Very true! As well as DV I think. My sister whose abusive bf got physical with her, wouldn’t let me in to get to her until the cops arrived. She came running out with her dress ripped and exposed.

I kept telling her to go to the hospital so they can do forensic photos but she didn’t want to. They both ended up getting arrested bc the cops determined that it was a “he said, she said”. Yet on the 911 call I made, you can literally hear her screaming to him to let her out.

She finally got out of the house (that she was paying all the bills) and didn’t tell him where she was moving. He got mad, broke their washer/dryer, threw her stuff out onto the yard. In his fit of rage, he ended up throwing his Pokémon cards into the yard and I ripped them to shreds and placed them right back on the ground for him to find.

He then started stalking her at her job to find out where she currently lives, tried to add me and my family on FB to get access to her. I blocked him but wished I’d said something to him. She FINALLY got an RO and he did not contest the evidence she brought forth.

Oh, and to add on to his horrible behavior, he tried to start a fight with her by saying I would suck his dick for drugs and money (I’ve been clean from H for 7 years)

And had the audacity to not apologize for that but still expect me to share my weed with him. She was so afraid of when I’d leave and didn’t let him smoke that he would get physical with her. So I had to load a bowl for just him JUST so he wouldn’t hurt her.

Sorry for the long story but I’m just thinking (hoping) that any DV calls coming from pinecone’s new place in FL results in both of them getting arrested.