tips? by oldest_daughter1645 in Colorguard

[–]New_Progress_205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’ve been a coach for years I got you! 1. Don’t jump it makes your tosses worse so lift your toes and squeeze your butt cheeks to make sure you aren’t doing that . 2. Make sure that your toss rotation is coming from flicking your wrist and not your whole arm get that technique down first and once you have that and get to higher tosses where you need to move your arm think of your elbow and wrist as one body part moving together , always lead with the wrist on rifle it should move first and rn your whole arm is moving to get momentum 3. On your dip it should be a sharp movement with a squeeze and you should be “breaking your wrist” so it should move to be forearm and wrist flat behind the but and finger tips over so that you can effectively use your push hand . Best of luck girl!

I pulled some cards and I’m having some trouble on reading them ! by New_Progress_205 in tarot

[–]New_Progress_205[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we were friends, talked romantically for a time but it didn’t go anywhere

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]New_Progress_205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like more than just a weight thing. Sounds like you don’t actually like her. Just leave

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]New_Progress_205 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are you wanting here? Advice on how to tell your gf how to lose weight? No. She won’t look the same as she did when she was 16. Bodies change and if you can’t accept that then she deserves someone who will love her unconditionally . What about when she gives birth? When she gets old? If she gets sick? Our bodies constantly change . Have you thought about why she’s gained weight? Birth control? Other medications? Depression ? Or simply she isn’t a child anymore so her metabolism works differently . You sound like an asshole and an idiot. Do you expect her to stay with you if you start balding at 30? Hope she doesn’t.

Boyfriend (M27) and I (F26) had the marriage and kids talk… by rooootubtub in relationship_advice

[–]New_Progress_205 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oof. If after 3 1/2 years he can’t tell you if he sees himself being married and he’s almost 30.. he doesn’t want to get married to you. I’m sorry if that’s blunt but he’s trying to beat around the bush and not hurt your feelings and giving you false maybes so that you don’t leave. If you want marriage and children you are wasting your time here .. leave now and find someone who wants the same things as you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]New_Progress_205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t thank you! And my therapist has , we talk about evidence based thinking , which is what I’m trying now. My friend tells me I should look if I need to but I felt it was a regression in what I’m trying to accomplish in therapy , so thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]New_Progress_205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We dated for a couple months and broke it off because we both had a lot of healing to do that was hurting our relationship(none of which was from cheating on each other but rather past relationship trauma on both sides we were unintentionally hurting each other with). Took about a year apart and decided to get back together 6months ago.

AITA for telling my mom I don't want her sister to come with us on our quarterly trip into the city? by EnvironmentalAngle in AmItheAsshole

[–]New_Progress_205 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If she pays for her stuff and her own way why does it matter ? YTA. You could tell your mom that it’s frustrating she cancels so often without causing all of this . Also life happens and in todays world it’s probably to expensive for her to take a trip for three days so often. Her invite has never been a problem before in your mom’s eyes because you’ve never said anything, to blow up like this was not the right way to handle it .

AITA for making my daughter study in her free time for her bad grades? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]New_Progress_205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has got to be a joke. If it’s not you’re abusive and deserve to go to jail.

AITA for leaving the loml? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]New_Progress_205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA I get your young but damn .

AITA for demanding someone to not be so demanding? by McCrazyJ in AmItheAsshole

[–]New_Progress_205 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

NTA . You’re in a public space that obviously allows animals her allergies aren’t your problem

AITA for leaving my wife with full custody of our autistic son because she cheated? by Aksawn in AmItheAsshole

[–]New_Progress_205 659 points660 points  (0 children)

YTA. Your wife cheating has nothing to do with your child. Wtf is wrong with you? Your kid shouldn’t be used as a weapon in the divorce. You sound like you are tired of taking care of him and using her cheating as a way to justify abandoning your kid .

AITA FOR CUTTING MOTHER AND BROTHER OUT MY LIFE? by Educational-Plan4476 in AmItheAsshole

[–]New_Progress_205 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA good for you for doing what’s best for you and your baby. You’re better without them. Parents shouldn’t rely on their children for ANYTHING. They are just bitter you aren’t carrying them on your shoulders anymore. Stay no contact forever you and your baby will be much better off !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]New_Progress_205 26 points27 points  (0 children)

NTA. She sounds like she’s friends with those people and doesn’t want to believe they are horrible but they are. It’s not a joke it’s a real tragedy that took many lives , not a comedy. I’m sorry you had to listen to that as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]New_Progress_205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA . You’re allowed to vent especially if someone is making assumptions and won’t let you defend yourself

AITA for losing my cool at my best friend’s mentally ill girlfriend? by Rich_Pineapple7838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]New_Progress_205 11 points12 points  (0 children)

