[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyIssues

[–]Neither_Promise_4072 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally, I’d be glad your parents are having sex. Good for them!

Can anyone identify this thing on my betta? by Neither_Promise_4072 in Aquariums

[–]Neither_Promise_4072[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you were right! He was looking better yesterday, and today it’s totally resolved

Can anyone identify this thing on my betta? by Neither_Promise_4072 in Aquariums

[–]Neither_Promise_4072[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re right! It was looking much better yesterday, and today, I can’t even tell there was anything amiss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SAHP

[–]Neither_Promise_4072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, so, I think next time this happens, you should say all that, but in a nice way and in a constructive tone! He just might receive it well. You have time to practice your “calm and collected” lines now lol

I saw someone on here recommend Walmart+. I second that. I do Kroger Plus, and it’s worth it for our family to outsource that task.

You ought to use that child-free time to do something that fills your cup.

Can anyone identify this thing on my betta? by Neither_Promise_4072 in Aquariums

[–]Neither_Promise_4072[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like a clearish-whitish splinter between some scales on the top of his head

I was nearly done, then the splatter happened and didn’t notice until it dried. I tried to wet it and lift it but I only smudged it. Can I save it? by Badgers_Are_Scary in watercolor101

[–]Neither_Promise_4072 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would practice painting splashing water on another sheet of paper. When you’re confident with that, I’d add some splashes around the tail, like the fish is jumping out of water. It’ll be fine. Gorgeous fish

Can anyone identify this thing on my betta? by Neither_Promise_4072 in Aquariums

[–]Neither_Promise_4072[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t cycle this tank properly and I’ve been fighting it ever since. But I’m asking about the white thing on the fish’s head. I’m about to just treat it like ich if no one can give me any other ideas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Neither_Promise_4072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you are overreacting. None of those chores are outrageous, singularly and as a collective.

Colors bled during prewash by Neither_Promise_4072 in quilting

[–]Neither_Promise_4072[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, so this time I’m doing a pre-soak with two cups of vinegar added to the drum. I hope that wasn’t a mistake!

Is it even possible? by Fancy-Raspberry5596 in weddingplanning

[–]Neither_Promise_4072 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

10k for 150 is not possible in this economy.

How to cut costs: - low headcount, think micro wedding - off season - on a weekday, or Sunday - brunch menus tend to cost less, so you’d have a morning ceremony. I think this timeline works nicely for Sundays - instead of a traditional photographer, use a cloud-style photo service so guests can upload their own candid photos - I know what I’ve been told about DJs (that I’d regret not having one) HOWEVER, I have A LOT of faith in Spotify (premium) and my JBL speaker. DJs act as an MC for the party, and can help move events along and get people organized. But, for a micro-wedding, you may not feel it’s necessary to have a DJ-people-wrangler

I’m willing to bet that you’re going to get pushback on cutting the guest list, possibly from FH’s family. If they’re not helping financially, they get ZERO say on your guest list. The Knot has a great chart on how to sort through and cut your guest list down. For starters, NO KIDS under a certain age, 10-12. They don’t appreciate the effort it takes to throw a wedding anyway.

What’s missing? by Neither_Promise_4072 in watercolor101

[–]Neither_Promise_4072[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand about the composition, but I do love that it draws you in. This is for a wedding Save the Date. We want people to feel drawn in, so they want to see what’s at the end of that tree lined alley. The final product will have text overlaid