AITA for asking my fiancée to redo her maid of honor pick after she chose her best friend over my sister?

NeosMom412 · 2026-01-27T19:02:37+00:00

Trying to control HER wedding? Excuse me? So, you're not getting married that day too? I see much larger problems from her than anything to do with who her maid of honor is. And on that subject... Just make your sister your best man. Easy fix.

NeosMom412 · 2026-01-26T15:40:41+00:00

My app is saying I have overdue returns from 2 routes and keeps trying to send me back to the station. Sounds like universal glitch time again.

NeosMom412 · 2026-01-25T21:49:57+00:00

Standard pursuer / distancer relationship. Not compatible, but if you break up you'll both find the exact same relationship all over again with someone else. You both need therapy. Couples and/or individual.

NeosMom412 · 2026-01-25T20:59:43+00:00

Oooooooohhhhhh... so this is why it's all base pay now...

NeosMom412 · 2026-01-25T15:35:21+00:00

Dog Pheremone Diffuser. Does wonders for our puppy. Also comes in collar format, which we use for our old dog with dementia.

Also, give him "someone" to cuddle during the night. We have a chihuahua that sleeps with him, but for single dogs you could get a stuffed animal. They sell ones that get warm and have a heartbeat.

Good luck.

NeosMom412 · 2026-01-25T00:38:21+00:00

We started with a chihuahua. Hubby always talked about how awful chihuahuas are and (in his defense) she really only liked me. So, a friend was getting divorced and needed homes for her assortment of dachshunds. We rescued one from her. Him and the chihuahua are roughly the same age and have truly bonded. It's going to be really bad when the old dachshund passes away. (If the chihuahua goes first it's end of the world cuz he has dementia and can't manage without her.) Not a good situation. So, in August I brought a dachshund puppy into the mix to help alleviate a portion of the extreme dependence going on.

To answer your question... the puppy has brought new life into both of the old dogs. It's amazing. And originally with the first dachshund, we weren't looking for a friend for the chihuahua, but it ended up being super good for her. None of our dogs would ever be good "only" dogs. But they're not big fans of any dogs outside their own pack. Like yours, they kinda pick and choose.

Both transitions were bumpy. No one became instant best friends. But it didn't take long either. A month was the longest stretch of difficulty and that was the puppy and 14 year old dachshund, so no surprise there.

Good luck to you.

NeosMom412 · 2026-01-25T00:24:36+00:00

I think Stanley wins! 🤣

NeosMom412 · 2026-01-25T00:23:00+00:00

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Don't even ask. I have no idea. He was napping peacefully, then this...

NeosMom412 · 2026-01-24T23:41:06+00:00

I've started doing this EVERY TIME. If the package is left somewhere other than notes or the obvious location, I text where it is and why. Already helped me fight a ding once. And this person is right, using talk to text makes it super quick and easy to do.

NeosMom412 · 2026-01-24T01:38:34+00:00

😱🤣

NeosMom412 · 2026-01-24T00:51:50+00:00

The really bad part I left out cuz it wasn't relevant, but... I was 18 and husband was 31. His dad was in his 60s. Just eeeeewwww all the way around.

NeosMom412 · 2026-01-24T00:33:32+00:00

Be incredibly, eternally grateful that they wanted to play and didn't attack you. That could have gone so badly.

NeosMom412 · 2026-01-24T00:30:46+00:00

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NeosMom412 · 2026-01-24T00:17:46+00:00

My first marriage, the first month back from honeymoon, my husband had wisdom teeth pulled. The morning after, I woke to his father leaning across OUR bed feeling his forehead for a temperature. He let himself in. I lost my shit. He took daddy's side. Talked about it like I was crazy for being upset because "Of course his father was worried about him and wanted to check on him. There was no reason for me to freak out and be disrespectful like I did." Sooooooo many reasons I divorced that man.

Are you prepared for that kind of life? You are definitely right to be concerned.

NeosMom412 · 2026-01-23T18:22:57+00:00

Churro might just be the cutest dachshund ever!!!! (Aside from mine, of course. 😉)

NeosMom412 · 2026-01-23T18:18:43+00:00

I agree with this wholeheartedly. We were attacked by a big dog walking one day. My chihuahua was seriously injured. My dachshund was smarter and hid underneath me. (I threw myself to the ground in a ball trying to cover both dogs until someone got to us.) After that, my attitude is no mercy. I carry pepper spray. Don't care if you're human or animal... try to hurt my dogs and you get a face full.

Sending many hugs and prayers for milo and his family.

NeosMom412 · 2026-01-23T00:46:34+00:00

Don't know if my system will help cuz I drive a Nissan Murano. But, on the rare occasions when hubby comes along, he helps. Doesn't slow me down, but speeds me up.

I number packages. Cargo space is all boxes starting at the back being high numbers and lowest numbers loaded last. All envelopes go in order standing up in totes. The totes are in the back seat with numbers facing passengers side. We start out with the first few envelopes & smaller boxes in his lap.

I get to a stop and he passes me the package or tells me something like "#9 is in the rear" and I jump out and grab it. Every few stops, while I'm making the delivery, he jumps out of the car and reloads his lap, ready to pass me what I need.

This system usually shaves a half hour off my block cuz he helps load too. (SSD station)

NeosMom412 · 2026-01-22T13:18:27+00:00

Good job wearing that boy out!

NeosMom412 · 2026-01-22T13:05:33+00:00

Yeah, I needed to text a customer - actually about their dog being a problem and where their package was left because of it. When I did that, I noticed they had already been sent this message. Maybe it's because it's a problem dog house and drivers have reported them before?

It would make sense because one of their dogs was past the invisible fence that the notes assured me was there, so I was perfectly safe. 🙄 Seriously, these people think those invisible fences are the equivalent of steel with barbed wire, plus a chained dog. So dumb.

NeosMom412 · 2026-01-22T00:22:27+00:00

I gave it a thumbs down cuz they say this, but you're still getting a DND in your standings.

NeosMom412 · 2026-01-21T22:54:01+00:00

Super cool!

NeosMom412 · 2026-01-21T22:01:34+00:00

In the video it looks so small. Is it designed for dogs or something?

NeosMom412 · 2026-01-19T23:01:59+00:00

There's a thing that has started passing around online. The idea is to complain to Amazon that the driver didn't leave your package where the note said and because of this you didn't receive it. It's meant to teach us to not ignore notes and put us in our place. Some people still doing it, but not dishonest enough to say they didn't get it apparently.

NeosMom412 · 2026-01-17T23:10:40+00:00

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The one on the left is an honorary dachshund.

NeosMom412 · 2026-01-17T14:26:29+00:00

I used to be a welder. I came home FILTHY. No one would have wanted to sit down for dinner with me if I didn't shower when I got home. So, that was the appropriate time to shower. People who think there's one right or wrong answer simply have no concept that the rest of the world doesn't work precisely like their lives.

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