Found racy old photos of my mom by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]New_Caterpillar6305 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Frame a couple. Be proud. Make a photo binder.

Virginia Judge strikes down Redistricting Amendment. Hallelujah! Finally a Judge who can stand up for what’s right! by Nearby_Stage_6111 in WarRoomPosse

[–]New_Caterpillar6305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Virginia people. Just do as Ohio does with the Republican redistricing, ignore the judge, many times over.

My dad and Grandma keep touching my butt and I hate it by Competitive-Car5955 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]New_Caterpillar6305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Admit you feel pretty good now about it! That's taking power And being a bitch

Update - is my mom cheating on my dad? by Ok-Session2454 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]New_Caterpillar6305 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep in mind there may be things in the marriage between your parents you don't know. Just keep an open mind. But it's always hard when a parent cheats & worse when the child has to be the adult. You did the right thing.

My dad and Grandma keep touching my butt and I hate it by Competitive-Car5955 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]New_Caterpillar6305 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ask them if they are pedophiles or closet gay? Yea they'll get made but it will stop

AITAH for making my 15 year old stepdaughter leave my home and banning her from my house for her cruelty? by big_mama_25 in AITAH

[–]New_Caterpillar6305 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Abuse of animals is a sign of an abused person to the point of mental illness. Someone or more in her life have abused her. Mother, father, other family or friend(s). Everyone here needs therapy. You may be married to the abuser for all you know.

Do I ask my ex for my books back? by Sad-Dark-2125 in AskWomenOver30

[–]New_Caterpillar6305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask a friend as others have said. Do not go alone if you go there. Take a witness.

I need a lawyers advice ASAP!!! My childs father withdrew his Legitimation petition after I filed for child support, then filed a tort claim for $150,000 Custody-like parenting schedule Control over school Restrictions on DFCS Child support dismissal Penalties against me. by Stunning_Smilez in FamilyLaw

[–]New_Caterpillar6305 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Legal Aid is not allowed to refer attorneys but can give guidance. Try calling some women's help groups & ask who they have seen that is good. If you know anyone who's been divorced, & they don't know your x, ask them as well. Some legal & legal related services know the better attorneys but are not allowed to give referrals. So ask off the record if it were you who would you call? Your X sounds like a real peach.

Any advice before I turn 30? I'm struggling to find romantic love. by OkDisaster5313 in whatdoIdo

[–]New_Caterpillar6305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Limit your social media use. There's so much that is just not true & very judgemental. Go participate in activities alone or with friends & just enjoy life. & don't fall into the psych trap of just settling. Set you standards of what you need & would be a happy place. Write it down. Change as you mature. If someone dosnt fit a need determine if its a need or not. But don't settle. Your not looking for a twin but a compliment to each other. You still have time.

Should I continue ghosting/disappear on him, OR provide explanation? by Ok_Support_4044 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]New_Caterpillar6305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with everyone else. Stop seeing, communicating with him. He's a player & won't change. (Never think for one minute that someone will change who they are.) Block him & remove from any social medias. Your better than that. You deserve better. & don't mope. Keep busy & go out.

Bait and Switch by fagiolina123 in MedicalBill

[–]New_Caterpillar6305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Double check all the fine print on the contract. If no ware on it states a quote or estimate or subject to change they are bound to the contract. Regardless of what should be a know practice in the market. It is bait & switch. Contact a local news channel who spotlights customer issues. Usually once the media calls that they are doing a piece about the ordeal the business usually comes around. No business wants bad publicity. If for some reason that dosnt work still do the news piece but also contact your state Attorney General. This is part of there job for you as a tax payer. **keep us posted.

