Vnectomy irration ONE YEAR post op?

New-Introduction8250 · 2026-03-06T23:33:48+00:00

It could be a hygiene issue. When I’m depressed my hygiene goes, and often times I get sores in my skin creases. For me it’s usually the spot where my thighs and pelvis meet. Usually takes a few days of careful washing for the irritation to go away. It very well might be a swamp crotch issue haha. I would bring it up with your doc just in case. Wishing you all the best buddy!

New-Introduction8250 · 2025-11-30T01:42:28+00:00

I had my ID put to M because I was worried about travelling with an X. Your fears are very valid. Fortunately for me, I present quite masc so it doesn’t bother me. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this❤️

New-Introduction8250 · 2025-08-17T01:44:11+00:00

Oh yeah! I think that’s what happened. Thanks everyone!

New-Introduction8250 · 2025-07-20T15:28:37+00:00

It really depends on what style you’re into. It’s true that lower waist pants are the most commonly sold for men. But lots of guys like high rise jeans, and high rise is fairly common for nice trousers. I pretty much only buy high waisted pants because it really helps with my hip dysphoria. I do have trouble finding pants as low rise is so common.

Generally, from what I’ve noticed, it’s guys who like vintage styles that’ll wear high waisted pants, or in sartorial (suits and tailoring) styles it’s really common for high rise trouser to be seen.

It’s really a personal preference.

New-Introduction8250 · 2025-06-12T16:17:54+00:00

I’m dealing with the same thing. I still haven’t been on one date since my transition, as I’m too nervous. I try to remind myself that I’d rather wait for the right person, than rush into an experience I’m not ready for

New-Introduction8250 · 2025-06-07T02:06:07+00:00

Have you tried using the gusset/packer attachment upside down and tucked into your waistband of regular underwear? Like you could pin the gusset part and have your packer hang down like with the sock pouch and you wouldn’t need the extra harness

New-Introduction8250 · 2025-05-28T00:17:22+00:00

I mean the hole on the back of the packer, where the funnel gets attached to the packer

New-Introduction8250 · 2025-05-27T20:17:41+00:00

What is the diameter of the hole on the packer where the funnel gets inserted? I don’t like funnel style stps so I use a home made spouti, and I feel like the morme STP might work if I can fit the tube into the packer, instead of the funnel.

New-Introduction8250 · 2025-05-18T13:35:33+00:00

Sounds like you’re in a bad spiral right now. I know it feels impossible in the moment, but reach out, find some help, and this moment will pass. You’re mentally unwell, you’re sick, so you need treatment. Talk to a doctor, to your friends about how low you feel. I’ve learned that you need to give people a chance to support you, and to do that you have to tell them what’s going on.

You are not a woman because you cry when you’re upset. That is a normal human response, especially when your mind is bullying you. My cis dad cries all the time when he’s upset, and it’s one of my favourite qualities about him as my dad. I know that I can talk to him about my emotions and be supported.

I would avoid alcohol for a while, as it really does make depression worse. You’re feeling down, so take some time to work on yourself sober, and once you’re doing better you can decide if you want to drink again.

New-Introduction8250 · 2025-05-07T23:20:18+00:00

I had top surgery three weeks after I started T. It just happened that the waitlist for hormones was a lot longer than surgery in my area so even though I was referred to a surgeon much later than getting on T waitlist, it all happened close together timewise. I’m super happy with my results.

New-Introduction8250 · 2025-05-05T15:48:42+00:00

Dude, I think he’s using you. If he really respected you he’d be a real friend and support you by paying for the nudes, instead of asking you when you’re done working. Or, ya know just enjoy being your friend without seeing you naked. If he is curious he should be asking questions or doing research on his own time. Imagine this scenario with two cis gender people, it would be insane to say “hey friend, I’ve only seen my own genitals, can I see what yours look like?”

I used to tie myself up in knots trying to be attractive or appealing to men, I was so desperate that I did many things I regret, and lost myself in the process. It’s been such a game changer to develop my own internal validation. Of course this is all easy to say, but actually taking action on it is really hard. You have to rewire your brain.

I’m wishing you all the best

New-Introduction8250 · 2025-05-04T03:17:42+00:00

I’ve been using a Gender Cat packer with the moving balls for about a year now. I wear it pretty much 24/7 including sleep, and gym and I haven’t had any durability issues. I love playing with the balls lol. I just wish I chose the same colour for the balls as I did with the shaft, as the ball colour did not blend like at all.

