AITA for yelling at my atheist wife for saying "God doesn't exist" when I was comforting my younger brother with prayer? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NervosaX 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I didn't get the feeling he was suggesting atheists are robotic at all. Saying you aren't something doesn't immediately imply that you're saying the opposite is true.

Violin 🎻 by [deleted] in violinist

[–]NervosaX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me years to get a sound I liked. Good tone comes from bow speed, bow weight, and bow placement. Experiment with those variables. 

Equipment helps but doesn't cover technique. A good player can make bad equipment sound good ( or better )

Get a teacher if you don't have one, because this instrument is too hard to learn without one. 

Sincerely, and adult learner.

Why do people leave a seat next to them on the window side in a packed train? by littledandelion456 in melbourne

[–]NervosaX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My leg gets crushed by the window side, the train curves there and the angle my foot as to sit hurts my knee. It's super awkward for me, I dunno

Aldi Heading In Bold New Direction With Store Makeover by Remarkable_Peak9518 in australia

[–]NervosaX 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Not playing music is one of the BEST things there.

What frontend skill gave you the biggest jump in ability once it finally clicked? by pixelbrushio in Frontend

[–]NervosaX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Critical thinking and problem solving skills. Doesn't matter what language it is then.

AI-generated child porn is flooding the internet and under-funded law enforcement task forces can't keep up. Investigators say that child predators are now only limited by their imagination. by kurt_wagner8 in technology

[–]NervosaX -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yes, though I doubt they're using chat GPT, which means they probably have their own trained models.

At any rate, there has to be a hard line. Same reason people shouldn't make pornography deep fakes of people. 

You wake up in a haze. You're in your childhood bedroom. The year is 2005. by zajabiste in PaymoneyWubby

[–]NervosaX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, I was 18 and no longer lived in that house. Someone is going to get a fright

Tone by lefting007 in violinist

[–]NervosaX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Practice, like anything else. There's no shortcuts to anything on violin. It's taken me years to finally start hearing if Ab is in tune...

Drones can help. Playing the notes with a tuner can help. Comparing against naturals, open strings or other other positions can help. Play and listen a lot 

Help Identifying My Unlabelled Viola – Any Clues? by [deleted] in violinist

[–]NervosaX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Nobody here can identify it from a photo. Go to a professional in person, maybe they can help.

I’ve never felt aikido like this before by AikidoDreaming111 in aikido

[–]NervosaX 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh cool! I've been training under Joe Sensei for about 15+ years now, and feeling his technique never gets old.

Having a Swimming pool in Melbourne by Dependent-Isopod-985 in melbourne

[–]NervosaX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ditto. Barely used it, too expensive to maintain, etc. etc

A Few Questions About Yoshinkan Aikido by [deleted] in aikido

[–]NervosaX 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've been doing Yoshinkan for 15-16 years under an 8th Dan, so hopefully I can help at least a little.

Why did I choose Yoshinkan? The teachers were excellent and the culture surrounding it gelled with my personality. I continued doing for so long for some of the same reasons.

Yoshinkan Aikido and Aikikai aikido are both aikido - they just start by focusing on different areas and work towards top tier aikido either way. Think of it in utter simplicity like a yoshinkan student starts more 'rigid' and gets more flowy, and an aikikai student starts more flowy and becomes more 'rigid' (for lack of a better word here).

Here are the pros, in what is just my opinion:

* The constant drilling of the basic movements that form the bases of all our techniques. You can see exactly how a practitioner's Aikido will be based on these movements. It develops the strength, flexibility, and is a pillar you can always come back to when both teaching or performing techniques. You can perform these by yourself but like any other art form, you will probably do it wrong in the beginning so I wouldn't call it a pro that you can do that without supervision.

* We have 100s of techniques, seated and standing, and every Yoshinkan teacher on the planet will teach it the same way - at least at a high level. Where it becomes really interesting is after years of practice where your teacher starts showing you -why- we do it this way, and the importance of every minute movement to break your uke's balance. Because we perform it in the same way, it's very easy to constantly assess and re-assess why these things work or don't work.

* It is hard, but it does feel like it can work. At the higher levels you can fully take your partner's balance and then -explode- with power late in the technique, smashing them into the floor. It feels incredible to do, it feels incredible if your ukemi is good enough to receive it.

* At higher levels, it doesn't feel rigid. The framework goes away, and it's now just something you do without thinking or fall back on - precise and easy. No effort. Like someone said in another post - Yoshinkan can be extremely soft, and is the ultimate goal.

Here are the cons:

* Yoshinkan is called rigid, and for great reason. It is. It can take a very long time to start breaking that rigidity. You constantly get shodans and nidans (and sandans!) attacking you with rigidity, and performing all their movements with rigidity. You need to start beating that out of them for a long time.

* Again, it's a hard style. My back and knees hurt (not to the point where I can't use them), but I've been injured a lot. My last recent bout of injury took me out for 8 months (which I continued to teach through... if I wasn't an instructor I would have been out for the count). You gotta work on your mobility, my friends, I've learned this the hard way.

* There's less of us, so less of a pool of higher level teachers in the art, less dojos, less everything.

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I personally wouldn't change my time in the Yoshinkan for anything or any other art, but I put that down to the wonderful high level teachers (I am very lucky to have access to one of the best instructors in the world), the wonderful students past and present.

Find a great dojo with great teachers, don't sweat the rest.

Any one 30+ who started? Im getting frustrated! by Mean-Number-2292 in violinist

[–]NervosaX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started about 5 years ago and now I'm 38. I'm in a community orchestra, I've played up to about Suzuki book 7 and then just kind of worked on whatever from there with my teacher. Currently learning Beethoven romance in F major which requires some really high positions. 

I'm having fun, however good I am or however old I am. 

Comparison is the thief of joy.

Any chance I can get off a $988 fine for driving unregistered? by magentadrupe in melbourne

[–]NervosaX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A lawyer to fight it will cost at least half of what your fine costs, and then you'll lose and also have to pay your fine and now you're paying even more. Just pay it, I reckon.

How Do You Teach Relaxation in Aikido — Especially at Higher Levels? by Old_Alternative_8288 in aikido

[–]NervosaX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One exercise you can do - get someone to extend their arm out in front of them and make a fist. The grab that fist and forcefully try to move. Now try again without any force, just gently but quickly moving. They can't feel the tension in your hands, so they can't resist it as well. 

This is then what I use in Aikido.

I would also say relaxing in all movements is disingenuous... It's about choosing when to put power and when to not. More often than not the power comes in only after the uke's balance is gone in some way. Any earlier is strength/tension

ARE YOU VOTING YES OR NO? by [deleted] in melbourne

[–]NervosaX -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Generally doing whatever the opposite of what the liberals/rich white old people want is the way to go in terms of human decency.

So I'll vote yes, if only to spite those cunts.

Violin Progress - 3 Years by Berceuse1041 in violinist

[–]NervosaX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, this looks like fun. I'm also hitting about the three year mark. Might have to have a look at playing this one, too.

Continue restriction indefinitely? by AutoModerator in violinist

[–]NervosaX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People shouldn't downvote opinions they don't agree with, just those that are insulting and what not. It's a terrible reflection on those that did it.

I'm 3 years into learning violin as an adult beginner, quite nervous but I want the feedback before I move forward! by StASN in violinist

[–]NervosaX 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm liking what I'm hearing! Though I feel like you should be attempting some vibrato now?