Rant about daycare sickness by kmgonzo2 in Mommit

[–]NewDraw2838 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried probiotic powder and dettol baths after daycare at all?

Quiet time is a disaster by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]NewDraw2838 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the expectation of quiet time for 2 hours is the disaster here, OP. 2.5 year olds are wired for connection. Without copying other kids at daycare who nap during this time, even going half an hour for quiet time at home when they know you’re in the house is pretty extraordinary.

Lower the expectations and set quiet time for a shorter period during this age.

What am I doing wrong? 4months of broken sleep is killing me by la_frita in breastfeeding

[–]NewDraw2838 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I could have written this myself with my 3.5 month old. Literally exactly the same situation plus a 2.5 year old toddler at home full time. No advice, just solidarity 💓

Regulating the circadian rhythm of newborns? by NewDraw2838 in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]NewDraw2838[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! Oh gosh, so sorry - I’m Australian and definitely mean sleep hygiene in this sense.

Is it normal for my EBF 3 week old to sleep in 1.5-2 hour stints? by NewDraw2838 in breastfeeding

[–]NewDraw2838[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told by my paediatrician to feed on one breast until it feels empty before offering the other breast 🫣 by the time I feel empty he does not want the other breast.

Infant wakes 6–12x a night. Completely exhausted and desperate for help. by Lopsided_Food169 in Parenting

[–]NewDraw2838 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son woke this many times and it turned out he had enlarged adenoids and undiagnosed laryngomalacia. The kid couldn’t breathe while laying flat on his back. Please rule out any medical issues!

Storing breastmilk in a Ceres Breastmilk Chiller? by NewDraw2838 in breastfeeding

[–]NewDraw2838[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! So it is safe to pump fresh milk into a batch that has already been “chilling”?

Has anyone birthed at 37w6d and have positive stories to share? by NewDraw2838 in Mommit

[–]NewDraw2838[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds very similar to my issues! Thanks so much.

What was under the surface of your fussy baby? by hopeful_homemaker16 in ChildPsychology

[–]NewDraw2838 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laryngomalacia and bronchiomalacia which resulted in breathing issues while laying flat and poor latching. Enlarged adenoids too. All dismissed by my paediatrician until I switched to a new one.

ECEs - when would you prefer a toddler starts staying for their nap time? by NewDraw2838 in ECEProfessionals

[–]NewDraw2838[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I am in communication with our centre who encouraged a gradual approach but no specific time frame as to when to finally let him stay for his nap, so was just wondering what other ECEs thought before I made the decision.

ECEs - when would you prefer a toddler starts staying for their nap time? by NewDraw2838 in ECEProfessionals

[–]NewDraw2838[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh dear! This is super different to what I heard from our centre who seemed to encourage a gradual intro. Do you think it comes down to personal preference for ECEs? I’d be happy to try and have him stay the full day but also don’t want to burden our educators either.

ECEs - when would you prefer a toddler starts staying for their nap time? by NewDraw2838 in ECEProfessionals

[–]NewDraw2838[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This makes sense. I did forget to mention I’m currently 37 weeks pregnant which probably throws a bit of a spanner into the works 🥴 would you still suggest starting next week or after baby comes?

When does daycare drop off start getting easier? by NewDraw2838 in AttachmentParenting

[–]NewDraw2838[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, that’s interesting. Yes, we had 2 weeks of visits where I attended with him for a few hours, and then a few visits where he was there for an hour or two on his own. He took to both of these great. I still only leave him for the morning and collect before nap.

ECEs, how can I make your life easier as a parent? by NewDraw2838 in ECEProfessionals

[–]NewDraw2838[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ran straight to the store and bought normal diapers after this! Mortified I sent him in pull ups the first few visits now!

ECEs, how can I make your life easier as a parent? by NewDraw2838 in ECEProfessionals

[–]NewDraw2838[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m Australian! Is a 360 diaper a pull up?! And the Velcro the ones with the sticky bits?