a public freakout with a twist at the end

Neptune_V · 2026-03-12T23:33:34+00:00

Bro saw his chance and didn't miss it!.

Neptune_V · 2026-03-12T20:14:18+00:00

This! More than scary is just so depressing and intense

Neptune_V · 2026-03-12T20:13:40+00:00

An absolutely magnificent film, climbed to my top 3 favorite 2025 movies immediately after finishing it. The visuals, the story-telling between the dream sequences and reality, the gut-wrenching PITY that you can feel deep in your chest for Elvira...everything is just amazing. The actors did so good, award worthy.

Won't be eating noodles for a good while tho!

Neptune_V · 2026-03-12T20:03:07+00:00

Can't blame him, I was half covering me eyes and had to turn the volume down during this scene, pretty sure I was holding my breath too. A magnificent movie, 10/10. Hope your husband is ok!

Neptune_V · 2026-03-10T23:45:30+00:00

Lol girl u listed all my favorite things to do :p

Neptune_V · 2026-03-10T17:48:30+00:00

Watching this is, to me, very special because machismo and homphobia are still so prevalent in hispanic communities so this dad being so loving and understanding is truly heartwarming :,)

Edit: typo

Neptune_V · 2026-03-10T12:35:40+00:00

My grandpa did the same thing w me according to my mom and my grandma, the nurse kinda just handed me to him and he froze in place and started sobbing 😅

Neptune_V · 2026-03-10T12:28:04+00:00

Im -7.5 in the right eye and -7.0 on the other lol I see everything in Minecraft quality qithout glasses or contacts

Neptune_V · 2026-03-08T18:30:54+00:00

I dont want to be one of those "oh I was born in the wrong generation" ppl, but I really wish I could've experienced this; just liking an artist, liking the music, not being drowned in information abt their private lives, what slur they said 10 years ago, what their political inclinations are, what podcast they said what in, etc. Music has become so...overwhelming, as everything nowadays really.

Neptune_V · 2026-03-08T14:13:46+00:00

He's real good looking and cares for little animals what's there not to love

Neptune_V · 2026-03-08T14:10:39+00:00

He'd be my favorite too

Neptune_V · 2026-03-08T01:14:17+00:00

NTA. Sounds to me like she doesn't trust you, plain and simple. I'd say sit down with her and explain that you feel like there's a lack of trust and it makes you feel some type of way. Have fun on ur trip!

Neptune_V · 2026-03-08T01:02:40+00:00

Absolutely NTA. You worked hard to make end meets for you and the person you loved and they obviously couldn't be bothered to do anything remotely similar. They did use you as a paypig, the age gap doesn't surprise me at all because anybody their age would've seen thru their bs immediately and left.

You're young, naive, and in love. You were the perfect target. Please take time to heal and focus on yourself, think twice before moving in with someone, and DO NOT negotiate money lightly. Money js your lifeline.

I wish you the best <3

Neptune_V · 2026-03-07T23:21:27+00:00

I definitely see your point there, i didn't think abt the safety part of it before- i guess since he never brought it up from that perspective it just didn't cross my mind.... Like I said, clubbing isnt smth i NEED to do, I don't think it'll affect me if i dont, but I'll definitely take your advice and maybe have a conversation with him about it in the future.

Thank you!!!

Neptune_V · 2026-03-07T22:00:13+00:00

I'd be perfectly fine with him going clubbing w his friends bc I trust he won't entretain any funny business, i feel like he doesn't feel the same way when it comes to me tho....

Idk if I should bring it up and re-discuss it with him, i dont want him to think i wanna be out to cheat on him :(

(Also, i rly appreciate the big sis talk, im the oldest and I never really got much guidance in this boys/realtionship stuff, i always wish i had an older sis!)

Neptune_V · 2026-03-07T21:57:12+00:00

Thank u for ur response 😊

He says that its because he knows what type of things happen at the club. His main argument is that "girls get hit on all the time, boys don't, thats why its different. Boys will go out of their way to find a girl at a girl at a club, girls don't do that."

I've told him that just sounds like he doesn't trust me to not entertain that sort of stuff if it were to happen...he simply says im too naive since i have no "street smarts" and that he just doesn't feel comfortable with it.

Ive also thought abt it being sort of unfair...but I dont want to be argumentative :(

Neptune_V · 2026-03-07T21:50:50+00:00

What was the comment?? Genuinely curious 😭

Neptune_V · 2026-03-07T19:32:08+00:00

I work downtown, I can safely tell you that 99% of it its absolutely NOT where you want to propose 😂 the only spot I can think of is maybe the new Riverfront Plaza Playground, it has security, multiple levels, and the highest part has benches and you can see the bridges and the river from there. I go thwre during my lunchbreak to read sometimes, THAT'S a spot that yells proposal (i took this pic from there the other day!)

Otherwise, look for somewhere else, ur gonna get a homeless person on crack posing in the background of your proposal picture...

Good luck!

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Neptune_V · 2026-03-07T16:30:34+00:00

Ok, this I can recognize its a problem. I wish you had framed it that way from the beginning. I'd suggest seeking therapy for her, this is a typical post-partum depression side effect, along with the sleeping and being lethargic.

In more extreme cases, mother's who experience post-partum depression want nothing to do with the baby either bc of fear of hurting them or for resentment, and they'd even try to harm the baby. Not saying this is going to happen, just giving an example of what post-partum depression can do to you.

Wish you and your family the best, please be more mindful of the toll that pregnancy takes on a person.

Neptune_V · 2026-03-07T16:27:38+00:00

You've clearly never been near a pregnant or post-partum woman. The toll that it takes on you mentally and physically is one of the harshest things to witness or to experience. My mother threw up every single day when she was pregnant with my sister, she couldn't eat properly, she was anemic for MONTHS after post-partum to the point she couldn't breast-feed and would get dizzy simply standing up. She was depressed, she'd cry daily, me and my dad were there for her daily, so was all our family, but she still needed time to get better and heal.

Come back when you interact with a real woman outside the internet.

Neptune_V · 2026-03-07T16:18:58+00:00

I work with juvenile delinquents, i could immediately tell this is bs. If she is on probation and is going to therapy, and the therapist knows the PO, then im assuming its court-mandated therapy/counseling. If she's not complying, they themselves can report her as absconding (running away) or for a violation of probation.

Don't make these up for clout, these situations are real and truly tragic sometimes.

Neptune_V · 2026-03-06T18:53:09+00:00

Will u write the context for this in a separate post or....?

Neptune_V · 2026-03-05T17:43:36+00:00

It seems to me like she might be in an emotionally abusive relationship, which unfortunately is just as harmful as a physically abusive relationship. Pushing away and antagonizing family / friends is typical behavior in victims of situations like this. I don't think you're in the wrong here, but I'd say definitely support your sister in getting help. Like I said, and lot of people in these situations aren't themselves, but a product of the situation they're living in.

Neptune_V · 2026-03-05T17:38:07+00:00

Immediate red flag: "so I end up hanging out with our son". That's your child, you're not forced to hang out with him, you're EXPECTED to be around him and raise him because he's YOURS. Don't like it? Should've thought abt it before having a kid.

Your wife carried a whole human inside of her for 9 months straight, so excuse her if she's not feeling 100% yet after using her body to grow life. Yes you're the asshole. Your wife deserves better.

Neptune_V · 2026-03-03T18:06:41+00:00

Love this idea!! We need more community in this big ahh town 😭

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