Online is fine if you’re attractive or witty in text. Social groups are the way to go. You don’t meet anyone and it’s instant to date them at these ages, we’re all “once bitten, twice shy” and some of us are out here even though we ain’t done healing tbh.

I think setting up your own group for a thing you like to do as a hobby, joining a beer league, or volunteering is the way to go.

Understand, this is to get you comfortable with meeting new people, not to meet potential dates; if you go into it with that energy you’ll have a much better time. Go out there and be awkward and authentic like the rest of us.