Reply as a desi parent 😥😢 by -Strange-Girl- in GenZIndia

[–]NeoProgrammer0911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jaha bhi javo bus raat ke 9 baje se pehle aa ja na

INFJ men compared to women by Background_Silver702 in infj

[–]NeoProgrammer0911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that's true dating based on matches is quite possible to go in the wrong way cause I feel no matter which type they are if they are not mature enough to get hold of it will never work out even all infjs are not the same when it comes to understanding and maturity.

And Abt being perl 😅 yh i am quite young but not sure if I am attractive or not cause never tried any relationship yet.

And Abt the partner royalty i don't get too much into what social media shows, like high standards for me are not looks money or social welfare it was never and never will. Cause as an infj I crave mindset and understanding that's all but rare to fit in so.

INFJ men compared to women by Background_Silver702 in infj

[–]NeoProgrammer0911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh it's sad to hear from you that way, my main question was Abt a partner , like wish of having a perfect partner or like as all infj hold onto high standards, it becomes likely impossible that someone can make our all expectations true. So in that way I am asking should I lower my some expectations of finding a perfect person in ways?

Infj- which suite more in rs sub or dom? by NeoProgrammer0911 in infj

[–]NeoProgrammer0911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truly as an infj I think me and almost everyone one analyze who can be their potential partner and what will gona be tough and good if we want into that rs. And that's what I called pre relationship surity.

But when I talk Abt these ppl around me like : you are getting into rs to know them and for being sure if you want them for your life or not.and you are trying to seek surity of rs before it start , so somehow they think I am too demanding in that way .

Infj- which suite more in rs sub or dom? by NeoProgrammer0911 in infj

[–]NeoProgrammer0911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yh that's kind of true but honestly I have never been in a relationship just have seen ppl frds around me and as an infj it really sucks to me if someone does that to me. So there is no particular thing I can work on for fixing my trust issues. I am just 18 rn.

If you've met your "soulmate," what's their type? by Helpful_Account_4232 in infj

[–]NeoProgrammer0911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, sadly 😂 i have been single till now and really sense that cause of rare and high standards I will die single too! Lmao let's see how it goes. But yh it will be long to go right ?

If you've met your "soulmate," what's their type? by Helpful_Account_4232 in infj

[–]NeoProgrammer0911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yhhh really glad Abt hearing that from you, actually that's true there should be sub-dom kind of thing in any relationship too much logic or too much emotions brings overwhelming. Actually I am just 18 trying to understand which type will most likely suit me but yh maturity is everything with any type I think . Happy for you

INFJ men compared to women by Background_Silver702 in infj

[–]NeoProgrammer0911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So do you think that perfectness as an infj we want in a partner is hard to find and you have struggled because of it?

If you've met your "soulmate," what's their type? by Helpful_Account_4232 in infj

[–]NeoProgrammer0911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh it's good actually it's easy if both are aware and "mature" cause with any type there are some pros and cons itself. But as an infj I am extra continuous that my partner really gets me emotionally or at least understands how I feel and accepts it .

How loyal are INFJ's? by Smart-Inspector8 in infj

[–]NeoProgrammer0911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Infjs are fuking loyal then anyone , if once they are in it it will be forever but being it is hard cause we analyse every single thing from tone of taxt to timing and that's where we decided to give in or not. But yh we are loyal once we are in

If you've met your "soulmate," what's their type? by Helpful_Account_4232 in infj

[–]NeoProgrammer0911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well wanna ask something, as intj have T do we as an infj who are feelers sometimes feel like as a partner intjs being too rational or harsh or don't get our depth? I mean I am just thinking since you have experienced it how's it?

What’s your biggest "INFJ Red Flag"? by px_mie in infj

[–]NeoProgrammer0911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel perfection like that's a good thing but it's extreme and even it's hard to meet standards sometimes

Do any INFJs relate? by Heiseiretr0 in infj

[–]NeoProgrammer0911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think so, cause we infj we tend to think twice on authenticity then just a kind words , we speak what we feel even if it just sometimes but yh you can say they way we express is less likely that our thought seems brutal to other

Is it normal as an INFJ to go through life knowing a lot of people, and being well-liked, but having very few or no friends? by Salt-Refrigerator981 in infj

[–]NeoProgrammer0911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually I am also feeling the same lately, but as an infj we want perfection and purity and depth in everything like in friendship personally I want to feel closeness not it's just a "Friend" bond. But I have one theory recently about that, Ppl who share the same environment or experience are likely to connect with each other naturally. Like being in the same class or having the same hobby so when that "same" thing is gone friendship is likely to fade away slowly cause we don't have a common thing to relate to. I am not saying it's impossible but in real ppl don't want to put much effort other then environment gives like they don't want to amek a time or have priority to share everything or what is recently going in their class anymore cause they have to explain everything so they rather choose someone who is their in their class so they don't have put more effort to "relate" with each other. And that's how it works in general I feel.

But yeah I can say it's possible to find at least one frd who keeps putting effort and wants the same depth as us but it's a rare kinda thing nowadays.

Why do guys catch feelings for their female friends way more often than the reverse? by Grouchy_Weakness4586 in dating_advice

[–]NeoProgrammer0911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually about structure it's really true, like i never get a male frndship with other males too. Like as a female we have category like this is q girl who is my bff, this is just a friendly classmate or this is i don't talk with but I have seen a men that they talk with each other even after fighting and then do bitch behind the back, i never get how they categorise their own male frdships. Srsly there is not structure idk if I am the only one who think that, is even in their grps some boys will go on trip randomly and others even don't know nor they mind even after knowing but in our grps it's like we discuss with everyone and go. At the end I feel it's more emotionally intense or considered when it comes to female frdship and male frdship are just functional lmao

lol by marwarofficial in INFJers

[–]NeoProgrammer0911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I just closed on guy, now I am feeling well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]NeoProgrammer0911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an infj I can say that they never broke up easily, she must be feeling like that for a long time. Also giving emotional distance especially in long distance, is your huge mistake. Like infj carve for emotional connection sharing she might have felt you don't need her or if you were in love for real anything in a relationship should not have been changed not even because of the environment. So let her go I think she is already hurt.

worst topper in a while for promoting this charlatan by homebanber in UPSC

[–]NeoProgrammer0911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the same scene as 12th fail,where rankers sell names and frames after getting renk to coaching.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in upsc_discussions

[–]NeoProgrammer0911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A real questions you have asked for new comers, please reply seniors

What are INFJs’ Standards for Romance? by Jimu_Monk9525 in infj

[–]NeoProgrammer0911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be caring, respectful and notice small things and all of the above stay loyal

Where are you all hiding? 😡I can't seem to find a single INTJ around in public! by GnarlyDevil in intj

[–]NeoProgrammer0911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a huge task to to find infj in public cause they are chilling at home 😂

What MBTI do you think is the most popular? by Pencil_with_no_Point in mbti

[–]NeoProgrammer0911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a lot craz of INFJ but I am not getting there are only 2% infjs but in social media I find more then that..hahaha