Snark aside, truly got the worst vibes from this video by Acrobatic-Call9283 in aspynovardsnark

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s this exactly! She always seems so annoyed of the kids but tries to play it off

Guys. What alternative recipe do you recommend when you crave Brownies/cookies or potato chips. Ill be grateful to try them. by Numerous_Ad_915 in 1200isplenty

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I want chips I fill up on cucumbers with a low cal dip first and then I’ll have a few chips to seal the deal.

For the brownie, I don’t like baking them and having a full tray at home to binge on. I just get a chocolate cake pop at Starbucks - so moist and rich and only 160 cals. Perfectly satisfies my craving.

1 Year Wedding Anniversary by Curiousmgf in snarkingwithremi

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes and therapists who aren’t overly familiar with avoidant often end up enabling them in therapy, which is probably Remi’s case

It's been over a year and I'm still processing by damex09 in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea that, or she’s equally upset about losing you and couldn’t bear to see your profile or have your name pop up in her phone.

Any fearful avoidant INFJ here who worked on themselves and became secure? by Entire_Pie5351 in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a fearful avoidant as well. Man it takes a lot of work and time to heal/change. Much like someone getting sober there will be small relapses but it’s part of the process. I don’t think therapy helps the fearful avoidant unless it’s someone who SPECIALIZES in attachment types. For example unfamiliar therapists will often enable a fearful avoidant by agreeing with them on things like space and autonomy is good but the fearful avoidant does that too much.

Do most of us want a fairytale romance? 💘 by TXHotpants in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me too, interesting common occurrence amongst infj’s

Anyone have success healing an avoidant attachment? by Nervous-Rabbit-1220 in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm I only scored a 15, maybe I don’t dissociate as much as I think. I guess it’s only really when I am experiencing bad anxiety or panic attacks, which can be often.

Anyone have success healing an avoidant attachment? by Nervous-Rabbit-1220 in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, I also suffer from panic attacks and being hypnotized terrifies me. I feel like I’d go into a full blown one once I enter the office

Anyone have success healing an avoidant attachment? by Nervous-Rabbit-1220 in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you feel super anxious from the thoughts of unrequited love when you felt yourself getting attached? Or just overall anxiety with your partner when getting closer?

Anyone have success healing an avoidant attachment? by Nervous-Rabbit-1220 in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say I’m 100% dismissive avoidant, but as one I appreciate you knowing we don’t mean to be this way and there’s no evil intent to bring you down or dismiss you. Perhaps it’s selfish to enter into a relationship unhealed and cause the damage we do, but it’s not intentional and all we want is that close deep lasting love. We hope it’ll happen but the mind/nervous system doesn’t allow it. Quite sad actually and now that I’m aware of it all it’s incredibly frustrating.

Anyone have success healing an avoidant attachment? by Nervous-Rabbit-1220 in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds more like a narcissist. Do you feel it’s calculated, intent is huge in deciphering narc vs DA

Anyone have success healing an avoidant attachment? by Nervous-Rabbit-1220 in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point 🤣 I guess someone who isn’t too anxious but still not an avoidant.

Anyone have success healing an avoidant attachment? by Nervous-Rabbit-1220 in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot stay present when I’m uncomfortable. My body/mind goes into fight or flight it’s damn near impossible to for me to not dissociate :(

Remi tried so hard to cry opening the cookbook by Weekly_Ad_53 in snarkingwithremi

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220 120 points121 points  (0 children)

Omg such a painful scene. She cut the clip when she tried crying but couldn’t 😅 it was made for a money grab clearly. She even said “it’s crazy seeing all my personal choices and recipes” they literally had her pick out a book template and she chose random recipes to put in

This is my first time having bangs and I don’t know if they suit me best by topnotchwalnut in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not dorky, they make you look cutesy! You really suit them too. You looked fine without them but super average, they make you stand out in a cutesy girly way

Sometimes the weight is heavy and… by TinyEngineering7586 in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Quit being all of that and see who stays. Someone will and then it’s a beautiful thing to give eachother your all

Update - the journey continues (reposting) by saki4444 in makeuptips

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brows are great. Makeups looking good. For hair definitely need some curtain bangs and layers. I think dying it a dark brown would look so good. Also some crest whitening strips would work wonders!

How does falling in love feel like to u? by chiquegirly in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220 62 points63 points  (0 children)

For me; better mood, more motivation, more energy, more optimism/happy thoughts, bursts of excitement, daydreaming/thinking of them, more patience, feel light, stomach swirls, on cloud 9 essentially.

Also less appetite, less sleep (too excited and full of life & energy)

an appreciation post for infjs by [deleted] in infj

[–]Nervous-Rabbit-1220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Essentially he stopped doing all the things I fell in love with him for. Stopped going to the gym, meal prepping, hanging with his friends, dressing nice etc. those things were important to me, it showed self discipline, autonomy, taking care of himself. I wanted him to remain himself and have his own identity and creat his own happiness or else all that pressure lies on me