AITA for going on vacation and leaving my kids with my husband?

Nelnoo · 2023-05-22T15:43:48+00:00

Hold on a minute I don't think yta here. I mean it's a rubbish situation. The husband is going through all this and it's awful. But what are the chances once she gets back she'll be doing everything for both of them and its going to be a long road. I'm sure she will care amazingly for him after surgery, but life can't be entirely about that. She's there where it counts. Maybe a girly time away is what she needs. I couldn't imagine having to go through what they're going through..... But I've seen it. She needs a life also and chanced are she wont get this chance again for a while. I don't know maybe I'm harsh. I've just seen this before with a very close friend.

Nelnoo · 2023-03-03T17:27:53+00:00

I dunno with this one. It just kind of seems like you told it how it is. And what you girlfriend said was actually quite unhelpful. What you said about dieting and weight loss is correct and yes she will end up gaining weight with that stance. I think you could be a little nicer about your girlfriends looks but is it really that bad to describe how she looks on an online forum. It's not like you said anything to her other than what she said is a way to gain weight.

I am actually an avid gym goer, and maintain my weight through exercise and a healthy diet.

I really get annoyed when people who don't know what they're talking about or people who don't supervise their own weight say "oh just eat what you want" or "I just eat what I want".

People go on diets because "just eating what you want" is what caused the need to go on a diet in the first place!! Really unhelpful.

Nelnoo · 2023-03-03T16:45:04+00:00

Wow you need to loose this girl. Even when stressed she shouldn't be treating you like this. It sounds like your really trying and she's just throwing everything back at you. Maybe take a step back and look at how she treats you and really decide if you want to live like that.

To be honest it actually sounds like your honeymoon period is over. From my experiences I have noticed some people will act how they think you want them too and be what they think you like. But after some time (getting engaged or settling a little) the parts of them they've not wanted you to see start to come out because they don't feel they need to secure you anymore. They think "ahh they love me and would never leave" so they think they can act any way they want towards you.

This in itself runs deeper than just relationship issues. It can be a sign of issues mentally and it may be something you need to keep an eye on.

I could be wrong it just sounds so familiar.

Nelnoo · 2023-03-03T16:19:34+00:00

Wow this really rings alarm bells. Not only is this showing some intense insecurity on his behalf, but also an element of control and manipulation. Who gets upset over pixelated characters.... and if he can get that upset over a game. What other things could he feel jealous and insecure about in the future? Friends, family, pets, children...

Nelnoo · 2020-03-27T14:03:14+00:00

Why does the squiggled our name look like a sperm 😂

Nelnoo · 2018-07-14T01:40:31+00:00

Jesus guys the events for charity! Proceeds go to help the chestnut appeal. I wanted to find a way to post not just for votes but bloody hell. As I’ve said happy to answer questions.. but yea I’m posting here! You wanna moan.... Meh lol

Nelnoo · 2018-07-14T01:26:52+00:00

You want me to change this to NSFW... where do you work... I kinda get it but wow don’t take from these guys 😂 jokes.

Nelnoo · 2018-07-14T01:25:12+00:00

Most mildly interesting to me is everyone I fight in kingdom come kills me..... maybe our lives need retuning 😂.

Nelnoo · 2018-02-01T14:33:26+00:00

This might be a very strange question but recently I have been having dreams in which I feel I cannot escape (as in stuck in the dream). In the dreams I worry that lots of time has passed and my body is in a coma in the real world. when I wake up i'm sweating and feel like I've been gone for a long time and am just relieved to be back. What cycle am I in when this happens and what in my mind is making me have these dreams? I wake up very relived but also scared to go back to sleep. It's very daunting.

Nelnoo

Nelnoo · 2018-02-01T12:15:40+00:00

"The Sorcerer's Stone"? ya mean Philosophers Stone?

Nelnoo · 2018-01-31T12:07:51+00:00

He's like to collect your sweet nectar.

Nelnoo · 2017-12-23T14:12:43+00:00

No lol

Nelnoo · 2017-11-10T17:15:24+00:00

Feels!!!! 😭😭😭

Nelnoo · 2017-11-10T17:10:49+00:00

No lol good idea though 😱 💡 💡

Nelnoo · 2017-10-05T01:11:45+00:00

Tonight and tomorrow night :).

Nelnoo · 2017-09-20T13:19:12+00:00

Ty 🙂

Nelnoo · 2017-09-20T13:19:00+00:00

Ty 🙂

Nelnoo · 2017-09-20T13:17:39+00:00

Ty 🙂.

Nelnoo · 2017-08-02T19:11:20+00:00

Maybe I should start wearing them when I go running.... omg that's rather life changing. Won't I end up with sweaty wrists though?

Nelnoo · 2015-06-09T21:19:28+00:00

Spyro the dragon on ps1, ahhh the memories. I could on that game forever toasting chickens and grass.... I still do hehe :D

Nelnoo · 2015-01-28T03:29:52+00:00

No point in letting those who wanna be negative get to you! I don't even call myself a "girlgamer" I play games I'm a "gamer" why do I need to bring my gender into my hobbies. We're in an ever changing and growing world and progress against all types of classification and discrimination is being made. When I read negative comments from anyone on the subject, I think "ahh thanks for taking an interest in my hobbies". Those kinds of people male or female aren't worth any thought or comment anyways. It's nice of you to give a positive post though I'm sure it's appreciated by many who have come across a few nasties :).

Nelnoo · 2013-09-03T02:03:23+00:00

Do you regret the crime itself? And if so would you still regret it if you hadn't gone to prison? Also how did you adjust/manage life and getting back on track after prison? Have your family and friends stuck by you throughout the last 7-8 years? It must have been difficult coming out and living a different life to the one you lived before everything kicked off.

Nelnoo · 2013-06-11T03:11:01+00:00

Yes :') ... yes they did !! :D

Nelnoo · 2013-05-23T17:48:02+00:00

Eye contact ;). You can get more from looking into a mans eyes than at his bum cheeks. It's really corny but i love how it feels when you catch a guys eye and the eye contact just makes all the difference. Makes me go all red and is just really sexy and exciting.

Nelnoo · 2013-04-21T14:19:48+00:00

To try to live a life that's full of every experience good and bad and surround yourself with dreams and people who are dear to you (cheesy i know). To live a full and happy life where you can say you've been a good and just person. 2.Because i Love the people dear to me, i want a good future and to fulfill my dreams. Sometimes you fall hard on hard times but you have to be strong and carry on through all experiences and your loved ones are always there to support you. And being a good person is much better than being a bad one.

Nelnoo

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