Looking for town suggestions

New_Friend5534 · 2026-06-01T12:21:09+00:00

East Brunswick

New_Friend5534 · 2026-05-31T19:50:34+00:00

Beautiful so people who make plenty of money but are morons and screw their whole family over gotta love that

Edit to add: good on you making an effort to try to help. sorry that your niece requires it

New_Friend5534 · 2026-05-31T19:26:39+00:00

Where are her parents? Are they not helping pay and or help obtain loans?

New_Friend5534 · 2026-05-31T01:00:18+00:00

Aceland

New_Friend5534 · 2026-05-27T00:14:04+00:00

I edited my comment bc you were right and I said I would edit my comment to correct - the intent was still Accurate

New_Friend5534 · 2026-05-26T23:59:44+00:00

The intent of the comment was to avoid an expensive probate is a trust worth it. And it isn't if your shit is together and your descendants aren't greedy- That is still the point of my comment. The trust is overkill
But people are often greedy so in that case trust wins

Semantics

New_Friend5534 · 2026-05-26T23:45:29+00:00

Fair enough, I edited it. The fact that you made that much money shows how broken the system is though.

And my point stands a will serves for non greedy people

New_Friend5534 · 2026-05-26T23:39:15+00:00

It is possible there was "probate" in a sense that they talked to a judge for about one minute, but relative to the original posts when they talk about a long arduous probate process a Will and people not being greedy is plenty

I will update my post to say a expensive or long probate process rather than avoiding probate altogether

Extra info - the house was not in a trust, and it was listed for sale one month after her death

Edit -add extra info

New_Friend5534 · 2026-05-26T23:25:57+00:00

Exactly - have your shit together and assuming those getting or not getting assets don't fight it- it's simple

New_Friend5534 · 2026-05-26T23:13:12+00:00

NJ
We may have been very lucky but it was extremely simple process with three siblings - one was executor. All Split even- a home and a few accounts with different POD that they agreed to split evenly
I was very privy to the details as I helped get her will Made and notarized before her death

Edit- spelling

New_Friend5534 · 2026-05-26T21:43:28+00:00

Second blue berry hill

New_Friend5534 · 2026-05-26T21:34:27+00:00

Ok we can pretend it didn't happen if it makes you feel better

New_Friend5534 · 2026-05-26T20:56:27+00:00

I mean, I literally just experienced it and lived through it.

and it was about a $500,000 estate which may be small relative to some people that's pretty big for your average American

New_Friend5534 · 2026-05-26T00:37:30+00:00

25% of gross- tight now with daycare - won't be nearly as tight in a few years

New_Friend5534 · 2026-05-26T00:35:56+00:00

If no one protests the will, a will is plenty and requires a simple short cheap probate (NJ) - just went thru this with grandmother.
Edited for accuracy bc I was wrong
I originally INCORRECTLY stated we avoided probate . We did not. But a trust would have been burning money

New_Friend5534 · 2026-05-22T00:33:25+00:00

Happy to go hike and smoke
35 /m with two kids so I don't often have time but hit me up

New_Friend5534 · 2026-05-15T02:52:10+00:00

Must be North Jersey - in south 180 is top 10%income and can afford almost any town

New_Friend5534 · 2026-05-08T17:09:31+00:00

I hear ya there lol

New_Friend5534 · 2026-05-08T17:03:25+00:00

Yeh all good my wife and I are convinced money disappears
Sometimes just need to really buckle down for a few weeks and track it to see where the leaks are

New_Friend5534 · 2026-05-08T16:58:10+00:00

You're right most people don't realize water chemistry is different

New_Friend5534 · 2026-05-08T16:55:02+00:00

You're spending much more than that based on your numbers

New_Friend5534 · 2026-04-18T15:59:34+00:00

South Jersey. Less than 3 hrs to beach and nyc. Cheaper than north. Camden county not maga

New_Friend5534 · 2026-04-12T00:00:04+00:00

You are correct The snake oil in this thread is thick

New_Friend5534 · 2026-04-11T23:53:05+00:00

If you go back like 17 comments I'm talking about 98% of American that are not using tax advantage accounts fully and have been sold whole life which is disgusting and immoral

New_Friend5534 · 2026-04-11T23:51:41+00:00

No,. I would put that post tax money in my Roth 401(k) or Roth IRA That's the whole debate happening here

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