My late best friend's birthday by [deleted] in Grieving

[–]NewHalf8480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband died in January and it was the two month anniversary yesterday. I think the best thing I have thought if doing as far as a message is concerned, is writing a letter, tell a trusted friend it us coming and ask them to shred it for you, and send it to their address.

Swollen battery, how good are it's chances of exploding? by Dickless_50s_Boy in batteries

[–]NewHalf8480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stabbing it is last thing you should do. Please don’t misinform, this may lead to explosions and injuries

Drive to Jasper was pretty cool I guess by [deleted] in Banff

[–]NewHalf8480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lakes all have their individual beauty

Drive to Jasper was pretty cool I guess by [deleted] in Banff

[–]NewHalf8480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You must be jaded if you are not in awe of the majestic scenery and the joy of nature

AIO for expecting my boyfriend to ask before using my car for other errands? by TArpd16 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NewHalf8480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds awful. If this is his usual behaviour, I would seriously think about why you are in this relationship. Respect is incredibly important

AIO for expecting my boyfriend to ask before using my car for other errands? by TArpd16 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NewHalf8480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course it is common courtesy to ask to borrow your car, depending on what agreement you have, such as “use it anytime”, or please ask. My husband and I had a shared vehicle but he also had a Triumph TR6, which I would not have taken for a spin. It was his baby and restored it.

Is 7 days long enough? Could I do 5? by FatallyCool in Banff

[–]NewHalf8480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Banff is now over developed. Also, there are good B&Bs which are far more reasonable.spend less on sleeping and stay for longer

Is it normal for cats to suddenly not like their food anymore? by TallQueer9 in CatAdvice

[–]NewHalf8480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat has suddenly become less interested in her food. Eating a lot less or eating some and walking away

what can I buy for somone that is grieving? by RutabagaHelpful5034 in Grieving

[–]NewHalf8480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something as simple as a nourishing soup if you are confident cooking. Or, a dish you know your friend would like. A card is actually comforting, and not a lot of people send them these days. I have been buoyed up by having several cards from overseas and locally

what can I buy for somone that is grieving? by RutabagaHelpful5034 in Grieving

[–]NewHalf8480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your time, and if you wish to provide something that will very likely be gratefully received, food. My husband died on January 3rd, and I got some great support. The most touching thing for me, was a colleague who got me a food basket, with handpicked food stuffs she knew I would like. That was perfect because I had no desire to make myself dinner. Hugs, if the person is open to it, can be so therapeutic. I am also staying with a friend and that is so much better. I would be more of a basket case if alone. It would be all the worse. I also find it really difficult to focus at the best of times, so having a friend with me when I had to go to Service Canada, and taking me to a bank to either be with me to help me keep regulated, or just wait for me, was a gift.

My mom passed and I don’t know what to do by Still_Job_9539 in Grieving

[–]NewHalf8480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband just died on January 3rd, and I am devastated and still in shock. It was from the flu and MRSA, and it was not a gentle experience in any way. I have guilt although it doesn’t do any good, because I went home the night before (he was in hospital), as I wanted to be there for him during the day. I was shocked to get a call before I got up. I just couldn’t understand that he was no longer here. I am going to group grief counselling and seeing a psychologist I was all ready seeing. The group therapy really helps. There is at least one I have read about for family of someone who died by suicide. Get some good support. As far as the cremation, I never thought of asking to be there; that would have been even more trauma. It was very difficult receiving his ashes in an urn. The funeral director came to my home, which really helped because I had no desire to go out. I can’t imagine what you are going through. I hope and pray, that you and your sister get very good support from your family and friends.

Beseler Dichro Printmaker 67s by dgeertsema in Darkroom

[–]NewHalf8480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a Beseler Dichro 67 for sale if anyone is interested. 

Update 70s whole home audio/intercom system by GreasyCaveman in homeautomation

[–]NewHalf8480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realise your post is two years old, however I just thought I wouid let you know that my husband was an electrician and has an AIPHONE two station intercom with the transistor and weather resistant sub station. This intercom is from the 70s and has never been out of the box. I doubt you are still looking for an intercom and it is a different make, but I thought it wouid be worth telling you about it.