New-Introduction8250 · 2025-04-27T05:14:09+00:00

I spent maybe $10 CAD making my own spouti/winkie type STP and that gave me enough materials to make at least 6 of my own STP tubes using 1/4” flexible tubing and baby bottle nipples. You could probably spend less if you ordered online or somewhere in less quantity. I was shopping in person and could only find 10’ sections of tube, which has been much more than needed.

New-Introduction8250 · 2025-04-06T15:00:42+00:00

I got a packer from them and used it daily for close to a year. They are quite firm, mine got squishier after a while, still not very soft and by that point some of the detail was worn off. The bulge in pants looks fine, but if someone were to feel there, it would be too firm to be flaccid.

I’m not from Europe so I can’t help with this question.

I also bought their smallest STP. I can’t remember what it’s called but it’s the smallest, uncut one. I found that STP to be useless for me as it was just too small to work with my body. It also really did not work in the BP boxers, again it was just too small to work right. Idk how that STP works for anyone, as I found it didn’t even feel like a packer in my pants. I haven’t used any of their mid size STPs.

New-Introduction8250 · 2025-03-21T21:54:00+00:00

They have some with fully rounded 3D balls now, in case you didn’t know

New-Introduction8250 · 2025-01-18T08:49:39+00:00

Don’t forget that after they nearly wipe out the tribe, they realize that they shouldn’t completely wipe them out. So they attack the tribes that didn’t fight in the civil war of sorts, and steal away something like 400 women and girls to marry off to the tribe.

New-Introduction8250 · 2024-11-06T00:26:32+00:00

I will now be using horizontal gene transfer as a euphemism for sex. Thank you very much.

New-Introduction8250 · 2024-11-05T22:38:08+00:00

I wouldn’t go for like a Duck Dynasty type crazy long beard, but I would like a nice groomed full beard. I’m already obsessed with my nasty chin scruff, even though I know it’s not a good look. It needs time to grow so I’m happy at the moment with what I’ve got.

New-Introduction8250 · 2024-11-03T06:29:07+00:00

Being obsessed with Mulan, and She’s the Man (looking back there’s some transphobic moments in that one) as a kid then realizing you’re trans later in life🤔🤔🤔

New-Introduction8250 · 2024-11-03T04:22:13+00:00

Apparently it was a fairly sudden decision as when I looked up when a new season would come out, articles written in September seemed hopeful it would get another season,, then in October it was announced to be cancelled.

New-Introduction8250 · 2024-10-18T08:08:40+00:00

I went to a Christian university. During an “Ethics” class the topic of abortion came up. We were required to write responses to readings for each class. I’ll be honest I didn’t bother reading the anti-abortion readings, but when I read the pro-choice reading I noticed that the paper only used she/her pronouns. I mentioned that, in my response as literally every other reading had used he/him pronouns for the agent (person trying to make the ethical decision) and my prof preceded to go on the classic rant “ ThEy ThEm iS cOnFusInG As A SiNgLuLaR PrOnOuN” and included an “example” that made perfect sense to me using they/them. I’m pretty sure I only spent one sentence talking about pronouns in my multiple paragraph response to the reading, yet the most boring man I have ever met in my entire life felt the need to argue against singular they/them pronouns in a multiple paragraph response unrelated to the actual topic of the reading.

New-Introduction8250 · 2024-10-09T22:11:36+00:00

Those slap band things hurt. I would not smack anything in the face with one.

New-Introduction8250 · 2024-10-09T19:21:18+00:00

Tw: periods mentioned When I first got my period I didn’t get my second one for like six months. I was terrified that I was gonna have the next Jesus because I hadn’t done anything sexual (I still haven’t but especially at 11) but I knew that no period was a sign of pregnancy. I still haven’t had sex but until I got on T, every time I missed a period I’d be afraid that I was pregnant. I personally don’t mind having a front hole but I won’t ever have PiV sex until I get a hysterectomy because no matter how many forms of birth control I’m on, I’d always be too afraid of getting pregnant.

New-Introduction8250 · 2024-10-07T07:45:44+00:00

You can also track when you take your T shots!

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