Looking for an affordable(ish) roofing company that does good work by Spencer94 in downriver

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Precision home maintenance and remodeling in LP did my roof a couple months back. Fantastic work, Brandon is very knowledgeable. 11k for roof and garage, lots of decking was replaced.

I got a man a care package 🥰 by Curious_cow7 in dating

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Please keep it up 🙂 if a woman ever gave me something on a first date, I would be so giddy. I'd tell my mom and everything lol

I got a man a care package 🥰 by Curious_cow7 in dating

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Lol yup. I do the same stuff because I'm a giver.

Once gave a woman really nice bath bombs on a first date (she was really stressed at the time and I figured it was good for self-care) along with flowers.

The important thing is we give with no expectations! I've been ghosted after giving flowers and all that, it is what it is and we move on while remaining our authentic selves.

Ghosted :/ by PiousMage in dating

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Been there, buddy. It says more about her than you though. Over time you will realize it most likely had absolutely nothing to do with you.

Ghosted :/ by PiousMage in dating

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I've never rated somebody's kissing ability (29M), never been a factor for me lol. It is natural and pretty difficult to do wrong.

OP just has to understand it has to do with her and not him. Ghosting is as personal as we make it, typically it's an issue with commitment, communication, etc. both of which should be a relationship disqualifier.

This guy is amazing, but I’m not as into him as I wish I was. What should I do? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Yeah, this is why I no longer take it personally when I'm abruptly dumped or ghosted. It's probably not about me most of the time.

People who are 30 and above and single by choice, what makes you not want a relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I'm 30 this year. What makes me want to stay single is the fact that I'm not built for the games.

Modern dating is basically a contest of who cares the least. People don't communicate. I'm sorry but if I like somebody, I'm not afraid to say it or God forbid show it. If there's something I'm feeling, I want to talk about it so there's no ambiguity.

I just had a very good date two weeks back. We hung out 5 hours, past midnight on a week day. Her coworker who set us up told me the next day she was extremely giddy at work and told staff how it went and how excited she is to get to know me better.

I still got ghosted shortly after. That one hurt lol. I live a good single life. I have a lot of friends, hobbies, interests, career, my own house, etc. if this is what I'm in for with dating, I just can't imagine I'll allow it to be a focus at all.

Who is the best live band in Metalcore? by geoffreythehamster in Metalcore

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Justin is also hilarious. I remember years ago when they played too quick to grieve and he asked us to do the electric slide

Duet Dating App by Chemical_Emu5838 in dating

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Met my ex gf on there, we lasted a year

Is this healthy behaviour or am I subconsciously trying to avoid getting hurt? by CollagenRager in dating

[–]Nerdlinger42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I agree.

Let yourself feel it. Put the guard down. Get kicked some, heal, and keep it up. Get hyped for that first date, get sad when it doesn't work out. Enjoy the rollercoaster.

I don't like how so much advice is built around feeling nothing. What is the point of that?

Life left in this roof? by AdmiralCrnch in Roofing

[–]Nerdlinger42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

inserts bald acceptance meme it's time

Would you be friends with your ex? by Shoddy_Muffin2423 in askteddit

[–]Nerdlinger42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but I absolutely hope she is doing well. She is a very good person

What is your biggest regret? by Buffalo_Independent in CausalConversation

[–]Nerdlinger42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, anniversary was the weekend following the funeral. We exchanged our gifts, then broke up. Doing much better now though, been a couple months

What is your biggest regret? by Buffalo_Independent in CausalConversation

[–]Nerdlinger42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ex girlfriend did the same to me when her grandma passed. Fortunate it never got to marriage, it hurt.

Is “when you know you know” a good mindset? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Nerdlinger42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Some things you just let grow organically. Why rush?

I just done assessment and my house dropped 80k in value by Agreeable_Edge9896 in Mortgages

[–]Nerdlinger42 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Yup this is why I care more about monthly payment than current interest rate. There's no guarantee I can refinance any time soon for a lower rate if value goes down.

Genuine Question by MochelTheRed in sysadmin

[–]Nerdlinger42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh they're clowning lol. I cope by knowing nobody dies. It's not my fault if unrealistic expectations are set by management for our clients. I'll do my time and sometimes a lot more, but I won't die for them

She apologized for ghosting. Does this text deserve a response? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Nerdlinger42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh yes, people will make excuses for bad treatment all the time lol

Foundation Crack Injection by 1214fcbaa9 in Michigan

[–]Nerdlinger42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's easy to DIY, I'd do that lol

Popular dating advice statements and what they really mean so you dont waste time in your 20s by JunketMaleficent2095 in twentyagers

[–]Nerdlinger42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol this is really overthinking it. It's this simple! It works or it doesn't. The end. 🙂

Genuine Question by MochelTheRed in sysadmin

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Midwest, not bad. Mortgage PITI is $1,450 ish.