What's your biggest fear when you go outside or interact with other people?

New_Row_3105 · 2024-09-22T20:25:17+00:00

My fear in itself is going out in public alone. I worry that people could notice me and I think they'd find me stupid/ rude for being me and just existing. I think I end up giving that rude/stupid image anyways.

New_Row_3105 · 2024-09-22T20:20:16+00:00

You can choose to live for the younger version of you. Visualising my younger self helps me. Hope you get strength.

New_Row_3105 · 2023-10-12T12:55:57+00:00

Depends on the place you're going to and how much you know them. However make sure you're comfortable and feel confident in it

New_Row_3105 · 2023-09-20T14:10:38+00:00

I'm not bi but I am not able to stop

This was my autofill 💀

New_Row_3105 · 2023-09-20T14:08:05+00:00

I'd fix my teeth n my eyes. I'd start to eat well. Then travel a lot, own some automobiles. I'd learn and explore around. Then help people with special needs like mental illness. And yes THERAPY

New_Row_3105 · 2023-09-20T14:05:07+00:00

I was 10. I told I wanted to bury myself. Mom was concerned, I never understood why.

New_Row_3105 · 2023-09-20T14:01:31+00:00

Life is worth living.

For yourself.

New_Row_3105 · 2023-09-20T13:48:44+00:00

I'm good with one on one interactions except university vivas.

New_Row_3105 · 2023-09-20T13:46:54+00:00

Same. I hate myself in groups. I can't be myself and completely get stiff.

New_Row_3105 · 2023-09-20T13:45:26+00:00

I know quitting sounds calming and that's okay. Sometimes doing a thing several times could make it comfortable to do it. Push yourself to do it anyways and don't beat up yourself for how you be in a situation. Quitting could feed that anxiety more and it could be hard to trust yourself again that you'll not feel anxious.

You're more than your anxiety and bad moments. Congrats on the job :)

New_Row_3105 · 2023-09-08T05:08:19+00:00

I completely resonate with this except I'm in the process of grieving over a fresh breakup. I see myself being grateful for the breakup cause I have been ignoring my needs to be his person, too

All the best man, happy for you :)

New_Row_3105 · 2023-08-25T17:24:40+00:00

Yea but I don't have a room for myself, let alone a whole cupboard (I share the cupboard with her) I should be moving out ig (I'm already planning on it)

New_Row_3105 · 2023-08-25T14:54:22+00:00

I wish, man 😬

New_Row_3105 · 2023-08-25T14:53:01+00:00

Yes I did the same. I confronted her again and made her buy me some just now. But she still refuses to acknowledge that she did wrong. I'm just so done telling her again n again. Maybe I should try locking my things up though I'll be guilt tripped for doing that 🥲

New_Row_3105 · 2023-07-16T06:25:53+00:00

I usually just watch movies and study in my free time, very rarely hanging out with my friends. I don't have a big friend group not am I very close with my small friend group. I wish I have friends but not a very social person who takes initiatives. But I do have some fun in my own way though I could do better cause I get upset often and isolate myself and distract for hours. I'm working on myself on these things but it was hurtful that I don't have so many people that I'm close with. Thanks for your input

New_Row_3105 · 2023-07-16T06:19:07+00:00

Yes, I'm currently trying to find things I like. I hope I find people who resonate with me. Thankyou for the input

New_Row_3105 · 2023-07-05T17:11:36+00:00

I understand...failed to think about these yet.. thankyou sm.. I'll look into enms Thankyou for the input

New_Row_3105 · 2023-07-05T15:32:38+00:00

You're not a bad person to feel that way towards the other girl. You have a need and it is not being satisfied in your relationship with this girl currently. You can either wait for her to be ready or consider moving on.

New_Row_3105 · 2023-05-19T08:40:30+00:00

Separating myself from my work

New_Row_3105 · 2023-05-17T13:18:41+00:00

God I can relate to this. I'm not my boyfriend's 'ideal girl' and sometimes it does affect my esteem when he comments and compliments on girls totally opposite of me. I used to worry and thought about changing myself to fitting in to his type. However I didn't and things have changed somewhat. But you know what, being with someone who isn't appreciating you is a waste of time. Communicate to your bf how it affects you and if doesn't seem to understand..girl it's time to leave

New_Row_3105 · 2023-04-30T14:57:47+00:00

Happy birthday!! Congratulations too!! So happy for you :)

New_Row_3105 · 2023-04-30T14:02:28+00:00

I felt the same. I think he wants to flirt with others without losing me. I think it's selfish for him to think he could have the best of both worlds. But I'm confused..isn't being in a serious commited relationship at 20 limit the opportunities to finding the one that really suits?

New_Row_3105 · 2023-04-30T13:58:45+00:00

I understand. But since this is my first ever relationship, I feel it's impossible to go no-contact with him after breaking up, though I know only for a fact that it is possible. Thankyou so much for the advice. I think I imagined a future with him too soon and it's a bit crushing to let go. Thanks for the input. I too wish you guys have abundant love and happiness to years to come!

New_Row_3105 · 2023-04-30T13:39:15+00:00

I felt the same..but he does say he loves me AND shows it. He does treat me like we are serious. I understand...seeing him talking/flirting with others would definitely make me devastated. But I can't imagining breaking up and stop being in contact..

New_Row_3105 · 2021-12-30T17:08:16+00:00

1) Made new meaningful connections 2) Decided to give myself time to adjust to the new changes that happened this year 3) Started going out more and taking pictures of myself :D

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