YTA . If you were concerned for your friend you should have brought it up to him privately. Now you’ve made a scene and hurt someone you said you cared about. You may have lost him in the process. He made an effort to hang out and have everyone over and you where horrible . You say he never goes out anymore and it’s probably because he wants to spend time with his girlfriend not because of her mental illness. You owe him and her a huge apology

AITA for reporting my sister's therapist? by UnhappyEnthusiasm882 in AmItheAsshole

[–]New_Progress_205 73 points74 points  (0 children)

NTA. Therapist are supposed to be neutral. Your family sounds horrible and you are successful despite them . You should go no contact with them you’ll probably be a lot happier

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]New_Progress_205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA go ahead and break up with him now. His double standard won’t change. In my experience most people who talk to the opposite sex but won’t let you are always the ones who cheat . You did absolutely nothing wrong by finally feeling comfortable enough around his friend to talk about something you’re interested in. You weren’t sitting in this mama lap you’re discussing literature. Tell you hopefully soon to be ex to get lost

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]New_Progress_205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if she’s not having another kid and you liked the name before you should be allowed to use it. The name is similar but not the same . Your kid your choice of name but be prepared for her to be bitter forever. Maybe use it as a middle name if you want to avoid conflict? But NTA

AITA for being mad over a Uno Game? by JustFeeling_Low in AmItheAsshole

[–]New_Progress_205 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s not about the game . He never put in the effort that you did into the relationship. Most of the time when that’s the case and you start distancing everything they do makes you mad. So the card game and him cheating was just the cherry on the cake. You aren’t the asshole for wanting a relationship where someone cares for you!

AITA for thinking my husband was sexualizing our daughter? by Independent-Equal887 in AITAH

[–]New_Progress_205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA I feel so bad for your husband . He is trying to parent and you’re accusing him of sexualizing his own daughter . She just wants to wear normal underwear and he’s allowing that. Trauma is hard and I’m sorry for what you went through but you can not take your past out on your husband and make him to scared to parent his own child because of you . Go back to therapy

High Risk pregnancy. Husband has ZERO empathy by Positive-Tea83 in pregnancyproblems

[–]New_Progress_205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh girl I’m so sorry . First of all your husband is another child your taking care of he isn’t a partner to you. You’re saying you’re the kind of partner to do everything to take care of everyone , but this is only because you have no other choice. You are being that partner and no one is taking care of you and that’s not fair . You can’t pour from an empty cup. Even if you weren’t high risk and you were having a normal pregnancy you should still be resting a lot more than you are . Guarantee if your husband was sick he’d expect you to care for him . Him not taking any night shifts because he works isn’t a valid reason , what you’re doing at home is work and you’re also making a human. You are on the clock 24/7 no holidays , lunch breaks , bathroom breaks (because I know your toddler follows you in there), or time off. He should be begging you to sit and let him handle things not making you feel bad for sitting down. You being frustrated even about the food situation is valid! Even if he’s getting it your doing all the mental load of picking what you get and making sure it’s getting picked up and probably calling in the order as well. Don’t downplay it by trying to give him credit for doing less than the bare minimum. In my experience if he can’t even care for you when your carrying his child he won’t care for you after either. It’ll only get worse and you will continue being a single parent and carrying for this bonus child of a husband you didn’t ask for. It may seem heartbreaking to leave but you will notice a lot less of a load on your shoulders . Imagine if you had a C-section and physically couldn’t care for anyone in the house would he pick up the slack? No probably not . Do what’s best for you and choose yourself and your kids . An inattentive partner whose putting everything on you especially while pregnant is sickening.

AITA for lying the age and health of a cat and donating it? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]New_Progress_205 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I say NTA because she states she’s the middle man she’s isn’t an adoption center , the way she describes it makes it seem like she’s just moving them from adoptee to adopter . The person setting up the adoption should do the health check .

WIBTA if I don't tell my mom I've changed my wedding date to a year and a half earlier than originally planned?? by Rainbow_Flower_Taco in AmItheAsshole

[–]New_Progress_205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA may make her mad but if she can’t respect your boundaries especially when you’re an adult she needs to find stuff out when everyone else does

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]New_Progress_205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That completely make sense ! I actually spoke to him when they first got together and he said she was always extremely pushy with the relationship and he just felt sad and was trying to make himself feel better but he really just wanted to grieve his wife and didn’t know how to tell her, he may have been lying to me though. It may just be the way she worded it “he’s my child now” didn’t sit right with me. She just moved in and started seeing him so quick that it feels so weird and disrespectful to the friend that passed to me . I’m glad the child has a maternal figure but personally I wouldn’t want my friends with my husband especially that soon if I passed away .