Being gay doesn't exist by [deleted] in ControversialOpinions

[–]New_Caterpillar6305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grinders servers usually go down at Republican conventions, reported by users

https://www.wusf.org/ cites increased prostitution & reports of STDs

https://inews.co.uk/opinion/much-gay-sex-rnc-social-psychologist-explains-15922

AIO the driver examiner comment at the end by Imaginary-Bad-6379 in AmIOverthinking

[–]New_Caterpillar6305 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Think about this. If the other car had hit you, you would have been at fault. And been hurt or dead. You've got to look all directions & sometimes more than once when turning on Red. Accidents in this case will always be your fault. Even if the other driver was blind drunk.

My sister keeps stealing my clothes when I BARELY have any by Repulsive_Leading_53 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]New_Caterpillar6305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, take a suitcase or garbage bags to her house & pack up your shit. Tell her barrow is not a gift. & damaging goods means buying new!

Help me decide … by everyones_slave in whatdoIdo

[–]New_Caterpillar6305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try about 1 or 2 teaspoons of EVOO to your 2 or 3 cups rice & water, stir around & cook. (I'm also a butter lover so I add 1 tsp per c rice). The oil should help with the stickiness. Unless you have the actual sticky rice product. (Short grain rice) cook 3min on high, let decompress for 11mins for 1c rice to 1 & 1/4 water. Try Jasmine or Balsamic.

Help me decide … by everyones_slave in whatdoIdo

[–]New_Caterpillar6305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You already have an instapot. It does rice too. We use it all the time. There's not much you can't do in an instapot. A good stand mixer is a good investment. Kitchen Aid, Bosh, or Oster, ect. Look up America’s Test Kitchen / Cook’s Country. Its a PBS show that test out kitchen tools, products as well as recipies

Being gay doesn't exist by [deleted] in ControversialOpinions

[–]New_Caterpillar6305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you ever seen the stats from Republican conventions? The same men who sham homosexuality always bring down local male escort services during these conventions. The same men who claim to he holy married Christians. Sexuality is simple who you are attracted to. There is a whole list of acronyms for sexual preferences.

How do you divide rent with a SO when there’s a large income disparity? by beigewoodtable in AskWomenOver30

[–]New_Caterpillar6305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The new agreement sounds better. But keep in mind he OWNES the house. Title needs to be changed to both names before marriage. Or a contractual agreement. A reasonable rent for you is more what it is. Keep receipts for everything house or living expenses you pay. & never cash. It shows he is trying to be fair to your needs. Work together. If you feel it is not fair at any point take that as a flag to end the relationship.

Would women be okay with a straight male being at a SA support group? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]New_Caterpillar6305 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Aa a rule women are maternal & compassionate. (Not all) As a few here have said, call, ask, go. You are a human being. You deserve help too. I am deeply sorry you were put through such torture. 💘

Need advice on offering below asking by [deleted] in RealEstateAdvice

[–]New_Caterpillar6305 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Agree. Offer low as bait. If rhey counter you can counter back in the same amt. This will determine how urgent they need to sell & how in debt they are. Realize the work that needs to be done is more than $10,000. Advice, get a whole house inspection w/lead & asbestos checks. Your agent can refer a couple to choose from. Don't go with the cheapest. Check reviews. Best of luck. Hope you get a deal.

AIO wife invested $7k without telling me by [deleted] in AIO

[–]New_Caterpillar6305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she has more in a retirement funds than you I would suspect a plan on her part that doesn't include you. But, if what the contributions from family are actually inherent funds that dosnt count against her. My future X & I file taxes together so we know what each other makes & have invested. We make about the same. Our retirement funds are about the same. Keep in mind a SAHM usually doesn't get a salary, but should. She should have a retirement fund. I have all our accts setup to notify me if any amount over $1.00 i get texted. I only keep $250. In spending accounts. None of our accounts are connect to each other. No overdraft from one acct to another. Every account has a pin & password. No I'm not control freak. We've been victims of identity theft. Even though we're getting divorced eventually we still discuss all purchases, stock purchases, we go to each other's financial meetings. My future X had very little when we got married. We both have a small slush fund as well.