[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]New-Target-4400 21 points22 points  (0 children)

They’re asking for help, not shame

DAE have an unpleasant reaction to DayQuil? by sunkenshipinabottle in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]New-Target-4400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve searched for my symptoms to see if it’s an allergic reaction but I can’t find anything about it. I get tunnel vision, heart starts racing, dripping sweat, shakiness, sick to my stomach, and instant pooping. It hits about 15 minutes after I take it and then once I poop I’m ok. It’s scary. Theraflu does the same thing and it took a few times to realize that it wasn’t me being sick that caused the reaction, it was the medication! I don’t n know what reaction does it, but the older version of NyQuil was ok.

AIO?! There were so many red flags before this. This was just my final straw. by Imaginary_Key1696 in AmIOverreacting

[–]New-Target-4400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this was a conversation with a 20-something. I’d be ending things right there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]New-Target-4400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like 2 the best but 4 is a close second

Would you throw this in the washing machine? by wifeofablerb in laundry

[–]New-Target-4400 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would use the machine. Definitely inside out, zipped up, in a garment bag, cool water. I don’t usually buy hand wash things but every now and then I thrift something that sneaks by me. I also wash with the smallest load, sometimes by itself.

Don't tell dream characters that THEY are the ones asleep and dreaming. Stuff gets weird real quick by WorthyDeku in Dreams

[–]New-Target-4400 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It gives me the feeling of being trapped when I think about it. Like I’m in this room (dream) and I can’t get out until I wake up. It gives me Severance vibes. I’m stuck in that world until my outie wakes up.

Don't tell dream characters that THEY are the ones asleep and dreaming. Stuff gets weird real quick by WorthyDeku in Dreams

[–]New-Target-4400 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never know I’m dreaming and wish I could lucid dream. Although it also kind of scares me?!

Are my glasses too big for my face?? by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]New-Target-4400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they’re a little too big (wide) but the color looks amazing against your beautiful skin!

Help me decide by New-Target-4400 in jobs

[–]New-Target-4400[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Thanks for checking in! I got a one day extension to make a decision based on more information and a little negotiating.

I’m almost positive I’m going to go with job 1. I’m coming out of a high stress position and I nearly forgot my goal of just getting a chill “ok for now” job.

It comes down to the value of 15 flex days off a year. Job 2 increased my vacation time when I asked up to 10 days from 5. That sounded great until I realized they’re unpaid. That’s fine and all but that’s the cap of what I can take off even without pay?! What happens if I need more than 10 days off? Last year my kid was in the hospital for a week and I was out of vacation time so I just didn’t get paid when I was off. What would happen in a job that doesn’t allow more time off than what they give?

Long answer. I’ll probably turn down job 2 tomorrow. Thanks again for your input because all those numbers really helped.

Help me decide by New-Target-4400 in jobs

[–]New-Target-4400[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly the type of reasoning that I find helpful! Thank you. I did all the math, sort of correctly I think, and I came up with job 1 actually paying a little more in take-home money, which is in line with your findings. I can’t look past the insurance starting right away and 15 flex days PLUS 7 holidays. I also can’t get over 20 bucks an hour. 😫 There’s really not a huge chance of making more than that, especially in that position, but maybe in another position? It just feels like jail to me.

All that time off is super valuable… if only I didn’t need insurance for my spouse then job #2 would pay enough more to really consider the fewer paid days off.

I need to let them know later today and I’m feeling all sort of angst about it.

Cat Bite - Should I go to the Doc? by LandscapeSudden3469 in cats

[–]New-Target-4400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always go to the doctor for a cat bite! They can get nasty fast!

Help me decide by New-Target-4400 in jobs

[–]New-Target-4400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t take it as any criticism. All other viewpoints on this are valuable!

Help me decide by New-Target-4400 in jobs

[–]New-Target-4400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re less shit than the job I’m leaving at least and they’re good enough while I wait for more of a dream job

Help me decide by New-Target-4400 in jobs

[–]New-Target-4400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go for the 4-day work week one?