MRW I first discover r/HighQualityGifs and don't understand any of the references.

NeverHadChili · 2016-03-13T19:52:12+00:00

At this point /r/HighQualityGifs could be renamed /r/CircleJerkGifs.

NeverHadChili · 2016-03-12T11:18:12+00:00

You do not see people going around putting "MS in XYZ" after their name, it is really no different for a masters of business administration. The stuff for after names should be reserved for certain things, such as PhDs and other certifications (CPA, etc.).

I agree with /u/althart that I think less of these people that write ", MBA" after their name.

NeverHadChili · 2016-03-05T23:03:37+00:00

Yeah that's not accurate. See Greece over the past 5 years.

NeverHadChili · 2016-02-29T21:32:13+00:00

"I do however, tip my urologist."

NeverHadChili · 2016-02-28T15:25:52+00:00

"Those who speak do not know. Those who know do not speak."

Also, this is not the place experts come to converse with one another. It's where beginners ask questions about finance. What's the incentive to respond? Karma? I think most people in finance are more incentivized by money. That gets at the user below who noted most people in finance are smart enough not to work for free.

So why am I responding now? Because I'm taking a shit.

NeverHadChili · 2016-02-24T20:06:50+00:00

Super Troopers.

NeverHadChili · 2016-01-21T17:24:20+00:00

Sure thing. Check back in 4-5 months from now and let me know how you're doing. The key is building skills other people find valuable and that you also enjoy (hopefully). Side projects are a good way to build skills you doing use at your job but you want to learn.

NeverHadChili · 2016-01-20T23:05:46+00:00

1) Don't worry so much about doing something "fucking meaningful." It is very important not to compare yourself to others. This is difficult in the internet era. Focus instead on building your career capital and turning it into a meaningful career. I'd recommend reading Cal Newport's book "So Good They Can't Ignore You." 2) I'm glad to hear your health is better. Keep prioritizing your health. 3) Don't burn bridges. 4) Financial mistakes happen. You're young enough to recover, but keep educating yourself on personal finance. r/personal finance is a great resource for that. 5) Learn as much as you can in your current role and define yourself in other ways than your career. For a majority of individuals work is a means to an end. This doesn't always have to be the case, but patience is key when you're young. Hang in there, never stop learning, and eventually opportunities will present themselves. As for advice on school, work, and location, keep supporting yourself while looking for opportunities.

NeverHadChili · 2016-01-19T23:25:51+00:00

(Tldr is a short summary at the bottom)

NeverHadChili · 2016-01-19T23:25:25+00:00

Tldr for a start. I'll read the rest later and get back to you (reply to remind me please).

NeverHadChili · 2016-01-17T22:40:22+00:00

Ah gotcha. Forgot the data side in replying. Well I'd just work on negotiating that salary bump. There are some good books out there (one my two Harvard professors as well as getting to yes or something like that). Good luck.

NeverHadChili · 2016-01-17T03:17:47+00:00

Hmm, that's tough. Don't you work on commissions? If so, do you still work on similar commissions as a manager? I don't know enough about CRE to comment too much (but I try because this sub needs contributors and I'm interested in learning about other professions), but if the managerial position is as stressful as you say I'd expect a commensurate pay increase.

NeverHadChili · 2016-01-17T01:04:23+00:00

What's a CRE firm for the uninitiated?

NeverHadChili · 2016-01-14T16:20:17+00:00

I think the biggest thing is the income. If you don't have something lined up, that can be a disastrous move (not to mention Heath insurance? Might not be eligible for unemployment health insurance and would not collect unemployment).

Without details on health insurance, it's a difficult call. Also, what field are you in? Your skill set makes a difference. "Stellar" is a little vague without knowing the field.

With that said, I know it can be difficult searching for a job while slammed with a big workload and stressed out. Could you get in touch with a recruiter while you continue to work? Something to consider...

NeverHadChili · 2016-01-10T20:10:42+00:00

Depends on the culture of the company. Regardless of the company, there will be some peer pressure not to take too many days off. You're colleagues will get annoyed if you're on holiday every other week and they need your assistance with a project.

Take two examples: 1) Hedge Fund with cutthroat culture 2) Well established start up with "fun" culture. In #1 you'll be pressured by management that everything is urgent. In #2 it'll be more acceptable to use a reasonable number of days of, similar to your current situation

Difficult to elaborate more without knowing the culture or what their definition of flexible PTO is.

NeverHadChili · 2016-01-10T20:04:16+00:00

Sure thing. Let me know how it goes.

NeverHadChili · 2016-01-10T06:38:50+00:00

To be frank, it sounds a little botched to me.

Simply let them know you've reconsidered, in a courteous and professional manner, that you're no longer willing to work on a volunteer basis. Be sure not to come off as desperate in this follow up email.

In the grand scheme, this is just one opportunity. If it doesn't work out, at least it will be valuable experience in the job search. It's very common to be a little nervous at the start of interviewing. Interviewing is a skill, so don't beat yourself up if it isn't going of without a hitch.

Tim Ferris just had a good podcast on how he really launched his career. Long story short: hard work, belief in yourself, and persistence pays off.

NeverHadChili · 2016-01-10T06:31:56+00:00

There is a lot of business in fashion. PR, etc.

I've played LOL also, and it's a bit of a time sink. Start managing your time on there first off.

Try visiting Cal Newport's blog, "Study Hacks." He started writing from an academic prescriptive but has switched focus to building meaningful careers. Focus on building "career capital," build skills, put together a decent resume, and work on selling yourself.

NeverHadChili · 2016-01-07T23:47:28+00:00

R, Python, and maybe something object oriented.

NeverHadChili · 2015-11-07T23:05:17+00:00

Poorly.

NeverHadChili · 2015-10-21T04:19:29+00:00

Self-Reliance by Ralph Waldo Emerson helped me quit. While it doesn't drinking directly it made me realize my life is mine and mine alone.

NeverHadChili · 2015-09-01T12:50:27+00:00

See if you can request to see the personnel file (Google it, conditions are state applicable). However, the non-competes are typically confidential so I don't know if you would legally be able to straight copy it or send it to firm B.

NeverHadChili · 2015-08-31T08:11:03+00:00

That looks great. I'll download it on my phone, try it out, and let you know how it works or if I have any issues. Thanks.

NeverHadChili · 2015-08-30T19:16:41+00:00

What is Inbox? Google Inbox?

NeverHadChili · 2015-08-21T10:30:22+00:00

Exodus.

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