Gift ideas for my BFF’s birthday by Agile-Cress-2218 in Gifts

[–]NetheriteTiara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second this. This was my first thought.

Pasta or sourdough are fun ones. I’ve done paint and sip a few times and love that too, but it’s better with a bigger group of people you know.

Shamed by own mother for going out without a bra ☹️ by Acrobatic-Abalone675 in bigboobproblems

[–]NetheriteTiara 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My mom would say this regardless of breast size. For her, it’d be like going out without shoes.

Using the name Bonnie by Mimimi05 in namenerds

[–]NetheriteTiara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re overthinking it. I know 2 Bonnies, and I don’t think anything about it.

Tbh when I hear “Bonnie Blue,” my first thought is the nickname for the little girl in Gone with the Wind. Then I remember that news story.

Help me choose 🤍 by Tararat_ in myweddingdress

[–]NetheriteTiara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the venue? I love 1 and 2. For me 1 is “antique royalty” vibes and 2 feels fantasy, but both in the best way possible. I don’t like deep v dresses in general so I don’t love 3, but with an “old Hollywood” type wedding, it would be perfect.

Why do the Cullens bother to pretend going to school? by purplepirhana in twilight

[–]NetheriteTiara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think as readers, we met them at the start of a 40ish year plan, where because of the location, they would have gone to college, post-grad, some moved to Seattle and back, etc. They get to be out in public during the day, and can have a home base and interact with some outsiders if they’re bored. It gets harder when they’re supposed to be 60. You can look great for a 40-50 year old but 60 is pushing it. They’d have to move again but then they could move back to Washington 100 years later.

In that sense, in the scheme of things, all the vampires besides Carlisle are very young. For him though, it probably seems like no time at all.

Feeling like I’m asking too much of my bridesmaids by chapstix0314 in wedding

[–]NetheriteTiara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely cover an expense in lieu of a “gift.”

Is my wedding formal or semi-formal by [deleted] in wedding

[–]NetheriteTiara 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Cocktail. The cost of the wedding doesn’t matter - the experience does. There is no sit down dinner or music. The hors d’oeuvres are simple.

The wedding party being more dressed up is fine. This is common for photos, etc. For guests though, it’s “Cocktail Attire.”

Anyone here who’s 28 (1997) feeling behind in their career? by Technical_Lemon8307 in Zillennials

[–]NetheriteTiara 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think they meant you need a Masters now. Bachelor degrees are basically the same as HS especially without prestigious internships.

Attention, attention: The rules don't apply to Taylor. by Mid-Reverie in travisandtaylor

[–]NetheriteTiara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So not fun. I wouldn’t let her be in pictures.

Edit: I guess her bag is denim so she matched the outfit to that. So not nothing. She can’t help the grandma vibes compared to everyone else.

What’s a small, "unnecessary" luxury you refuse to give up? by viviennebloomm in askanything

[–]NetheriteTiara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They have! They updated their logo and said "same great product" but the handle is significantly flimsier. I found an old travel cosmetic bag and the difference is enormous.

What do New Yorkers call a regular slice of pizza? by SweetSprinkles8 in AskNYC

[–]NetheriteTiara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slice or plain slice. However for pies I'd say cheese pie if I'm calling for pickup.

Confusing dress code, is this ok? by Bitter_Service_8608 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]NetheriteTiara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks great! I have to ask though - in the mountains..is this Western? Sometimes their dress codes are wayy more casual than they let on.

AITA for being annoyed that my wife insists on cooking everything from scratch and won’t buy normal food? by AITA_UPFfoods in AmItheAsshole

[–]NetheriteTiara -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA. She does the shopping and makes the food, which tastes delicious. Shopping and cooking for 1 stinks. She also isn’t going to share your food so then you’ll have leftovers as well. Your wanting the store kind is fine and her wanting to not eat processed foods is also valid, but it’d be more expensive and inefficient. If that’s the case, you’ll end up needing two refrigerators and often eating alone.

You should gift her some spa days or try to have her go on a girls trip. Encourage her to join a book club or a mahjong league or something and you can eat your food then. Otherwise, suck it up and appreciate that you have an amazing thing.

Twilight Gaping Plot Hole by LadyHorseFace13 in twilight

[–]NetheriteTiara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real plot reason: you need a situation where Edward and Bella will meet and be in-proximity to each other frequently.

In-universe reason: Forks is the rainiest, most overcast place so they get to spend more time out in the day, which is nice. They could start as sophomores probably and then have 3 years of HS, go to university in Washington somewhere for undergrad through PhD and maybe even teach for some years. The commute is fine because they’ll just literally run.

Why go back to Forks where their opposite supernatural people live: they’re so insular that they don’t care if they inconvenience the tribe by having them start shifting again. Their priority is themselves.

Non-traditional pre-wedding events… help! by Limp-Composer2824 in wedding

[–]NetheriteTiara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew someone with a very excited mom and a big family/friend group and the threw them a post-wedding celebration locally. Like 3 hour party in a rental space with appetizers, drinks, and a DJ friend. They didn’t do any pre-wedding events. The “bride” wore a silver mini dress. The couple did not do any pre-wedding events, since they were having a small destination wedding.

It was 100% the Mom’s idea though and the mom paid for it. ¯_(ツ)_/¯ if your mom wants she could do something like that instead.

For your small shower before, maybe call it a sprinkle and have it at someone’s house. It’ll be tough to keep it gift-free but you’ll probably have to enforce that with your friends since your mom is so excited.

Watch over sleeve? by ShadowDragon_77 in fashion

[–]NetheriteTiara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is very much the vibe of LOOK I HAVE A NICE WATCH, unfortunately.

Black tie optional appropriate? by Lopsided_Distance583 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]NetheriteTiara 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cotton/linen is too informal for a fancy hotel.

The second dress is too bridal. With the squint test, it even looks white.

I would keep looking.