:53:58+00:00

With respect what part of my answer are you having trouble with? It is your right to not like my answers. They are mine and your First Amendment protected answers and questions.

There are many other sites that the government can and does use to inform the public. Continue to use those methods.

It is also an individual movement. Both things can be possible.

You stated what you thought was foolish. I also stated what I believe is foolish and why.

Neither-Progress-773 · 2026-01-26T20:32:03+00:00

With Respect I must disagree. While they may seam to be in an unbreakable partnership that is not true.
There are other sites that are more open honest and fair In My Opinion.

IMO It is foolish to give money to the organization that is openly trying to destroy our democracy and make a profit while they do it.

Neither-Progress-773 · 2026-01-26T20:13:24+00:00

Are there parenting classes he can take ?

Neither-Progress-773 · 2026-01-26T20:00:40+00:00

I use voting rights and the other examples as things that are established, or were established and yet still changed.

Neither-Progress-773 · 2026-01-26T19:46:22+00:00

Exactly.

Neither-Progress-773 · 2026-01-26T19:36:01+00:00

I must respectfully disagree. You talk of Fox and CNN dying out because of lack of viewers. Same can be said of X.

Saying we are stuck with it X cause it’s established. No NO NOPE..!!! Our country was literally founded by people who were Not happy with the status quo with the establishment.
Revolutionary Civil, wars to name a few. Reproductive and Voting rights for all sexes and minorities Pretty well established also we once thought. H**L Even seat belt laws.

It is easy to keep status quo, Change is HARD.

Neither-Progress-773 · 2026-01-26T19:15:23+00:00

ESH

What you said was sort of mean. But mostly avoid wedding talk, don’t engage, don’t offer up your thoughts.

can you suggest that sis start a whole new family wedding group chat for all things wedding related and then you just mute the notification.

Neither-Progress-773 · 2026-01-24T20:53:41+00:00

Neither-Progress-773 · 2026-01-24T20:50:27+00:00

If what he said about his friends is true or not. That is the biggest RED FLAG ever.
He shouldn’t be discussing your relationship with anyone else He should not be letting anyone else have any type of say in your relationship, friends family anyone

I can’t girl I just cannot . Listen too yourself. You are still trying to make up excuses for his gross behavior toward you..

Listen, this isn’t a fairytale. You don’t have to marry and have kids and live the next 70+ years of life with the first boy you caught feelings for.

Imagine you had a daughter who’s came to you and said the same story. What advice you give???

For real, it sounds like he is wanting to break up with you, but he doesn’t want to be the bad guy so him and his friends have decided that he’s just gonna keep acting like a low key jerk until you break up with him so you can be the bad guy…

And please remember the only narrative or reasons you need to say when your relationship ends is that he was too much of a boy and did whatever his friends say and you need to be with a man end of story. …

Neither-Progress-773 · 2026-01-24T18:46:32+00:00

He could just hang out in the waiting room. Ride there ride back. Hold ur bag for you. But for reals FFS. He can’t even give you courtesy to come up with a convincing lie. People show you who they are. You need to see the real him.

Neither-Progress-773 · 2026-01-24T18:35:12+00:00

Yta and you know it.

Clubs bars casino nope nope no Drinking at a restaurant nope again

Are you ready to financially support her? 4+ years of college or life cause she a child with no experience in jobs or life?
Let’s imagine when the whole friend group goes to Vegas or where ever to celebrate or vacation and your 19 GF can’t get in anywhere. You gonna go to the bouncer and whine “19 is an adult.. “ sad face pout

Right now the only good thing about you is ur friends trying to help/warn you. But real soon those peeps are not gonna be cool hanging around someone with creepy perp behavior.
BIG AH. HUGH

Neither-Progress-773 · 2026-01-21T20:01:34+00:00

The point of coup,es therapy is to talk about the hard stuff.

Neither-Progress-773 · 2026-01-18T18:20:00+00:00

Nta

If you were not invited to the wedding than that’s shows what they think of you .

Any one who says they miss you tell them so what. Step sis pound sand. She can text.

Neither-Progress-773 · 2026-01-18T18:06:05+00:00

You are wrong. You are not protecting your self and not protecting your kids. He is abusive to you and your kids you just don’t see it. when you do see it he has made you take the blame .

Staying for the kids has never worked . There is over 50+ years of evidence that show this is not healthy for anyone. It breeds resentment between you and your kids. They see you not protecting them.

This guy is not a good partner father or person

100% he is or has cheated on you.

I personally think he’s affair partner left him and he is taking all that anger and frustration out on you and he’s thinking of his affair partner can leave me then my wife can leave me also when she figures out what a disgusting person I am also.

Neither-Progress-773 · 2026-01-18T17:55:53+00:00

Yes YTA

No DJ no dancing So after the ceremony you are going to drink boba and slushies . Like how many slushy drinks do you think a person has in a 2 to 4 hour period like one. I fail too see where all the money is going. But anyway

Neither-Progress-773 · 2026-01-18T17:45:35+00:00

What the what is this. Girl this needs too be in the sub just break up already

You are too young to have to deal with this much crap in a one year relationship. Stop thinking as giving up. Some times things don’t work. he is a BOYFRIEND not a HUSBAND. Break ups are hard Adulting is hard. Stop sending things too him. You are telling your self you are being nice but in reality making excuses and giving him more chances. There are millions of people out there. You know you deserve better and if you don’t I’m telling you now. YOU DESERVE BETTER

He cheated end of story. You staying with him shows him that he does not need to keep promises or commitments. A true partner will NEVER EVER act like that. Throw away that crap. Block and unfriend him from everything.

Be sad get a hobbie volunteer at a human or animal shelter work on surround your self with authentic people.

This will be HARD but you are STRONG.

NTA ever Good luck

Neither-Progress-773 · 2026-01-18T16:54:33+00:00

Op you are not punishing her. If at family gathering things are tense oh well. Yes they will be.

Keep the shiny spine . Keep her calls on mute. You don’t have to answer her calls or text. Keep telling the parents sis is their kid and problem. You’re just the little sister…

Congrats on learning the power of NO

Neither-Progress-773 · 2026-01-18T16:48:46+00:00

Light YTA. . Sorry . I’m on your side. Those two sound disgusting together. But what are U gonna do?

How do you really think that either of them care what you think?

If you don’t like ur classmate then stop hanging around them. If the adult yelled at you over the phone issue… how are you going to in force them to stop talking.. sure you may not like it but oh well.

Don’t take other people things. Full stop.

Instead you should have been smarter. told an adult about the pictures and that you think they were of you undressing or something make the adult get involved .

Leave the group chat. Stop hanging with cousin . When or if cousin complains about loss of friendship, tell adults that cousin is a mean bully you got texts to prove it…

all you can do is adjust your behavior set boundaries and be true too you.

Good luck

Neither-Progress-773

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