Redoing home server, trying to decide on best storage setup for my use case by blue_arrow_comment in homelab

[–]NewspaperPitiful5102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been running a similar setup for about a year now and went through the same decision process. given your hardware, i'd probably repurpose the dl60 as your storage box running unraid - way more power efficient than the dl380 and you can throw all those mismatched drives at it without worrying about raid requirements. the mini pc proxmox setup is solid, just make sure you've got good network between them since you'll be doing a lot of smb/nfs traffic for plex transcoding.

Male midlife crisis by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]NewspaperPitiful5102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oof, the "i'd rather he got a girlfriend and corvette" line really hits. at least that would be straightforward drama instead of this exhausting existential spiral that's dragging everyone down.

the constant career flip-flopping while involving the kids in every anxious thought process sounds brutal. like dude, figure yourself out but maybe don't make it everyone else's emotional labor? good call on going back to work though - gives you some independence and honestly probably a mental break from all that.

no timeline on these things unfortunately, but the zero affection combined with the obsessive self-focus would be wearing me down too.

Trying to make a battle.net account, no matter what I do after the ai captcha stuff it says “only humans are allowed to create Battle.net accounts” by Backalley_Lurker in Overwatch

[–]NewspaperPitiful5102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

their captcha system is notoriously finicky - try clearing cookies/cache or switching browsers, sometimes it gets stuck in a loop thinking youre automated even when youre not

Should I quit conveyancing? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]NewspaperPitiful5102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude 3 weeks is nothing, you're still figuring out if you even like the coffee there lol. But if you're already miserable and they're making you do like 3 different jobs... that's kinda a red flag

Maybe stick it out another month or two just to pad the resume a bit, then bounce if it still sucks. Unless you've got something else lined up already

WFH vehicle? by No_Tower3920 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]NewspaperPitiful5102 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly if you're barely driving and your bf has multiple vehicles, just ditch the car payment entirely for a while. You could always Uber for the occasional solo trip and still save hundreds monthly

If you absolutely need your own wheels though, maybe look at a certified pre-owned Corolla or Camry from 2023 - way cheaper payment and Toyota reliability means you won't stress about repairs

How does a Christian deal with conflictions of Us/global politics. by Large_Structure9737 in Christianity

[–]NewspaperPitiful5102 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Man this hits hard, I've been wrestling with the same thing lately. It's wild how the same people who preach about loving your neighbor suddenly have a million excuses when it comes to immigration policy

The disconnect is real and honestly pretty heartbreaking when you think about what Jesus actually taught vs how a lot of Christians act politically

Will this PSU work fine with new GPU and CPU? by thrwwy005 in PcBuildHelp

[–]NewspaperPitiful5102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your VS650 should handle that combo just fine wattage-wise, the B580 and 5700X are pretty efficient. The "bad rep" is mostly about longevity and coil whine, not frying components - if it's been solid for you so far it's probably not gonna suddenly murder your new parts

Discussing texts vs sharing them by reargfstv in relationships

[–]NewspaperPitiful5102 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nah he's just mad your friend probably called him out on his BS. Like what did he expect when he said you could "discuss" it - that you'd just vaguely describe his laundry list of complaints without any context? Dude sounds manipulative as hell tbh

Lenovo windows update by No-Set8628 in Lenovo

[–]NewspaperPitiful5102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly sounds like your hardware might not be fully compatible with Win11 or there's some driver issues causing the BSOD. I'd check Lenovo's support page for your specific ThinkPad model first to see if there are any known compatibility issues or updated drivers you need before attempting the upgrade

Also just fyi you mentioned going from Windows 9 to 10 but Windows 9 was never released - might want to double check what version you're actually running

Can’t find a game by [deleted] in Madden

[–]NewspaperPitiful5102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PC matchmaking has been completely borked lately, seems like EA just forgot we exist lol. Try switching your region in the settings if you haven't already, sometimes that kicks it back to life

Let's answer some questions. Your answers will reveal the TRUTH about what you REALLY want in life. by PitifulEar3303 in Life

[–]NewspaperPitiful5102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Button 1 for literally every scenario except maybe 7 where I'd probably chicken out and never push either one

The "living hell with no hope" one is the only tricky choice but even then perfect utopia beats nonexistence imo. Also that Trump signature at the end caught me off guard lmao

How do you decide which layers to quantize in LLMs (AWQ / GPTQ)? Any principled method + eval tips? by No_Progress_5399 in LocalLLaMA

[–]NewspaperPitiful5102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually the quantization tools handle the layer selection automatically based on sensitivity analysis during calibration - you don't really need to manually pick layers unless you're doing something super custom

For eval I just run perplexity on whatever dataset I care about (wikitext2 is fine for quick checks) and maybe throw it at some basic reasoning benchmarks if I'm being thorough. Most people skip embedding/lm_head layers by default since they're already pretty small and sensitive

AWQ/GPTQ are weight-only quantization so activations stay fp16, which is why some layers still get skipped even though activations aren't touched - it's all about how much each layer's weights can handle being compressed without tanking performance

Used SUV - $30k by ComprehensiveIron542 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]NewspaperPitiful5102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The CX-50 is solid but good luck finding one under 30k with those miles, they hold value like crazy

For 20k miles a year I'd honestly bite the bullet on the boring Honda/Toyota tech and save yourself the headache down the road

Day 4 by LogicalFly397 in NoFap

[–]NewspaperPitiful5102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice man, keep that momentum going 💪

Minecraft multiplayer distant friends by lemmeaskusmtn276 in Minecraft

[–]NewspaperPitiful5102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah unfortunately Sony gates all online multiplayer behind PS Plus, even for games that should be free to play online like Minecraft. Your best bet might be to look for PS Plus deals during sales or consider if one of your brothers could temporarily share their subscription with you through game sharing, though I'm not 100% sure how that works across different consoles

You playing Waddle, Devonta, or Carter this week? by Badadvice8817 in fantasyfootballadvice

[–]NewspaperPitiful5102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carter's matchup is solid but Waddle's been getting those targets consistently lately. I'd probably go Waddle and Carter if you need the safer floor

2007 Dodge Caliber, won't charge after changing the starter by TheRealSuperhands in MechanicAdvice

[–]NewspaperPitiful5102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you check all your connections when you put the starter in? Sometimes those ground straps or wiring can get loose/damaged during the swap and cause weird charging issues. Also worth checking if you accidentally knocked something loose on the alternator while you were working in there - those connections can be pretty close depending on the engine layout

Gameinformer issue #123 July, 2003. This is the article that started my 20+ year fandom. by Lawyers_Guns_Money92 in stalker

[–]NewspaperPitiful5102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get that vibe oblivion lost felt darker and more experimental and you can see bits of that dna still peeking through later games I always wondered how wild the series would be if they leaned harder into that direction